How do you deal with this relationship?

In fact, such a situation happens from time to time in our daily life, and movies and TV also have such themes. Usually there is only one such outcome, and that is one side compromises with the facts. In fact, the values of Shanghainese people are still conservative, and with your conditions and abilities, I guess it will be difficult to change their prejudices.

In fact, you are just a substitute for this boy, just a transition of his feelings. He can talk to other girls, and he is also squandering your feelings. And you even said that you don't feel that he doesn't care about you very much, and you don't really care about the truth of his love for you, but just value his ability.

Then I can tell you responsibly that there is absolutely no future between you and him, and this relationship mixed with use must be dead and dead.

It's better to give up such feelings! If this boy is brave enough! Love this girl enough!

He'll definitely show this girl to his family! There is something that can be faced by the two of them together! Family members are not so ruthless sometimes!

As long as it can prove how deeply they love!

The boy didn't take her home! How do you know what your family thinks! This shows that the boy's subconscious view of this girl feels that the girl and him are not the right match!

In this way, even if the family agrees, who dares to guarantee that the boy will not think like that for so many days to come! Or even do that! What's more, he had other girlfriends before

Sometimes boys just need someone to surround themselves around! Maybe there will be another opponent who is a slight threat to girls! The relationship between the two of them can't last!

I'll be honest with you, you don't have to be too sad, a boy doesn't love a girl, and if he loves a girl a lot, he will be with her regardless of the pressure. If two people really love each other, they will be together despite all difficulties, he is very hesitant now, it's just that he can't bear to hurt you, he doesn't love you, if it goes on like this, it is still himself who will be hurt. The main thing is that you want to open some, you will live well without him, and you will find someone who loves you in the future, although it is very painful, but time is the best medicine, and as time goes by, you will slowly forget him.

What do you think?

If you want to know what to do, first ask yourself: do you want to fulfill yourself or the man!

Then, don't think of yourself as a matter of either union or separation, success or failure, which even God can't choose, give each other some space, give each other some time.

After some calm thinking and consideration, you will all make a wiser choice

Instead of wasting your youth by pinning your future on someone you don't love, it's better to find someone who is sure to love you and live with you.

The boy is just reluctant, just a temporary emotional sustenance, not real love! Girls should look at external conditions more than love itself! There are a lot of capable men! It's better to believe in yourself than to believe in others! Learn to be independent and confident!

There is no future! Let it go! It's good for everyone! Better a finger off than always aching!

Advice is good for deeds!

If I were this girl, I should have immediately freed myself from this hopeless relationship. Because if you continue to entangle, it will not do you any good, it will only do you more harm.

This man doesn't love this woman at all, can't this woman see it?

Although the reality is so cruel, don't lie to yourself anymore, the sooner you sober up, the sooner you will get the chance to regain happiness.

You know, the girl is you

I don't think he really loves you

That's just an excuse

Maybe that's what he thinks of you in his own heart

If you think about it from a different angle, won't everything be clear?

If you are him、You really love each other、

Would you say something like that?

Give up and find your own

Those who love you, who cares about you, who understand you

Don't continue this relationship, it's pointless.

When the time comes, you'll be the one who will be hurt

You have to have your own life

Don't feel like you still can't let go

It's not that hard, as long as you still want to live a good life

As long as you have faith in yourself、

Then you can do it

I don't think you're going to have any results.

He always makes excuses not to see your family, which shows his worry and cowardice.

For girls, the most precious thing is not I love you, but marry me.

He won't even see your parents, and even if you are in love, he won't give you complete happiness.

Give up before it's too late.

You must be that girl. Do you think he really loves you? I'm not afraid that you'll be angry.

I don't think so. Not at all! Listen to you, his family is rich.

You must be the only girl who is good to him. If he really loves you, he will do his best to convince his family to approve of you. Instead of moving conditions to suppress you!

I don't know if you understand what I mean. There is nothing remarkable about being rich. Material things depend on the hard work of two people, and that is called real wealth!

I hope you remember one of my sayings: the best is not necessarily for you. But the right person for yourself will definitely be the best!

In this way, it seems that there is no future for 2 people, and there is nothing to be nostalgic for such a love, although the current separation will be heart-wrenching, but this is the happiness in the future! If it goes on like this, only the girl herself will be hurt, and the man will not feel sorry for such love, because he has not been introduced to his family for 2 years, what is this? Personally, I don't like Shanghainese because they discriminate against outsiders, which is what I have learned from my time in Shanghai.

It's better to be early.

This is not real love, don't be attached to it! He is not suitable for you, and he can betray you in the days of separation, and you can also see that you are not important in his heart. And don't just value a man's ability, improve your own ability, his heart for you is the most important!

Girls should ask themselves what exactly they want the outcome to be? If a boy truly loves a girl, he will introduce her to everyone around him, including his own family.

Without extravagance, there can be no disappointment;

If you don't pay, you don't care.

It's clear that men are very unreliable. Love girls at all!! So I won't see my family, and I'm looking for a girlfriend. To put it mildly, in his heart, the woman is just a life seasoning. Anyway, I wouldn't love a boy like that.

Give up, I also think my boyfriend is capable now, but a year or two has passed, and there is not necessarily much change, and I want to give up now.

Adulterated feelings, feelings stifled by the world, you will not have a future, it is urgent to leave early, that boy will not pay for this relationship.

The main thing is that the man's love is not deep enough. Women may really have a certain actual gap with men! If it's not suitable, it's a big deal!

The girl asked the boy, "When will you introduce me to your family?" ”

But the boy was either silent or he just changed the subject.

The boy's answer to the girl was, "How do I tell my family?" Could it be that we met online? They won't agree?

1. They didn't let me find girls from other places.

2. They say that family conditions should not be too different.

3. The academic background should not be too different.

I want to say it. That's not a problem in the first place. And he shouldn't use such a reason as an excuse at all. If you know you online, you can meet online. What's the problem?In short, I think the answers he gave above are just eye protection

Such a boy is not worthy of a girl's love, and liking someone should not make a girl sad, nothing is wrong.

Go with the flow, don't force it.

Complicated love has no results.

Say what you think about each other