Can two lovers who have broken up still be friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can still be friends after a breakup, it is because you didn't love deeply at all. You can't be enemies after a breakup because you love each other. You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

    This sentence is a bit old-fashioned. But if you think about it, it makes sense, two people who have experienced something together and then act like nothing happened, it must be unlikely, so they either love deeply or leave

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's right, because the guy has his self-esteem, almost all lovers will stop saying hello after breaking up, because it no longer makes sense personal opinion.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No matter how well a couple gets together and breaks up, they will not become good friends in the end, I have tried to think about it, but it is impossible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you're going to break up with someone, why do you want to be friends? If it were me, I would hate you, how could I be friends with you again?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since they all broke up, what if they want to be friends for the sake of getting along?

    Such words will always remind you of the past.

    Give yourself a fresh start and let go of the past and start anew.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you still think you can be so-called friends, buddy?

    That's a TV scene, and who can do it in life.

    Saints may be, but unfortunately we are not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You go listen to the song "Happy Breakup". You can also be friends after a breakup. It's up to you!

    If you pay attention to this love, you can take the initiative to enter her circle and care about her!

    So I think it should be possible!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be friends when you break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If anything, it's a long time later

    My experience is similar to what you said he was

    It was only after we met more than half a year later that we all let go of our pride and took the initiative to contact her and go out together.

    Half a year ago, we could have seen each other often on the way home, but we always ignored each other, saw each other and walked away.

    Later, I simply didn't take that road, and I'd rather go far away than see her, but time will wear it away, and after half a year, I miss it and overcome the discomfort of being dumped at the beginning to reconnect with ......

    Originally, I said well before the breakup, and I said that I was still friends, but I did it, and the feeling of hatred and love is very sad, sometimes I miss her very much, but sometimes I wish she died early, and it is very painful for the two moods to be intertwined, and it takes too long to forget the previous and be friends again......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be the stranger you know best.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Breaking up is almost a necessary journey in the long road of love; But breaking up also requires art, from the moment of breaking up to bravely entering another new relationship, it is an irreplaceable experience in life. "Good gathering and good dispersion" is fate, and "good dispersion and good gathering" is learning. When the relationship ends, how to refine the courage to say goodbye, let go of the painful past, no longer wax torch into ashes, tears begin to dry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your question in the past.

    Here's my own.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, you can't be trapped because you have loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Now that you're friends, how do you get along with each other, how do you deal with it, and that might just remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    If my own.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your !!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If two people know that this love has no ending, and they also understand that the problem is **, in fact, they can be very good friends, they can care about each other, and it is not impossible to greet and chat like ordinary friends!

    Because both people understand that the other party is not a suitable partner for them, they will not have other ideas, nor will they think about further relationships, but they are friends who know each other best.

    In this case, when both parties are very rational and clear, it is actually better to be good friends!

    However, if one party still can't let go, then it's best not to have too much contact, because then both parties will be embarrassed!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If he doesn't love you, he loses a person who loves him, and you lose a person who doesn't love him, but Cong Jiaoliang gets a chance to live again and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is all to go through, to experience, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and happiness!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship anymore, which will only make me sad and uncomfortable, and I can't go in or out, since I broke up, I will quit completely, and live happily and happily is the only pursuit now.

    I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, and Duan Xuan was once an inseparable part of your life, how can you change roles so that you can see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends?

    No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If two lovers break up, can they still be friends?

    After a breakup, you can be a backup friend because you don't love each other anymore!

    After a breakup, what you can't be friends with is still in love with each other!

    It's that simple! Look at what kind of mindset you and the other person have!

    What relationship? So what do you want to do with Brother Lu? If you're still in love, it's impossible to be friends! Because then you're going to be more miserable.

    If love no longer exists between the two of you, I think you should be friends! Because you've both made each other happy! Isn't it? Although there is pain. But isn't it a good thing to turn your feelings into friendship?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's fake to be friends, do you break up and still have to meet? First: Since you are separated, don't be too ambiguous, maybe there is still dependence, but it is no longer yours, so don't affect the next period of life.

    Second, it will be awkward for the two to meet, and it is impossible to have more contact at all. Thirdly, being a stranger can get rid of this relationship faster than being an acquaintance, break up, don't indulge in it, life or life continues, you have to live more exciting! The previous ones were all floating clouds ......The wind is blowing away.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other, so you can only be the most familiar stranger.

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply, it's a friend, you need care, if so, .........

    Then why choose to break up.

    A relationship. A journey, walking together, too much joy, touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved.

    Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull.

    It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love and no hate in his heart, and he is indifferent to the throbbing in his heart, so that he can become a friend and a lover is so close, and a friend is so far away, and he can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be a friend.

    But the car obviously drove away, even if it returned to the original point again, it was a different time.

    Different characters, different landscapes.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ,...

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    Don't love him her.

    Let go, don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep if you still love her, don't ask her to turn back

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    It can only be the most familiar strangers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    We can't be friends after a breakup because we've hurt each other; We can't be enemies after a breakup, because we have loved each other; You can only be the stranger you know best!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If both parties have let go of their former feelings, then why not be a pair of ordinary friends? If one party hasn't let go, especially if the other party hasn't let go, then being friends will make it harder for him to forget the past, so it's better not to do it. To each his own peace.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After a breakup, you can be friends because you don't love each other anymore!

    After a breakup, what you can't be friends with is still in love with each other!

    If your lover breaks up with you and can't be friends with you, please forgive him, because he still loves you deeply, and because he loves you deeply, he can't be friends!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you break up, you can't be [friends] because you [hurt] each other and break up, and you can't be [enemies] because you [love] each other too much.

    If you really become friends, you will let go of each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, it's because you've loved each other and hurt each other!

    It is best to forget and leave the other party's life circle, otherwise it will have some impact on your future love and life.

    Besides, there was no pure friendship between men and women before, and it was somewhat unreliable.

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