My boyfriend is pretty good to me, do I need to mind that?

Have you ever thought that he would be so unforgettable for a girl he once loved, so he wouldn't cherish you even more now? But it can be seen from this incident that he is a very emotional person, although he will be difficult to forget the past, but he will not live up to your feelings, so you should be happier, because you have found a really good man, who will give you a lifetime of happiness. It's better to be affectionate than to be affectionate and ruthless!!

Since you care so much, it's better not to force him to forget, but to be honest with him.

Because the past is the past, just a good memory.

Everyone has their own past.

If you continue like this, you're only going to get more and more miserable for yourself, and you're getting more and more tired to accommodate your feelings.

Let it go a little.

A woman can love many times, but a man only loves once, and that is the first love, since you choose to love him, he also loves you, so why don't you feel secure. Give him a little private space for himself, but not too much, the strings will be tightened and it will be paragraphed, and you can consider the proportions of the pull.

It's normal not to forget. It's just that the feeling of falling in love with each other is no longer there. No one can be with someone they don't love for a long time ...

Some people say: A man only loves once in his life, and that is his first love!

It's a pity that you're not his first love. If you don't feel safe, it's best to separate early!

There is no such thing as a shadow, because you are already in love, although there will be some nostalgia, but after all, it is a thing of the past. It's like, you may also, occasionally, at some point, think of not your current boyfriend, but your boyfriend, who is also an ordinary person, because it is unforgettable after all. But, as long as you always remember that you are his favorite now, everyone will recall it, but it does not mean that they will replace you.

Would you mind if your significant other has good friends of the opposite sex?

Of course, I will mind, after marriage, we must ensure that the relationship is single-minded, and there can be no ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, because I think there is no real friendship between adult men and women, and after marriage, we should keep a distance from the opposite sex, if there are friends of the opposite sex who can not hide when they contact with friends of the opposite sex, it is best to turn friends of the opposite sex into friends shared by their husband and wife, so as not to have a bad impact on the stability of the family.

In ordinary life, I will definitely care about the other half, there are good friends of the opposite sex, which will make me insecure, I will feel that he is not dedicated to my feelings, and may lose confidence in the management of this family and marriage, especially when he has a private relationship with friends of the opposite sex or has an ambiguous relationship, it will make me more annoying, at this time I will choose to communicate with the other half, to see if he can keep a distance from the application friend, or give up this friend to return to the family, if not, I may choose to give up the marriage.

Although I would suggest that the other half of the potato rock has a good friend of the opposite sex, but I will also understand his friend of the opposite sex, if Shu Yu is a childhood sweetheart who grew up together or a childhood playmate, he has always maintained a good relationship with the opposite sex, but there is no ambiguous relationship existing, and it will not involve privacy, just a simple friendship, I can accept the existence of such a friend of the opposite sex, but there is a premise that he also introduces this kind of friend to me, so that he can become our mutual friend, we can play together, Eat together, travel together, but they can't be intimate in private.

I suggest that my other half has a good friend of the opposite sex, when he can't correct the relationship with a friend of the opposite sex, I will let him make a choice, if he chooses his friend of the opposite sex, I will give up directly, this will make me feel more secure, I may meet a better other half after putting him in, I will feel his love, if he can give up a friend in the process of falling in love with me wholeheartedly, then I will love him more in the future, Such a choice will also make the relationship between us sweeter and more secure!

Let's see what kind of friend this is.,Friends who spend all day drinking.。 No matter how good it is, it's useless. Don't mind as well. If the best friend is a girl, it still minds.

First of all, you have to reflect on yourself, he thinks you are not good, are you really as bad as he said? If you are indeed bad in many places, there are a lot of bad habits and bad problems, then I think he asks a lot of things from you, maybe it is really for your good, you get rid of bad habits and bad habits, maybe you will be very unaccustomed to it at first, but if you really change it, it is also a good thing for you, it will make you a better version of yourself, is this not good?

But if, in fact, you don't have any bad habits or bad problems, he thinks you are not good, he demands so much from you, and he is simply making you change according to his own preferences, then I think you should be brave enough to say no, isn't it to be happy when two people are together? You're so depressed now, what's the fun of falling in love? Boyfriend should be the most intimate relationship besides parents, if being with him makes you feel very depressed, then what's the point of this relationship?

What's more, he simply changes you according to his own preferences, and doesn't think about you at all, how can this be considered good for you? Even if he treats you very well in terms of material things and usually takes good care of you in life, if he doesn't think about you in this kind of thing and just changes you in his own way, I think this is a sign of disrespect for you, unless you can endure it like this for the rest of your life, otherwise you don't say no now, sooner or later the two of you will still have to quarrel about this kind of thing, or you will have to tear up for this kind of thing.

Anyway, I think to love someone, you have to know how to tolerate her, if it is really like what you said, he is very good to you, then he should like or love you very much, how can he think you are bad? The so-called lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, he should think you are very good, so I think this is very contradictory, I don't know if you have too many bad habits and bad problems? Or did you misunderstand it, in fact, he is not as good as you say he is to you, but you don't find it yourself.

Two people falling in love together should be a very relaxed and happy state, even if there will be occasional quarrels, but after the quarrel will still be reconciled, whether it is in love or married, it should not be a very depressed state, even if you are willing to endure it now, this relationship will not last long, so if you really want to go on with him for a long time, you should have a good talk with him and communicate well.

Everything is relative, and your boyfriend is good to you. You also need to be nice to him, and you have to pay attention to some of your methods. You can improve what you think you are not good for, so that you can be together well and have a good future.

Or do you have to make some changes, if you want to see that this change is something you can change. If you really can't do it, you can also say yes to your boyfriend.

It is normal for a relationship to produce friction, whether it can go on all the time depends on how to solve and maintain the friction between the two parties, when you have been depressed, you should face it instead of choosing to avoid and endure, so that the problem will only become more serious. You can communicate with him, some of his requirements make you feel burdened, two people together is not to change each other 100%, but to adapt to each other within their own ability, that is, to change and run in with each other, so that both parties can walk together to the end.

According to your description and analysis, your boyfriend should be a very controlling person, he is good to you, it is likely that it is only temporary, but the depression caused to you may be lifelong.

Since your boyfriend is very good to you and asks a lot of from you, if what he asks is very correct, I think you should accept it, don't feel depressed, people are constantly growing, and developing good habits is very important for a healthy life in the future. If you feel that he is deliberately demanding and you find it unacceptable, it is recommended that you carefully consider whether to continue dating, otherwise you will be more tired in the future.

It depends on what your heart thinks, if you are too tired to be together and can't change it, then you can only choose to give up for the rest of your life, why bother.

He thinks you're not good, so do you still want him to make more corrections with him? If he doesn't really love that much, he loves him so much, let's separate for so long, I think such a man is terrible, he will not stop.

One is that you change yourself, get rid of bad habits, and work hard to improve yourself to his satisfaction. One is that if you can't change your mentality, you leave him.

If it's not a selective problem that insists on you to change, then let him find one that he is satisfied with. If a man really likes you, he will not only like your shortcomings, but also tolerate your shortcomings.

If you have children, you can live a good life, and if you want to open a little, if you don't have children, you can do it casually.

This is a normal phenomenon, if you care too much, you will be too entangled in the relationship between the gains and losses between two people, and it will be very unnatural to get along.

Strange, it is rare to be able to take care of you for a lifetime. This is to examine whether the person is inherently good. The most important thing is to see if he is kind to others, even to strangers, and if so, it means that he is a reliable and kind person.

Even if you can't walk together in the future, he won't hurt you.

Consider whether you and your boyfriend are suitable for marriage. Never be seduced by appearances or possessions. It is necessary to carefully investigate, mainly to see whether the other party's conduct is kind, reliable, whether there is a sense of responsibility, whether the personality is gentle, and whether they can take care of each other for a long time.

The character of the other party always comes first. Because it is very difficult for a person's character to change in the future, marriage is a lifelong event, which is related to long-term happiness, and it is necessary to be very, very cautious. It is advisable to listen to the advice of the elders and wise people.

Use 200% energy when pursuing you, and 100 150% when you are in loveAfter getting married, you can count yourself as a good man if you use more than 50%. Don't ask him to coax you like a clockwork machine forever.

Of course, you can also talk to him well, are there any other malignant reasons besides being busy? If you are "intimate" and harmonized, not? Are you not used to and satisfied with what you are not used to?

Don't think too much, men are like this, when you chase you, when you are a treasure, after chasing, you will not be so nervous, you are very normal, just get used to it.

In fact, you have the answer in your own heart.

Love will be cold after the first period of time, don't break up easily.

Observe whether he is really busy from the side,,, can help him deliver food at noon or something, observe the people around him and his work status... Or ask him and your mutual friends to help keep an eye on it.,I personally think that if this kind of thing can be solved quietly, don't let your boyfriend know.。。 If he's really busy, he'll think you're being vexatious.

Men are under pressure, how can they raise their heads in front of your family if they don't work hard, and now this society looks at people by their strength, (ask him to bring me something, he will still take it, and he will also give me food first!) This is to show that he loves you, and if he flirts with you every day, you will be annoyed.

Let's talk about it. Believe Him ... Two people can inadvertently have a lot of beautiful surprises...

This doesn't have to be a man's initiative.,We women can also take the initiative.。。 You must have a lot of beautiful romantic surprises.

Maybe he's really busy, small things can be seen in a person's heart, since he still gives you the first food, it should still be very important in his heart... Or it's looking at some other little things.,Mainly to see if he still cares about you.,Hehe.。。 Come on.

Talk to your boyfriend openly In fact, life is already dull, and now that I'm used to it, there will be no psychological gap after marriage.

Maybe he's really busy, man, it's just career-oriented, you should talk about it when you have time.

If there are no other girls around him, it's your problem. If he is dealing with a few girls, it is his problem.

You think he's good because he has you in his heart, you think he doesn't care about you, or maybe it's been a long time, he's used to it, and he doesn't talk to you twice a day, you feel that he doesn't care about you.

You don't know him well enough, sometimes the pressure of the company or family is not optimistic, because men are also very fragile, you have to care about him, know him in your heart, so that you will always be happy.

It's not that he doesn't care, maybe he has other things to keep busy.

It's that you think too much, if a man doesn't love you, he doesn't need to be good to you and bad to you.

Help you analyze it.

First, from the various behaviors on the surface, it can be seen that he can indeed do it, and he cares for you, which is basically good.

Second, if we want to move forward, we must uncover what is wrapped in the good. Because he still has reservations, especially the issues you care about, you must figure it out, so that you don't get deceived and regret it for the rest of your life. For example, whether he is really single, has no family, and what he really does, these must be figured out, and they cannot be confused.

Good to you, just to satisfy your own spiritual needs? Then your situation is not very optimistic. Know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and don't be carried away by love.

Third, test it and get into him, the real life. Let's see, is there something unknown behind his beauty to you? Don't always stay in the beautiful vision, hard to extricate yourself.

In reality, take a look at whether you can bear those doubts of yourself. If you can, then don't hesitate to consider further development. Put everything on the right track.