If you had someone who was super super eager to meet, would you put it down and go see her?

Yes, and did, but it may not be in the future, a few months ago I was on a business trip in a certain city, the project was particularly important, my boyfriend told me to break up without warning, I immediately returned to my city without any care, cleaned up, immediately went to his city, at first I didn't tell him, I went to walk all the roads he would walk alone, perceiving everything he perceived, in the evening people are not as rational as during the day, call him ** and say I'm in your city, okay, people are very cold and don't want to see me at all, and finally it was quite embarrassing, I won't do such a stupid thing in the future, even if I really want to see each other, I have to rationally analyze whether I should see each other, whether I can bear everything that happens when I meet, and whether the work that I put aside can be solved, these must think about the problem from the perspective of an adult, and then take action.

If there really is someone I really want to meet, I won't drop everything to meet him.

If you are still young, you can go, the only way at this age, there will be such a person in your heart, after you go, it may be cold water, it may be disappointed, but on the way to go, it must be beautiful, the mood is excited, look at the scenery, comfortable or not, the farther the road the better.

When I was young, I will, that was what I had to do at that age, but now I won't, keep the last point, think about the space, isn't it beautiful, I keep thinking about it, why do I go to see it, save the time when I am in a daze, I have nothing to do, live a good life now, protect the people around me, and take the time to think about it in my spare time, no problem. ‍‍

If I especially want to see someone, I will not drop everything in my hands to meet him, I will wait for him to come to see me, I have always thought that if I especially want to see someone, even if this feeling is love, I will not take the initiative to see him, even if I love him more than he loves me. ‍‍

In the past, I would, but now I will not be so reckless, but will plan in advance, find a time to go, in the past, I also had the kind of free and easy to go, as long as I decided to do what I wanted to do, nothing could stop me, what I want to say is not to meet the person I want to see, but to go with the person I want to see.

I've experienced it, I really want to be alone, first make sure if he also wants to see me, understand my heart and accept it, I will overcome all difficulties, go to meet him, and leave no regrets for my feelings, this practice is at the stage when I first fell in love. ‍‍