Why am I not a person of luck?

If you are lucky, you should be happy, and if you do good deeds, you will also be blessed.

Heavens, who have you spared! Why is it always me who is unlucky?

At this moment, there was a song playing in the headphones, sitting at the desk, looking at the light reflected by the lamp, and suddenly recalled a sentence that I had read before: "From the great and the sublime to the absurd, there is only one step in between." ”

The winner is king, and the loser is the loser. Sometimes the difference depends only on the last step that can collapse in the anthill.

A few days ago, I watched an issue of "Reader", and was deeply moved by Wang Jian of Alibaba Cloud, just like the sentence he read: "There is no road in the world, and when there are more people, it becomes a road." ”

If you're unlucky, you're on a path that no one wants to tread.

Alibaba's internal and external disputes continued, the road to research and development was long and painful, with an annual investment of 1 billion yuan, and continuous efforts for 10 years, and finally the independent research and development of "Feitian" was able to come out.

There are many people who envy Wang Jian's success, but there are also people who feel that his success is largely due to luck.

I also have this humble opinion, and I think it's just the times that make heroes. But again, why don't we have this luck? Why didn't the times make us?

In fact, many times I feel that I am unlucky, just because I am not prepared enough or have the ability to cope with the situation in front of me, so I have to think that God is not beautiful.

And always think that if you are unlucky, your luck will never be good again.

I envy the people who have their own koi physique, and they are very lucky.

Some people are lucky to be born in a wealthy family, they have not lacked anything since they were young, they have the best food, clothing, housing and transportation, and they are loved by their elders a hundred times!

Some people have smooth sailing in their academic careers, and they have received help from nobles everywhere, so they have not encountered any bad things!

Some people are so lucky that they can win the jackpot by buying lottery tickets, and they can also win the jackpot at the company's annual meeting!

I really envy such koi fish, and how I wish I was one of them.

But I have never had good luck, I have never won the lottery, I have not been noticed, I have not grown up in a wealthy family, and I have never won 10,000 points ...... the wheel every day

Didn't you say that a woman who loves to laugh will not have bad luck? Could it be that I'm laughing too little or too little?

Hey, don't think about it so much, think about it the other way, although I'm not a koi physique, I haven't encountered any sad difficulties. Why? Because we are not lucky enough, we will work hard to make it!

People are always born with a lazy temperament, and it is easy to be cautious when they say that they want to do things well, and they can't do it because they are lazy, for example, last night they thought about getting up at 7:30 and assigned themselves several tasks, but they still slept until 9 o'clock.

Hey, you still have to work harder, don't envy the lucky people, how can there be any koi physique, but you can't see the efforts behind others. Good luck is reserved for those who are ready, and God will always have mercy on a person who works hard!

In the workplace and in life, some people are often categorized as being lucky and favored by the god of luck, but that person does not seem to be themselves. In the end, why do some people seem to be particularly lucky, and their life and work are particularly smooth?

In fact, the way a person looks at life depends on how he feels, interprets and acts in the face of circumstances. The good fortune you pray for is in your own hands. As long as you understand the way people think and interact with others, and open the door to good luck first, good luck will naturally attract you.

If you want to make your luck better, you can try the following ways to change your luck and attract good energy to come in.

1.Think about things that are full of positive energy.

Why am I so poor? Why didn't God give me a chance? If you keep asking these questions, your brain will look for answers in a negative light.

In a different way, turn negative doubts into a tool that brings you positive energy: Why are my friends willing to help me? Why is the boss complimenting me today?

Even if you don't have an answer at the moment, it doesn't matter, through these positive questions, you can affirm yourself and feel better.

2.Thinking about doing good to others.

Many popular bloggers and fan group moderators on the Internet mostly start from sharing knowledge with others, helping others solve life problems, and waiting until they resonate and receive attention to get more opportunities to make profits. Therefore, the more people who can bring good things to others and care about how to bring benefits to others, the more opportunities they have to receive good luck.

3.Don't talk about the right words.

The so-called correct speech refers to a theory or proposition that is reasonable, so why say less? Think about it, when communicating or arguing with others, if you are always full of irrefutable truths, no matter how strong you are, you may end up losing the relationship. Because others may think that it is okay, it is all you who are right, and they will stay away from you in their hearts, driving away potential opportunities.

Another way to drive away good people and good luck is to love to talk and not to listen. Whenever someone is in a bad mood and complains to you, you only care about reasoning, forgetting to listen patiently and imagine the other person's mood and needs, over time, no one will want to share information with you, and maybe they will label you as critical and difficult, and you will block your good luck without knowing it.

Probably, there is not a sentence "Destiny is predestined".

Some people can't win the lottery, but some people can win (-

Why do some people have super good luck? Because these people are born with good luck.