I m going crazy if this relationship should continue! 5

Actually, I want to ask you one thing, one thing that you lied to yourself, you said that she loved you very much, but you couldn't let go of him in that aspect, please put yourself in your shoes, if you really loved a girl, would you be like your first love? For example: if you love that girl, will you continue to linger with your first love and make this girl uncomfortable now?

On the other hand, what about her, how does she treat you, and if she says she loves you, she will do everything she can to distance herself from her so-called first love

Actually, you yourself feel a sense of crisis, so please don't lie to yourself. The most deceitful thing for girls is tears

If it goes on like this, you're the one who gets hurt, because you don't have a choice, and she does, she has two choices

So I said brother, face this calmly, tell her clearly, say whatever you want, don't have any scruples, if she really loves you, she will care about your feelings

Separate, there is no result.

Don't want it...

Or talk to her formally.

Summary. Hello.

I'm so sad! This kind of love should continue.

Hello. Please speak out about your troubles.

Why does my boyfriend still have to call the voice?

Because he has something to say to you, he wants to express his thoughts.

You're just too good for him.

He still loves me.

If he explains in every way that he doesn't want to lose you, he still loves you.

Got it! I'll forgive him! Don't worry, he's busy these days, so he should calm down for a few days.

Mmmm, he'll get used to my sudden cold......

Of course I won't get used to it.

If he loves you deeply, he will know that he can't do without you.

I ignored him for a day today.

Yes, cool him for two days, so that he does not cherish it.

You still don't understand from his attitude?

First, when a man meets a woman he likes or even loves, he will want to announce to the world that this is my woman and let other men stay away from you. But you look at how he does it, he doesn't want others to know about your relationship, what's the matter, he's a star, and he still has an underground relationship? Isn't it because he has another woman he likes?

Second, he said that he would not care about people, and that no one would believe him when he said it. There are two kinds of people in the world, one is the one who always proves his love for you with his actions, and the other is the person who will often tell you to take good care of yourself. I believe that no matter which of these two, you can feel the other person's love for you.

But your boyfriend is neither a man of action nor a man of words, not even the slightest bit of love. Don't you think this situation is strange?

I think the reasons for this situation may be as follows: one is that he has a lot of ambiguous female friends, he is not stable now, he always feels very cool to wander among the flowers, very manly, and can coax you to accompany him when he needs someone, so that he will not lose anything. The other is that he doesn't love you in the first place.

I think it's better for you to break up with him, because judging from his attitude, it is impossible for you to live for the rest of your life, dear, take my opinion, and don't wait until you really experience grief before waking up. I wish you the happiness that truly belongs to you soon.

Actually, I know that you speculated a lot when you wrote, and you didn't say it if you didn't want to admit it, and I can understand it. He doesn't recognize your status in his mind, which has nothing to do with not being good at expressing it, he cares about you and cares about you, at least silently with you. I think he just likes you, not so much that he loves you, but it's dispensable, so is it necessary to be together?

If you can bear it, then go on, but if you don't have the confidence to make him fall in love with you, you give up on him, because you are going to marry someone who loves you and you love him.

His feelings for you are only dispensable, because he has no other goals, so it doesn't matter if he is with you. But the affection for you is definitely not as deep as you expect, it is advisable to give up.

Fellow practitioners, my boyfriend is like this, I asked him before what our relationship is, he said wait for him to think about it and then answer me, I said how long do you want to think, he said fast words for a day or two, slow words for a few months, so I waited for him for more than 3 months, and a lot of other things happened in the middle, I was very good to him, but he just didn't cherish me. He also wakes people up every day, and he never calls me, anyway, he does a lot of excessive things. My friends didn't let me be with him, saying that I was too stupid, and I decided to ignore him and cut off the relationship, but I couldn't let him go, and his brother also asked me to give him a chance, and he himself said that he would love me well, and then I gave him a chance, but she was still the same as together, hey depressed, I understand your feelings.

I sometimes wonder if I should continue to talk to him. I'm so struggling.

Forget it, it's time to let go, you're tired of it, you can't go back to the past, as someone who has a similar experience to you, I advise you to look forward ......Feelings are such a thing as uncontrollable

After reading the landlord's narrative, I feel a little messy, and it is recommended that you sort out your thoughts first. It doesn't matter if he loves you or not, what position you are in his psyche. Start by asking him what place he is in your heart. The answer may come out.

If it's just a simple relationship, then you can love vigorously and tolerate all his shortcomings. If you are looking for a lifelong partner, men must find the one they love, and women must find someone who loves them. I think there are many ways to determine whether someone loves you or not.

Love always makes people lose themselves, love needs to be paid by both parties, and unilateral will only make love very tired.

Love is the only one, it is to attract each other, care for each other, the good and the bad should be shared together, if not, please give up and restore the once proud self.

Speechless, or you don't know each other well enough, and what you say is your own thoughts, and you don't know anything about what he thinks.

When the two of you open up your hearts, there may be unexpected gains, I don't say anything like love to my wife again, sometimes I hurt her with words, sometimes I fight, but our relationship is getting better and better, because every time we vent, we will summarize it and tell each other why we are angry and why we are angry, and then see whose fault it is, but it seems that every time I apologize.

Don't always care what others think, ask yourself, do you really need it? Feelings are not reluctant, the love of two people, if one person is unhappy, it means that there is a problem. In addition, the word love is defined differently by everyone, for example, when you need an apple, he buys you a cart of bananas, you say you don't love you, he does that, loves you, and he doesn't know what you need, I think you should talk.

Communication solves everything. Don't be so tired.

Forget it, it's really tiring like this, you treat him as everything, but does he care about you???

No Does he really love you? If you know you can't get it, let it go!!

Why let yourself love so painfully? In terms of choice, shouldn't we choose the things that make us happy? Whatever your final choice will be, I wish you happiness

I think that people say that they would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a family, but if it is really like this, there is no feeling, then it is better to let it go, there is no need to continue, it is harmful to everyone, maybe you can sit down and talk first,

I think the relationship is two-sided, only if you give him nothing, then you look very sad.

You are miserable if you love more than him, and it is still a question whether he loves you or not. Beauty, where is there no grass at the end of the world? Men are everywhere.

It should be fixed. The girlfriend's mother naturally wants her daughter to be closer to her home, and the elderly are afraid of loneliness, so they should put themselves in the shoes of the elderly. I've known each other for 5 years, and this relationship won't be broken up for the sake of the house.

It's okay if you don't decorate, you can give the money for decoration to your girlfriend for safekeeping. Tell your girlfriend exactly what you think, relay it to her parents, and then tell her that her girlfriend is responsible for keeping the money for the renovation. The best of both worlds.

Talk to them and tell them what you think, should be pretended.

He said I should trust him. However, he still does not come back. What should I do? Actually, we don't have any. But I feel that the age of 27 should not wait for this virtual relationship, and he said "I want you to believe him". See.

Propose not to decorate for the time being, but then you will lose your wife, maybe you can do their ideological work, but they will definitely think that you don't want to pay money, think of excuses, then they will be more obsessed with the problem of decoration, contradictory! It is recommended that you decorate! Because my wife is important!

Do your girlfriend's parents know what you think? You can talk to them. If you really can't do it, you can renovate the house, and now the house price has been rising. When you are done at your place of work, sell the house and buy it from you.

First of all, you have to understand yourself. Do you really like her? Your thoughts determine your actions, and if you really like it, you will naturally show your love for her, and she will feel how much you love her; Of course, if you don't like it, that's the end of it;

Secondly, you have to understand that some of her polite and well-bred performances are not the same thing as whether she likes you or not, but are related to her education and personal qualities since childhood, so you don't mistake these performances for a good impression of you, she may be like this to everyone;

Third, it can be seen that this girl is feeling-oriented, or attaches great importance to feelings, so she pursues perfect love, and she can only continue if she has feelings. Therefore, what you have to do is to show yourself to her comprehensively, because after getting along for a few times, it may be very one-sided, she may not really know you, when she really knows you, the decision she makes is the final decision.

So, my opinion is to understand your heart, and if you really like her, get along for a while, as a friend, and show you to her. When she fully understands you, she will make the most correct choice. If you still refuse, then you can terminate it, and you can go to the grass you are looking for safely!

See how much you like it. If you don't get it, you will feel bad. It depends on how attached you are.

You still go with the flow, some women are still very rational, to slowly observe whether you are suitable for her, some want to find you to fill in the time, if you don't look for her for a long time, see what her reaction is, the feelings are mutual, if only you love fiercely, she is lukewarm, you will be particularly hurt, that is, married, she always talks coldly, you are more depressed.

If you have time, you can make an appointment to have a meal or climb a mountain, and if you are not free, forget it, and find friends to play by yourself.

Work hard, you have accomplished, and a lot of women still have feelings for you.

Isn't it that you are too wooden, don't just eat, go climb a mountain or find some romantic places to visit, prepare water and snacks, send a rose when you meet, sometimes send him a love poem with **, what Xu Zhimo, Li Qingzhao, be short and clear, if she doesn't feel it yet, then be a good friend, it's better than wasting time.

Hehe, it's not as simple as you think. It's not a matter of a sentence or two. You just wait patiently.

Treat her well. I think it's going to be a good one. After all, it's a major event in life.

How can you draw conclusions in a few words? Is that right.

How do you feel about her? If you like it very much, let's talk about it alive and see if there is a chance to learn more about it, and if not, evacuate quickly. If the relationship is also average, just break up and be an ordinary friend.

It's better to be in a relationship or to be happy with each other.

Put yourself in your shoes, if I encounter such a thing, I will also feel uncomfortable, and I will feel confused, confused about how to continue love, and whether to give up. It can be seen from your words that you value the relationship very much, which is why you will turn to know it. Like you, I am also a traditional person, for love, I would rather lack than abuse, what I hate most is betrayal, distrust, if this basic trust is gone, such love will not last long.

Seeing your story with her, I thought, if you have done well enough, but still can't get her trust and her wholeheartedness, maybe you should choose to be calm. A person who is unwilling to give his heart to you, a person who is always hidden, will definitely have more to hide in the future. Reflect on yourself and if you don't get what you want, it's time to let go, which may be good for both parties.

However, there is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, if you really love her, and you love her deeply, you can also choose to forgive her for concealing it before, maybe the two of you can sit together, return to the place where you know each other and fall in love, talk about it well, maybe everything will be wide. No one can be perfect, what two people need together is understanding and tolerance.