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Speaking of this problem, we have to talk about the ladies in ancient times, why those who were officials in ancient times wanted to find the daughters of noble families to be their wivesWhy do they all want to marry a well-informed woman as a wife, why in ancient times those officials would find some teachers for their daughters, teach them to read and write, because they all know that only by reading can they know etiquette, and only by knowing etiquette can they do things, and they know more, so those who are officials want to marry not the daughter of a businessman, but the daughter of a noble person who has read a book, it is because of the woman who reads can really support herself and help herself manage her backyard.
To put it mildly, if you let the current boys choose, do you think they will choose a girl who graduated from high school, or a girl who graduated from a second- or third-tier university, or do you want to choose a girl who graduated from a 211985 collegeOr what about girls who have graduated from graduate school, I think most boys will choose the girl with a high degree of education, because a girl with a high degree of education has her own style no matter what she does.
This era is so realistic, everyone wants their future life to be easier, if you marry a woman who has little reading, then after this woman gets married, she will not be able to help her career, and it is impossible to make her quality of life to a higher level, she is likely to drag herself down.
But if you marry a highly educated woman, she will achieve herself in her career, and her family can help her resist some pressure financially, and her quality of life will definitely improve, so who would not want such a wife, this is a realistic era, if it were me, I would also want to marry a woman who can bring me benefits, and a highly educated woman can bring me the benefits I want, so don't say anything about husband and children at home, this is not ancient.
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Reading more and teaching husbands and children should be the same thing and should not be done separately. Everything we do needs knowledge to support, and reading and learning is a long-term self-improvement plan.
As for husband and children, it is the work and family responsibilities that you must do after you get married and live a married life. In China's secular society, it is usually the male who is the head of the house and the head of the woman, and the husband and children are basically the basic work of a housewife. Of course, with the intensification of today's fast-paced urban life, there are very few women who simply do housework at home, especially the working class.
As a wife, she now has to take care of the workplace work, and she has to be busy with housework and children after work, which is very hard.
Things in the world never happen one thing at a time, but multiple things happen at the same time. Time can become very tight and short, and people will be overwhelmed all of a sudden. In fact, when you have this situation, it is precisely because your own knowledge is not enough, and you are in a hurry.
Therefore, if you want to do a good job in the internal affairs of your husband and children, you must read and study to increase your knowledge. And the housework of the husband and children is not handled, and there is no way to talk about reading and studying.
Therefore, for your question, my suggestion is that you should study and teach your husband and children at the same time, and arrange your time reasonably. Of course, if you are still in the boudoir and unmarried, then there is no need to compare these two things.
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It must be better to read more, now both men and women should read more, now is the new era of reform and opening up, it is no longer the ancient feudal ideology to bind women, women should live their own wonderful.
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It would be better to read more and have more knowledge, the society is constantly progressing, as a woman, you must keep up with the pace of the development of the times, not to be eliminated by the society, no matter when, women must have their own careers, only if they are independent enough in life, they can be respected enough.
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It's better to read more books and have some knowledge, so that you are also responsible for future generations, what kind of parents have what kind of children, parents have knowledge and politeness, and the children who teach must not be wrong.
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Both can be taken into account, women teach each other husband and children, and do not delay reading more to expand their knowledge, women should not give up their careers for the sake of their families, self-reliant, financially independent women are the most attractive.
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It is recommended that women be independent, and there will be no such problem.
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