Is giving up your seat on the bus respecting the old and loving the young?

Respect the old and love the young" have been misread by some people. Helping those in need is the right solution. It is too unscientific to divide needs by age.

Don't kidnap morality. I believe that people of any age, those who need help should be helped. It is not a matter of course to give up your seat, and the elderly should also respect and understand the young.

Respect is mutual.

No, I used to sit on the bus for two months in the summer vacation security volunteers, I have a deep experience, the rules of the car are written, give up seats to people in special need, there are no regulations to give up seats to the elderly, almost every car has an exclusive seat for the old, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant, you say that he doesn't spend money to buy a green onion back and forth, and you give him a seat? ‍‍

This is excessive propaganda to respect the old and love the young, so that the old who don't understand can rely on the old and sell the old, and let the young people who don't understand form a moral kidnapping. Respecting the old and loving the young is nothing but a measure of moral level. Remember, if you do it, it only means that you are morally high, and if you can't do it, it does not mean that you are morally low.

We are just ordinary people, not people with low morals, but we don't have to strive to be noble people.

My parents have always taught us to help the disadvantaged, and every time I see an elderly person on the bus, I will give up my seat, even if I am very tired sometimes, I must be uneasy. I just sat in the back of the bus and an old man came up, I was surrounded by college students from our school, I didn't notice that the seats in the back were all my own alumni, I noticed for a few minutes that no one really gave up their seats to this old man. I got up and gave up my seat.

However, when I got up, the old man took me for granted, and did not give him a word of thanks or a look of gratitude. Even though I know that there shouldn't be anything in return for helping others, I'm still scared.

To put it simply, it is your duty to let you be in love, and not to let it go. Take care of yourself and don't add to this society. I will give up my seat when I am in a good mood, and I will not let me if I am in a bad mood.

Yesterday, I met a mother and son, and after getting in the car, they stood next to them and said, "You can only stand when you are tired, who let us not!" "Mommy squatting makes you so tired" said that I was so close that I didn't hear what her son said, but I heard her yelling. After a while, the neighbor got out of the car, and he insisted on pushing his son over, but he pushed too hard and the child didn't stand firm, so he let the uncle sit.

Then he let his son pestle in front of me like that, and fortunately I helped her son just now, or everyone would have been pushed down by her! I had to stand up and give up a seat for the child. Shame on the morally kidnapped!

Once on the bus, I was wearing headphones and looking out the window in a daze, not paying attention to the fact that the bus had entered the station, but an old man came up and directly slapped me and asked me to give up my seat to him. And with an expression of how I don't know how to respect the old and love the young. Although at that time, I immediately stood up and gave him a seat.

But it's awkward. ‍‍

It is the freedom of others to give you no seat on the bus, not all of you have to stand and you sit, such parents are completely using their own words and deeds to teach their children how to pray for mercy from others, rather than teaching their children how to be independent and obey the rules. Such a child will not be too promising! ‍‍

Once I took the bus next to me in the seat that the person got up, I was about to sit down an aunt about fifty years old, in the back of me quickly squeezed over, and squeezed me, wanted to squeeze me away, I didn't move, just sit down normally, she saw me sit down and went back to tell her companion that the young people now have no quality at all, and the old people grab seats, chattering, I didn't pay attention to her, because this kind of person can't take care of it, she squeezed over with two people to grab the seat, and said that the young people grabbed the seat with her, and she is very old? I see that the strength of squeezing me is quite enough, and the speech is also full of energy, sometimes always emphasizing whether to give up the seat to the elderly, in fact, those who are inconvenient to the legs or walking unsteadily on the old people as soon as someone gives up their seats, there is no need to consider that there is absolutely someone to let, those who will cause contradictions and quarrels and even start beating the old people are often not really weak or even really old, most of them are those who are about to retire or just retire in their 50s, dance square dance at night for two hours, walk like flying, and grab a seat on the bus.

As long as you give up your seat, it will definitely be! Don't take the good for nothing. However, it doesn't have to be given every time.

Let it be pitiful to you, and not to let it be a warning to warn you.

This is your voluntariness, if you are very tired, you can just not give up your seat, I have met a lot of people, I let me sit, they not only did not say thank you, and did not even look at me, what is more excessive, I went to work for a day, and was severely criticized by the boss, with physical and mental strength, I got in the car, just sat down, an uncle passed, directly patted me, said: "Get up, let me sit".

In this case, I can completely refuse to let it.

In Shanghai, in fact, very few people give up, I think it's normal, everyone is fighting for positions, unless they see really old people and need help to give me up, other people I don't think it's necessary.

We are not obliged to give up our seats to the elderly. The old man who can squeeze into the bus should be in good health, at least much more energetic than the young man who wears the stars and the moon every day. Pregnant women are the ones who really need help.

Let what's the seat? You want to sit in a seat to take a taxi, since you don't like to take a taxi, you will stand, this is your own choice, you can't blame others, when did it become mandatory to give up your seat, it's not that I don't respect the old, you are old and still crowd the bus, your own choice is your own responsibility, why should others give you a seat.

There is not necessarily right or wrong

If the old man is very weak, and he happens to be standing on the edge of your seat, can you not let it?

If the old man is strong and does something annoying (I've met stealers and smokers), don't let it.

If it's inconvenient for you, don't let it go, you have problems yourself, and how to manage others, each of us has the right not to be Lei Feng.

I take the bus to work every day, but what I see is not young people, but old people who go to the park to play. It's annoying.

Everyone is a person who has received thousands of years of Chinese cultural education, you know how to respect the old and love the young, and others should also know how to respect the old and love the young. You have to always believe that if you don't give up your seat, others will give up your seat. Of course, if it were me, I would give up my seat

But don't keep talking about those famous sayings, there are more truths. Not every one of them has to be followed. If you don't give up your seat once, will someone say that you don't respect the old and love the young? If someone says that, they can only say that they are superficial.

We can be good people. But you can't be a good person all the time. Everyone has the obligation to be a good person, and the right not to be a good person.

At a time when the turmoil of making time is all the rage, there are frequent news of some elderly people forcing others to give up their seats on the bus. Web messages are sometimes prone to distortion.

I'm not sure if those messages are true. But when I saw this information, I was honestly disappointed. This country is not as high as the cultural quality, but the ordinary expectation that the next generation will step directly into a very high realm.

Society is slowly developing step by step, so people's cultural literacy is also slowly rising from generation to generation.

If I'm standing across from a very reasonable old man, he thinks I'm going to have a hard time working as an office worker. He won't force me to give up my seat for him, and I will be very comfortable in the face of such a person. All good things are built on the basis of mutual tolerance and mutual recognition.

If it is only one party that is making dedication and effort, it is okay to do it once and twice, and it is absolutely not okay to do it the third time. Some would say, the same as as a person, you will eventually get old one day. If that's the case, I'll try not to take the bus when I'm old.

I think it's a violation, because the physical fitness of the elderly is much worse than that of young people, and they are likely to fall and get injured in the face of emergency braking.

Not necessarily, some people rely on the old to sell the old, and for young people, this situation is difficult to deal with, after all, there is a risk of moral kidnapping.

I think so, after all, you are a young man, and you don't give up your seat, so who should give up your seat?

It depends on the situation, and it is generally best to give up your seat.