What is the psychology of girls who don t accept or refuse, and are still happy to chat with you

It is the psychology of "charging" emotional abilities. This kind of "charging" psychology holds the emotional ability to easily get love and friendship in the interaction with boys, girls at this stage are clear about what they want, what they want to ask for in the interaction with boys, and enjoy the process of being pursued, but girls are unwilling to pay true emotions, and regard the process of being pursued by boys as a process of future love practice and accumulation of experience, so at this stage, girls will not deliberately keep a distance from boys, otherwise they will lose the way to charge their emotional ability.

Suppose you didn't confess to her, you think she knows that you like her just your yy. Chances are you've made a lot of hints, but if you don't formally confess face-to-face, the other person can of course continue to talk to you. The so-called non-consent should be agreed only when there is a request, and there will be no promise for no reason when you know that you like her.

Don't always think about other people's problems, think about your own first. If you don't have any problems. You are also single, you are a real community relationship, really, I want to chase her, and after you confess, he does not refuse or accept.

As the saying goes, men and women are not tired of working together. Experience tells us that opportunities and resources are better shared in the interaction between boys and girls, because under the same conditions of opportunities and resources, the unique chemistry between men and women makes opportunities and resources more effective. Therefore, the interaction between girls and boys is mutually beneficial under certain conditions.

Could it be that someone tactfully rejected you, but. You don't understand? Some rejections don't necessarily have to be expressed directly.

Oh wouldn't it be that you didn't understand, or. Don't want to face it, misunderstand and say that people didn't refuse? Not ready to accept it?

There are not no such men, and there are many of them.

I've been in this situation before, and I've spoken out, but she didn't reject me, she didn't agree, and I didn't know until the end that I was a spare tire.

Regardless of whether the other party is a boy or a girl, if the other party knows that you like him, but after you confess, he has to maintain an attitude of not accepting you, but not rejecting you, and has always maintained a communication relationship with you, the reasons for this situation may be as follows. First of all, this girl is still holding a wait-and-see attitude, that is, the other party does not know whether she wants to be with you, and may still have a little doubt about you, because they still don't know whether they can develop a further relationship with you, so they will not refuse your confession and contact, but they can't directly determine the relationship with you. If this is the case, you can wait patiently and use your sincerity to make him feel the possibility of happiness between you.

Another situation is that this girl has a lot of people like you around her, that is to say, his choices are very wide, and it is also possible that he is still choosing among many suitors, so he has been delaying to give you an answer, simply put, you are one of his alternatives, which depends on whether you want to continue to wait, if you think it is worth it, it is also possible to continue to wait with the other party, but you must also be ready to fail at any time. There is another situation that the girl does not have any idea of wanting further relationship with you at all, but there are no other boys around him who can communicate at the moment, but he is afraid of making it clear that if he refuses, he will lose your friend who is chatting, so he will not give you a clear answer, but he still keeps chatting with you. Of course, maybe this girl is just a good intention, because he doesn't know how to reject others, so when you go to talk to him, he may not know how to reject you, so he has to continue to talk to you.

1. I don't want to lose your friend, cherish [value friendship] 2. Spare tire [scheming] 3. I don't take it to heart and want to get along like before [big grin].

She feels that he has settled on you, makes you feel the generosity of others, and tells you that you still have hope and must continue to work hard.

There are two possibilities: the first is to keep it as a spare tire; Second, she thinks that you are suitable to be a friend, not a lover.

I guess I still want to be friends, and I think I might want to refuse againtogetherSomething.

Let you see that you can't reach and still hungry.

It is the mentality that there are not too many spare tires.

The person she likes doesn't have time to take care of her... Don't think too much about it ...

You think too much, maybe the person she wants to talk to ignores her, maybe it's ......good to have a spare tire

One: Chatting with people who chase you will find a sense of nobility.

As a suitor, this will make the girl feel that she is attractive and advantageous, and does not choose to be together, but in the process of chatting, she will feel like being held in the palm of her hand, as the active party in an emotion, the sense of nobility and psychological satisfaction will be very full.

Two: It's weird to fall in love with a buddy

Friendship is above, lovers are not full", it is difficult to make a decision whether to be with each other or not. Girls may feel that they appreciate and like each other, but it is not yet love, that is, it is not the time for each other to have "love, dependence, and commitment". So if you think it's just a good friend, buddy, then you may not be able to accept confessions and continue to be "girlfriends".

Three: It's too fast, otherwise let's slow down for a while, and we'll talk about it later.

A girl friend of mine used to do the same, she told me at the time that she thought the other party was very interesting, felt that she liked him, and the sudden confession was a surprise, but she didn't feel very well understood, after all, falling in love is to take it seriously, so it's always good to know more about each other. (If that's the case, congratulations, there's a play).

Four: spare tire online.

I like to chase her again, I haven't been promised but I'm begged for comfort from time to time, etc., at this time, is it necessary to think about what position the other party puts in them, if you don't like each other, but you still hang each other, and you are not a good buddy, etc., think about whether you are treated as a spare tire......

The disadvantages of not chatting with girls: First, if you are always looking for a topic, the whole chat process will be very tiring. You know, chatting should be a comfortable thing, what is the difference between an uncomfortable chat process and negotiation?

Second, without in-depth topic chatting, it feels like going through the motions, and the whole chat process has no "nutrition". Human beings are sentient creatures, and we can't talk like machines. Therefore, if a guy wants to have a good chat with a girl, he needs to do it:

Girl: It's winter, and I'm still wearing short sleeves. Boys:

That's right, the weather in Guangdong is really capricious, and I don't know how to respect the "beginning of winter".