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The divorce of parents makes children become less convinced of feelings and marriage, which is a very big damage to children's self-esteem and psychology.
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If the parents divorce, the child will have a shadow in his heart, he will have an inferiority complex, and he will feel that something like marriage is unreliable, and it will not help the child's growth.
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The impact of parental divorce on children is still relatively large, children's behavior and thoughts will be affected, they will feel that the marriage is not so good, so it is easy to have some worries about the marriage, and even some people will be reluctant to get married, because they feel that their marriage will not be very happy.
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Children are a mirror of their parents, and their parents' words and deeds are seen in their eyes and remembered in their hearts, and if their parents divorce because of emotional discord, it will also cause children to fear marriage or even hate marriage.
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Serious will make children have a sense of distrust in marriage, feel that the marriage is not strong at all, and may also be afraid of marriage, but as long as it is well guided, it can still have a very healthy view of marriage.
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I agree. Because in marriage, there are always some bottom lines that cannot be touched. If you touch the bottom line, you should separate.
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Identity. Because once you break through, your life will definitely become very bad in the future, and you must stop your losses in time.
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I very much agree with her point of view, because once we step on the red line, our lives will become very bad, so we must leave.
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I agree with her point of view, although some people say that marriage is not child's play, and if there are some small frictions, you can endure the old situation for a while, but if you touch the mold and touch the bottom line, you can't bear it anymore.
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It is especially recognized that marriage is very pure, and betrayal cannot be accepted, and if this kind of thing happens, you must leave as soon as possible.
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As a female star in the entertainment industry, Huang Yi has a relatively high starting point for her development, but she is notorious because of divorce lawsuits. But as a woman, if you touch the red line in marriage, you must learn to protect yourself and leave quickly, Huang Yi claimed that if she touches the red line in marriage, she will leave immediately, which is also the experience she has summed up many times in divorce. <>
Huang Yi advises women to keep the red line in marriage, although Huang Yi said that Huang Yi was silent for a long time after the divorce before coming back, and now the response on the Internet is mediocre, but her knowledge and views on family and marriage are still relatively correct. Huang Yi talked about her sadness in the Great Sister 2, recalling her divorce and marriage, which was also inspired by feelings, she used her personal experience to advise all female friends to be sure to keep the red line in marriage, if this red line is touched, then you must leave immediately, because no matter how to protect yourself is the most important thing, you can't ruin your life for a while. <>
Huang Yi has been divorced many times, which made him realize that marriage needs to have a bottom line Huang Yi, as a well-known artist, married Jiang Kai when he was popular, which also proved Huang Yi's determination to love, but Jiang Kai disclosed the private incident between him and Huang Yi without authorization in his marriage, and with the help of Huang Yi to hype himself, it also made Huang Yi cold to love, so Huang Yi divorced for the first time because his husband did not protect himself and wanted to use himself to separate.
Huang Yi and Huang Yiqing divorced for the second time because they suffered long-term domestic violence, Huang Yiqing used verbal violence and mental violence against Huang Yi many times, and repeatedly attacked Huang Yi during the divorce period in an attempt to destroy her, which were the reasons for Huang Yi's second divorce. After experiencing two marriages, Huang Yi also deeply realized the importance of red lines in marriage. <>
Divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is that she can't recognize the facts When facing the second divorce, Huang Yi actually hesitated, but her family gave her a lot of support, and she couldn't ruin her life for a moment of patience, so Huang Yi insisted on the red line in marriage. Many female friends have the same idea as Huang Yi in life, but marriage will not get better because you swallow your anger, but will let yourself fall into it and can't extricate yourself, so no matter what the situation is, you must keep your bottom line and principles, once someone touches your red line, you should resolutely fight back and leave immediately.
For female friends, it is very important to protect themselves and protect themselves in marriage, and they must have the bottom line in their hearts and never back down. Huang Yi experienced two divorces before she realized the importance of the marriage red line, and used her personal experience to warn female friends that she must keep her marriage red line, and she is also very brave.
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This should be the main reason why she has divorced many times, because he can't tolerate it when facing his bottom line, so he will choose to divorce, which is very direct.
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Yes, Huang Yi is very conceptual about his marriage, and the first few marriages are indeed not optimistic, and her husband is very unreliable, so she has divorced many times.
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Maybe, yes, because Huang Yi has his own opinions, and the bottom line is also very good, so once someone violates him, he will divorce.
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No, Huang Yi is actually a person who yearns for happiness very much, but her last marriage brought her a shadow, so now as long as she touches the red line, she will stop the loss in time, and she will definitely not choose to settle.
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Yes, it is because I have experienced so many such things in my marriage that there are so many failed marriages.
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I think so, because Huang Yi has his own principles in his relationship and will not compromise with others easily.
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Yes, each of us has our own bottom line, and we shouldn't do things that touch the bottom line, and I support this very much.
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Yes, there are many things in her marriage that violate her principles, so she chooses to divorce.
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I think this is probably the main reason for her many divorces, once she touches the red line in the marriage, she will leave immediately, which is indeed largely responsible for her divorce, and some of it is due to her psychological aspects.
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Yes, it is very likely that it is because he violated his bottom line in marriage, so he broke up with divorce every time.
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I think yes, she's a very principled person, very powerful, and doesn't go against her will.
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Huang Yi is the goddess of many people's childhood, after all, we also grew up watching "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang", Huang Yi was still very young and innocent at that time, and Du Bingyan played by him was simply too smart, with a pair of big eyes as if he could speak. After his debut, Huang Yi's career development is very good, but Huang Yi's relationship is not smooth, especially the relationship with Huang Yiqing, which really broke his heart. Presumably everyone knows that there were ups and downs at that time, and all kinds of news about Huang Yi's domestic violence emerged one after another, which led to Huang Yi always being very inferior in his relationship.
One: I can't break through the love word by myself. Huang Yi also said in an interview that the most unbreakable thing in his relationship is a love word, since ancient times, love is the most hurtful, who in the world can escape a love word, the feeling is getting deeper and deeper, and he can't extricate himself from it, even if he wants to escape again, he still can't escape.
This is the feeling that love words bring to everyone, love is the most happy, and it is also the most hurtful. Huang Yi also can't break through a love word, he is too emotional and persistent in terms of feelings, so that he will often be hurt. <>
Two: I have always been in a state of lack of love. Huang Yi attaches great importance to inferiority in his feelings, because he has always been in a state of lack of love, and he really wants to get love from others, so he will be hurt in the end.
Huang Yi is also relatively sober about his feelings, that is, when he learns to ** himself, he may meet the right person to come to his side, otherwise he may still be hurt. <>
Three: Still eager for marriage. Although Huang Yi has experienced a failed relationship, he is still in a state of longing for love, and he still hopes that someone who loves him can come to his side, but he is a little unconfident.
Everyone has the right to love and be loved. <>
There may be some shadows in Huang Yi's heart, but feelings are like this, there will be happiness and heartache, each of us has the right to love and be loved, even after experiencing a failed relationship, we still have the confidence to face a new life, meet the right person, and start our new life, which is what we should do at the moment.
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Her failed and hurt marriage with Huang Yiqing, she blamed herself for being too emotional and persistent. She is still full of desire for marriage and love, but she may be worried that she will lose the ability to love others.
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She bluntly said that she couldn't break through this love word in her life, and it was not difficult for people to feel that a failed marriage had brought her a lot of damage. I am too emotional and persistent in terms of feelings, and then I am easily hurt.
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is the reason for her appearance, she feels that her appearance is not up to par, and her charm is not enough, so she will always have low self-esteem, and every time she finds an object, the conditions are very good, and she will be inferior in comparison.
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Huang Yi's inferiority complex in the relationship is mainly due to the hurt she has suffered in her feelings. Once she was bitten by a snake, she was afraid of the well rope for ten years, and she was already physically and mentally tired by Huang Yiqing.
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Yes, Huang Yi also talked about this matter in a speech on the show. As a star, her acting career can be said to be relatively successful, from "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang" to "Huanzhu Gege 3" are all popular dramas known to everyone, and the movies she starred in have won many international awards, but she is so good in her career, but she is quite bumpy emotionally.
Later, the more you know, the more you understand the reason, because Huang Yi grew up in a divorced family since he was a child, raised by his grandparents, and left the company of his parents, he must be very insecure in his heart, so once he has a relationship, he especially wants to draw the love that he lacked when he was a child, and it is especially easy to indulge in love and forget himself, so it is not easy to distinguish the good or bad of the person in front of him, so Huang Yiqing's character is so scummy, she still fell in love and married him, and gave birth to a child. It may be inevitable that there will be a connection for a lifetime. The most important thing is that because she has lived in a broken family since she was a child, she doesn't understand what the family model of normal people is like, and she doesn't know how a happy family works. Therefore, such a person should first make himself independent, love himself first, and become a less insecure person before investing in the relationship.
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The emotions of this original family will also have an impact on people, but although it is separated, this is the same as the original family. It could also have a big deal.
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His emotional failure does have a certain relationship with his family of origin, and his family of origin will have a lot of influence on him.
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If the situation of the original family is very bad, it will have a psychological impact, and the biggest impact is that you will not trust others easily, etc.
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Huang Yi's two husbands have publicly scolded her.
The first Jiang Kai once posted: "The biggest regret in life is to meet you, and the happiest thing in life is to leave!" ”
The second Huang Yiqing once posted: "People pretend to be shy in front of people, and become vulgar later, and even falsely report their age, beating and scolding children!" ”
Huang Yi and Nie Yuan were found to be in love <>
When they first debuted in the filming of "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang", Huang Yi and Nie Yuan were already a couple in love, but they were afraid of being discovered by the crew, so they pretended to be unfamiliar.
It wasn't until one time that the two quarreled and started to move, Huang Yi got angry and ripped off Nie Yuan's hood, Nie Yuan was not to be outdone, and knocked Huang Yi's head flower off, this scene was accidentally seen by the staff, and the relationship between the two was discovered.
Most couples who quarrel and do things will eventually part ways because of personality differences, and the two are like this, so they can't get together in the end.
Both marriages were unhappy and she was scolded by her ex-husband <>
Maybe it was because she had too strong a purpose, Huang Yi didn't seem to be going well in the relationship later, she said: "The first time I got married, I got married because I wanted to get married, and the second time I got married because I especially wanted to have children", now recalling, she sighed: "What a bad view of marriage!" ”
It was marriage that caused her acting career, advertising, and film appointments to come to a standstill, and it wasn't until recently that everyone saw her again.
Huang Yi's black material affects the <> work
Because she has been deeply hurt by "scandals" and "black materials", many directors and producers once dared not look for her to film, because her condition was too unstable and unsafe, for fear that after she was activated, something would suddenly break out about "private affairs", which would affect the progress of the entire project!
Huang Yi's marriage was a failure, she herself said that these two marriages were like a nightmare for her, in fact, the reason why there are so many "marriage tragedies" now, in the final analysis, is that many people can't stand the pressure of the environment or misunderstand love.
There is a situation that when people grow up, their life trajectory in qualitative thinking should be: work, get married, have children, and start a family.
Therefore, when everyone reaches a certain age, under the pressure of their parents urging them to get married, and under the pressure of their classmates and colleagues going to the marriage hall one by one, they will feel that they have reached the age and should do this thing, so they begin to find a partner, get married, and have children, just like catching up with the schedule.
There is also a situation where you are full of fantasies and desires for love, and this situation may be that you have watched too many idol dramas.
So I dream of becoming the hero and heroine of the story, there is always a fairytale love, so I have to find someone to live with no matter what, I feel that if you are married, you can "despise" those who are not married, and if you have a baby, you can "despise" those who have not given birth to a baby, and unconsciously form this strange "chain of contempt".
Epilogue. In fact, many people are calm and rational, and they are prone to impulsiveness and emptiness when dealing with feelings, but the truth of marriage is:
Marriage does not mean happiness, single does not mean unhappy, we are born alone, and it is impossible to leave at the same time in the end, love is a spiritual luxury, there is better, no is okay, force not to come!
True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsYou will be happy when you see the person you love happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!
Time will tell, so let's start with ordinary friends. Then feel good for yourself during the time you are friends and see if he is reliable and meets your requirements. When it comes to reality, the odds of success are slim. >>>More
What should I do if I have a relationship crisis? We must do a good job in these three points, 1Don't deny yourself, you can be disappointed, but don't despair; 2.Love yourself well; 3.Don't dwell on it too much.
I think divorce should be chosen. Although such a choice is more painful. But the person who betrays his feelings, even if he redeems him, will not redeem his heart.
Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Reset yourself to zero often, every day is a new starting point, there is no age limit, as long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, you will win more chances to win. Learn to care for yourself, only by caring for yourself, can you have more energy to care for others, if you have enough ability, you should try to help the people you can help, so that you get a few happiness, help others more and be kind to yourself, because helping others is also a kind of happiness, which is also a way to reduce stress.