Will I be able to continue my relationship? Seek help! Thank!

It's just that the nose is not straight, what's wrong with it not looking good??? These parents are too traditional and superstitious, and who says that this has anything to do with whether the next generation is beautiful or not,,, there is no scientific basis!!

I can see that you are a very good girl, and you will also be a virtuous and diligent and gentle wife in the future, there is no perfect person, if you don't cherish the existing one, you will lose everything, I believe, they missed you this good daughter-in-law, it is really difficult to find a second one, if they are so persistent in opposition, I believe they will regret it in the future!

It's up to your boyfriend to help you communicate with his parents, if not, just fulfill them, and if your boyfriend is very determined to be with you, don't give up on him! There are really few good men!! We must cherish our predecessors!!

Hold on to your happiness!! Meeting him is also your fate in this life!

It is important to ask your heart, if you love each other enough, in fact, you are already very happy, like this kind of problem, you can't be in a hurry, you can only take your time, first find a way to calm your parents' hearts, slowly do their ideological work, to believe in love, nothing can't be, persistence is victory. My boyfriend's parents love him as much as you do, and there's no reason not to make him happy, isn't it?

Actually, a person's appearance is not that important! If you really want to be with him! You have to try to let his parents know what you are shining in! It will only take a while to get them to recognize you! Go for it!

Don't hide and don't be afraid. Just go to his house if there is no such thing, and chat and eat with his parents when there is no such thing, so that they can understand your goodness.

If you don't go to their house because of their opposition, they have even more reason to object.

If you don't want your boyfriend to be difficult, be generous. It's a big deal not to live with them in the future.

I'm not afraid, and I'm not going to follow it for a lifetime.

When you're married, you don't like not to move out.

But I think if you really get married, his parents won't embarrass you, you are so happy, have such a good boyfriend, take advantage of it!

Why don't you resist when they break you apart like this?

Why do they have such a right?

A person's happiness depends on oneself to strive for, and if you keep quiet, I don't think fate will change because of this.

Strive for your own happiness, otherwise you will regret it later.

Are you talking about this person being me?

How is it exactly the same as my current situation, even going to eat his mother's birthday.

What I'm doing now is just ignoring his mom and dad.

My boyfriend kept telling his mom and dad that I was fine, so now his mom and dad have now agreed to get engaged next year.

But I don't want to go to their house at all.

As long as you do your best, you don't care about anything.

There are so many handsome guys in the world, why do you love him.

With all due respect: your father is too big and his mother is not assertive.

The crux of the matter is how your bf treats you, it's been 4 years, and you should have judgment!!

In this way, only when you lose it will you know how to cherish it.

Try to make them see your good in front of their parents and change their perceptions.

If they still see you that way, be prepared. If you love your boyfriend enough and have the courage to challenge this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, work hard with your boyfriend, after all, you are married.

If you don't have the courage to do it, divide it.

I don't think you want to be separated from your boyfriend. So it is recommended that you choose the first one.

It mainly depends on your boyfriend and, of course, your parents"Blowing"Sometimes it's important, but if you really love each other, it's not a big problem!

What you should do now is to go with the flow, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, but you also have to have a good relationship with your parents, usually greet more, call **, during the New Year's Festival, contact more, and the transformation of the old man will be very soon!

Trust yourself and go with the flow Things are simple and not as serious as you think.

I really sympathize with you after reading you write this. There have been many injustices in love from ancient times to the present, from the Cowherd and Weaver Girl, Liang Shanbo Zhu Yingtai, Romeo and Juliet, you don't want to give up I can see that boyfriends and you are in the same heart is the best, their parents can't be with you for a lifetime, you marry him not your parents. You have to persevere until the end, don't give up, I'm also a post-80s generation, I'm in college, my girlfriend has been for two years, and I'm unhappy but it's all good, I hope you can be happy and happy, if you want to make a friend and talk 109182000 more.

If you have a certain emotional foundation, I think you should continue to do so. Neither of you should doubt the other, and if you have doubts, it means that you don't love each other enough. Then there is no need for this relationship to go down.

Do you think you can?

Don't pay too much attention to what his parents say, as long as you truly love each other, nothing can stop you. You are marrying their son, not them, and you must not give up.

You love each other with all your heart, and you don't care what they say. But you can't run away from it, you should go to his house often, right? In this way, it may be a long-term relationship.

You can't avoid it, you have to face his parents head-on. Explain everything clearly to your face and believe that you are the most important thing.

Alas, how can this society be like this, every parent stands up against the marriage of their children. If you feel dissatisfied, you will stand up against it.

It's not like I'm getting married, why are you doing this?

My girlfriend was also strongly opposed by her family, which was painful.

Find out what he really thinks about you, whether he doesn't love you anymore, borrowing from his parents' mouths to express it.

Depend on... Don't let such a family go, they don't know how to appreciate it is their business, and there is no reason to let themselves live so distressed because of their words!!

It's divided.

After getting married, you have to suffer.

If you think about it, you two have a baby, and his parents have something to say.

The key is your feelings, and your parents can't control them.

Nothing, hope is still there, love will not be extinguished

Happiness is up to you.

You can't win 'em all!

Learn to give up.

Since she chose you, she won't mind your birth environment and prove that you have something in you that she likes. If you feel that the pressures of your future life are making me less and less attractive to her, then keep in touch with her every day and surprise her once in a while and talk about something interesting. At the same time, you are mentally prepared to come out to work and work hard to make money.

Care more about her and accompany her, the most important thing for a woman like her is to care.

In addition to constantly improving your own abilities, you are also adding small surprises! The two go hand in hand, and the most important thing is to be honest with your heart, and the love affair will be as solid as a rock!

Oops, your question is classic. I watched it from beginning to end and it took me a few minutes.

From the beginning of you to a lot, the first time. To the later, slowly, apathetic.

The process in between is very sweet. But there is one thing you are offended. Everyone needs space and time.

You squeeze his time and space without a breath. That's why he's indifferent to you, she needs to rest! She lives in a tense relationship every day.

He will be tired, he will be tired. Plus your various suspicions. Your attitude towards him will also change, but you don't know it.

This time in his heart. He loves you, but his current attitude towards you is not sure how long you can love him, I don't think there is anything wrong with either of you, just that this kind of psychological warfare will happen in love! Actually, it's nothing.

I'll teach you a trick of my own. Be good to her in everything you do. Be worthy of the sky, worthy of yourself.

And let your heart be as wide as you can. Be sure to be tolerant of her! She needs more than just you to love him.

What is needed is your understanding, your tolerance. And you really care. He needs to eat as usual.

Of course not, you have to buy everything for him, but you have to at least have this in mind. He can do it himself, as much as he can, and he still does it himself. If he has limited abilities on his own, you can help him.

I feel like you two still love each other. At least in the process, neither of you has two minds. It's just that inexplicably, the two of them are indifferent.

He's just with you, it's too stressed, there's no room to be unhappy. That's all.

Seeing that you have written so much, it must be quite tiring, but emotional matters are not something that outsiders can help, after all, no one knows better than yourself what is going on between you, how you treat each other, but you need to open up and talk to each other well. After so many years with each other, it shouldn't be difficult to open up, let's talk about it, and also, college can change a person, and you should also take this into account.

My gut tells me that you shouldn't continue this relationship anymore. Because there is a gap between you, it is difficult to return to loving each other like before, and she is not worth chasing after her. You teenagers, you are still too young, and sometimes, some people, no longer occupy the most important position in your heart, then you should let go.

The road ahead is still very long, don't love someone easily, because she may not be the Snow White in your mind, if she can bring you warmth, laugh with you when you laugh, and accompany you when you cry, then this person must be worthy of your cherishment.

Don't let love affect your mood. In my opinion, many first relationships are fruitless, you have only been like this for such a short time, there are still three years of college, time can change a lot of things, it can only be said that it belongs to you, no matter what, it will not run, and loving you will not make you sad.

I think it's better to cherish it After all, you are each other's first love A lot of first love is not together because you are still young and do not know how to cherish it When you are mature, you will regret it Try to be gentle with each other After all, you like each other Try to be tolerant and understanding.

It seems that your true love for each other is in the past. Time has changed everything, and her words and deeds now are no longer in line with those of a couple in love. It is likely that you will be her spare tire, and once you meet the right one, she will leave you.

I quite understand her like this. I think you're up for the cracks.

Don't want such a woman, one: he doesn't feel anything about you, or he won't contact you, and he doesn't care, it doesn't matter! Two:

I don't know life, why can't I finish eating so much, three: too powerful, how much does a screensaver cost, he won't give it to you! And let you invite you to dinner and watch a movie, why didn't he invite!

Four: Too autonomous, don't consider your feelings! Good luck, let's go.

There are many cases in this situation, first of all you should clarify her attitude with you, whether she is serious or not. If she just has a playful attitude, then you don't have to pay anything, you can just say goodbye. If she is serious and wants to really get along with you, I believe that after you communicate with her, she will pay attention to her own problems.

In addition, I don't like wasteful people, it's one thing to be expensive or not, but it's another thing to waste money. Also, you can try her, just say, how long have you known each other, want to buy something for each other, remember, you can ask her what she likes, and then you want to see what she has attitude based on what she likes, and also think of something of equal value, of course, what she likes is not for you to really buy. If she has the attitude of only going in and not leaving, you don't have to buy anything, just make excuses to push, and say that she is busy, if she agrees and buys it for you, it means that she still cares about you and doesn't take money too seriously.

Maybe it's the first time people are in love, don't talk about girls like that, sometimes you don't care, but people will. If you are together in the future, this girl may rely on you a little more, you can talk to her well, it is best to figure out her zodiac sign, and then check her preferences and personality to see if it suits you, this may be the key for you to unlock your troubles, bless you!

She may be like that because of his upbringing and experience, maybe there was a time when his life was very difficult! You can't blame her for that, it's pathetic. If you can't accept it, it's better to break up, otherwise your conflict will get bigger and bigger!

I don't think people are going to get along with you at all, or if you don't contact her, why won't she contact you?

Did you graduate? If you don't graduate, you can talk about it first, and if you graduate, do you think that if you can't give her what she wants, then forget it, after all, it's not about love to live in the future.

Let's see if your girlfriend has the ability to find the rich second generation.

If he can't find it, your spare tire may turn positive. You don't have to struggle much.

If she's pretty, or something, then you don't have a chance. Girls can find better boys when they go out of school, but boys can only keep their girlfriends if they work harder when they go out of school.