Doesn t my cousin s approach give me some chills, right?

If you really feel like you want money, you can say it directly in front of your cousin, and there is no need to guess. Since you have this idea, it is good to express it, and don't have different ideas on the surface and in your heart.

Wearing a summer uniform to go swimming does not mean that he is **abnormal, don't worry. Maybe you're too young, so you don't pay much attention to these details, which is called youthful frivolity. Of course, if you don't feel right, you can tell him to let him wear a swimsuit next time he goes swimming.

Or, as an older brother, you can buy him a swimsuit, which can be a personal favor.

I deeply sympathize with what happened to you, it's really troublesome to help relatives work, take it, I'm sorry, don't take it, I will suffer again. The so-called brother settles accounts, after all, he still has to support his family, but he is embarrassed to ask for it if he doesn't give it to me, there is really no good way for such a person. If you are thick-skinned, it is recommended that you wait for this year, and find an opportunity to borrow money from him at the right time next year, the amount is less than your salary, and then you should know how to do it.

Indeed, even relatives should be paid to give it away, and it is really inappropriate to do so!

Then you just ask the other party for wages. After all, you have to pay for so many days!

It's a little that. It feels like it is. So how to say this. Right! All are relatives. Should help!

You're doing enough fun, I think your cousin is a little sincere and doesn't want to give

Some people don't take into account the feelings of others, which causes distress to others, which can be really chilling. This person is obviously treating you like free labor.

What he did was inappropriate, so let's have less contact in the future.

I think your cousin thinks so, the two of you are relatives, and he thinks that you are an elder brother and should help him, so he didn't mention the money, but he does it make your heart uncomfortable if he does this.

The cousin's approach will indeed have some.

It turned out to be his cousin.

Be more understanding of him, communicate with him well, and tell him what to do.

My cousin's approach is too wrong, and my cousin's work at the house is also a part-time job, and my cousin should give money.

It's a little impersonal, bear with me.

You just ask for money, one yard is one yard, and you can't trade at a loss.

People who are in a hurry together just because they liked at first sight are often inevitably tired of being together for a long time.

There really will be better ones ahead, but the question is whether you are worth it.

There is no better relationship than when two people can create happiness together in the midst of suffering.

If the other party is single, then say it out loud if you like it. But the promise of a lifetime should not be said lightly.

What's so embarrassing about that? If you pay for your work, you have to ask for a return, and your relatives are really not fooled when they work, which in itself is the affection you give him!

In this case, it is obvious that he is digging a hole for you. Brothers settle accounts so that it doesn't affect your relationship. But he didn't say anything, which is obviously looking down on you and disrespecting you.

This situation is really difficult to do, in fact, it should have been made clear at the beginning, don't be embarrassed because of family affection, if your cousin just wants you to help in his heart? Didn't intend to pay you at all? So, there's a good saying:

Brothers settle accounts. Otherwise, it is possible that you will do your work at that time, and in the end you will offend others, so that you are not a person inside and out.

You can find an excuse and say that you need money for something, but the amount should be less than the amount of money you work, and then tell him that you don't need to worry about the extra money for work, and you can give it to me when you have money.

Then open your mouth, how expensive the labor is now, and there is no edge to take advantage of. Don't help him after you've suffered a loss. Many relatives are like this, and they didn't plan to give money properly on the day they called you, but the cost still has to be charged.

I suggest you keep your tail at work, deliberately, and ask for money when he comes back to you.

Working for his cousin's family, he deserves to be paid, and his brother still accounts clearly, and it is his duty to ask for a salary, and it is a love to not want a salary. Go and ask for the wages you deserve.

Don't be cold, he knows the work you did for your cousin, and he will return it in the future.

Since this is the case, then such relatives really don't have to move around in the future, everyone is busy with their own things.

What you said is very reasonable, you should give him money to work, even if you are relatives, then you can't be an exception, otherwise everyone will feel uncomfortable in their hearts.

In fact, it is normal for such feelings to exist, don't affect your judgment because of this kind of thing, you have to know what things should be done and what you shouldn't do, liking your cousin is something you can't do, but you can actually control things after that, and you need to slowly adjust your behavior after liking your cousin.

My advice to you is to stay away from your cousin, don't regret it because of your impulsiveness, because it may be because your cousin cares about you excessively, so your heart opens a window, so you will like your cousin, it may be because your cousin is very charming, very handsome, it may also be the reason why you like him, and another may be because of the family relationship between you, so it will be like this, in fact, it is normal, because the two people who were originally closer, plus they are related by blood, they are even closer, So it's normal for you to like your cousin. <>

I often read the news that there are many siblings or siblings who have been separated since childhood, and they meet each other and love each other when they become adults, they don't know that they are related to each other, and they can't be together, but it's the kind of closeness that comes out of their bones and wants them to be together, in fact, this is a very normal thing, the world is so big, and being attracted by an attractive boy, I don't think it's a shameful thing, but an experience.

So for this matter, you have to treat it with a normal heart, treat your cousin the same as before, don't let your abnormal behavior make the other party aware of anything, because this is a very embarrassing thing for you, in fact, this matter still needs you to digest it slowly, take it as your own experience, make yourself more mature, and don't affect your relationship because of this matter.

In the beginning, this marriage is not simple, but if you are already married, you have to be responsible for your own choices.

If the family members don't look down on each other, then it is up to the husband and wife to adjust, and the establishment of a family is not so easy.

If the mother-in-law doesn't look down on her daughter-in-law, then the daughter-in-law should work hard and care more about the man's family. Since you don't want to divorce twice, you have to try to find problems in yourself and think about why you have to divorce yourself. As a husband, I also have to talk to my mother.

After all, they are already married, and they still dislike each other for being married, dislike this and dislike that, it is better to live a good life.

You can't just try to escape when you encounter a problem, and you will never be able to escape. You have to live a happy life by your own efforts.

It is also important to note that if the family issue is not resolved, you cannot have children.

You can't affect the child's life because the two are not having a good time.

If it's really bad and you're not happy about the divorce... Each finds his own lover, and no one cares about anyone, it is a political marriage...