If you are an unwed mother, boyfriend lets you make a choice between the little one and him

Stupid woman is you! If he loves you, he can accept everything about you, and if he loves you, he will love your children.

Even if you give up your child and choose him now, the fact that you have a child will still leave a shadow on him, if he cares so much about your past, what are you still holding onto? Since you have given birth to this child, why can't you love him well. I'm also a mom now, but I'm married, and sometimes I think about it, if I get divorced, I'll love him by myself with my children!

Think about it, such a man is not worth it, maybe he loves you too, but he must be narrow-minded.

If you also love him, then you can let your mother raise the child, in fact, men also mind this, not because he doesn't love you, but because he will feel uncomfortable when he sees the crystallization of you and other men. In this way, even if you get married, everyone has a pimple in their hearts. You can go back every once in a while, after all, your husband is the one who will be with you for the rest of your life.

I really want to give you two mouths, and I still come out to ask such a simple question! If you're willing to separate your flesh and bones, who can do anything to you?

I can persuade you to give up, how can there be such an irresponsible man!!

Men are not a good thing.

I want to give you a slap in the face too.

Such a man is not worthy of love, please think carefully.

Under normal circumstances, there are several types of people, who are married, divorced or widowed, and who are willing to have children. Why is it not looking for that kind of unmarried man for money? Pretty? It doesn't matter if the work is ordinary, if it is a public institution or a civil servant, you can't pull your face.

First of all, in terms of population ratio, it is indeed very small, almost 0.0% of the proportion is willing to accept unmarried mothers, but because of the large population, this 0.00% of people walking together is also a huge team, so if you want to find a suitable one, then you have to pick out what you like from it, you like people, but maybe people don't like you, so yes, yes, in a word, it depends on fate. But I don't mind, even though I'm a part-time worker, and I can't afford to buy a house, I can afford two cars.

Choose yourself, bear it yourself, don't choose for fear of pain. Why don't you think about it before having a baby?

Definitely! But it's still very little!

No matter what, I will always kiss my own children!

This is decided according to personal circumstances, not whether you are willing or not, but the conditions are quite fateful! Unless the man has no children and is not ready to ask for it, it is possible.

Having the courage to say it shows that you really love him. Didn't want to deceive him.

You are right to do this, as long as he truly loves you, he will not leave you.

It's also an opportunity to test him. If he doesn't leave you because of this, congratulations, you've found someone who truly loves you.

If he leaves you, then don't be sad either, because he doesn't love you very much either.

To put it another way, this is a very big blow. "The person I fell in love with actually had a 5-year-old child. I can't take it for a while!!

That's how it should be thought. You can explain that there is no connection to this question anymore. It's also far away.

Nor will I ever go back and remember. With you, my previous unhappiness and depression have been eliminated. I will always listen to you and be nice to you.

I hope you don't mind this past. Love me now, I am absolutely true now and have not deceived you. (You want to modify it, which probably means that men should be very calm.)

If he can't let go of that, I think he's very conservative. Because he has always been very loyal to you, and you have such a past, he must be uncomfortable and unbalanced, so let him figure it out for himself))).

If he really loves you and wants you now, it doesn't matter if you have a history and your existence itself is the best

Be brave and bold to be yourself, just do what you want to do, don't care so much about the result, the key is that you do it, don't let yourself regret it, or it will make you sad even more in the future!

(I want to say the upstairs guy upstairs, if it were you, wouldn't you care what your parents think?) How can you say that? How can this be a reason, if parents know that their son is going to marry a woman who has given birth to a child, won't they be sad???

What else do you say that if he doesn't forgive you for this, you shouldn't entrust him with your life, is this like a word?? What is it called to test people with such a big thing??

In other words, any man will care, and it is difficult to accept

You can only respect his choice, if he can accept it, of course it is very good, if he can't accept it, then your fate is over.

The most important thing is the future, after all, the child has nothing to do with your current boyfriend, you have to deal with the problems between you and your ex-boyfriend and your baby, about what custody and child support and so on. You have to talk about it, or something will go wrong when you and your current boyfriend get married, and this will be very troublesome

Your boyfriend's worries are also rightfully true.

After all, that child is your own flesh and blood, how are you going to deal with this child? As a parent, there are some responsibilities that you should bear.

Go on. If he really loves you, time will tell you everything.

You're still young, don't you do that?

You're just a failed love, don't take your anger out on your children, okay? Don't let him be born to suffer, you can't blame the child. I just want to think about what the second floor said that when the child is born, he will hate you as a mother.

Now listen to me. You go and get rid of the kid right now. You're young. You can still get up the same way if you fall down. The child should not be too old now, just in time.

Take a step back and think. Or there will be another love affair. But only if the child is killed.

Besides, your family's level doesn't make sense anyway.

So you're for your family. For the sake of your future happiness, in order not to let your current child be born and suffer, make up your mind to kill this child.

Still young. Everything was in time.

No children, of course!

If I were you, I would choose to give up this child because I don't love him anymore and I can't marry him. You know, women don't live for their children.

Analysis of the pros and cons: If this child is born, an unmarried mother will have to endure a lot of pressure, not only in the face of worldly eyes, but also in the heart of the family and all the friends who love me. Also, when you see a child, you can think of his father, you can't get out of his shadow for the rest of your life, as long as the child lives.

And if you want to get married in the future, it is very difficult to find a husband who can love this child.

If you don't get married, your child will grow up in a family without a father, and there will be irreparable wounds in your heart, there will be shadows, and you may go down the wrong path.

If you beat this child, you can forget about the previous unpleasantness, re-devote yourself to learning, and lay a good foundation for the future. If the child is killed, you can conceive again, and even if you can't have children in the future, you can still adopt. I think that as long as I have a husband who loves me, life is still happy and content.

Don't give birth, think about it yourself, what makes you hesitate to be an unwed mother! I don't think it's a matter of thinking about it at all. You have to think for yourself, although the child is also a life, but when he comes into the world like this, what kind of life can you give him, will he grow up healthily!

If you are afraid of letting your family know, you can ask your good friends to go to a big hospital, not to a health center or anything like that, to a big hospital.

In the future, you must remember not to do such things that hurt your body and mind again, and do not conceive any boy's child without the guarantee of happiness.

I think it's better for you not to have children, and it's better to tell your family so that they can take good care of you, and it's okay to make mistakes, just correct them. Your parents have the right to know what is going on with you, and if later they find out that you have physical problems because you are not well cared for, that is the biggest mistake. Once or twice shouldn't be too much of a problem, just pass this level and learn a lesson later.

Finally, make sure that the people in your family know that they are from here, that they know what to do, and that they can protect you. You can only refer to what we people are saying here, don't take it too seriously!

Can't want!

You're still so young, why bother?

I have to beat it.

Don't grieve yourself, what do you do once you are born?

Bring your own? Is it capable?

For your mom? That's even more unfair!

I don't think I should tell my mom if I could. I don't know if I'm right about that, there are many people who say that family affection is the greatest and can tolerate everything. So I think don't let the family be hurt, don't let the parents worry, I think after this time, you should also experience the feeling of being a mother, and protect yourself in the future Don't let your mother worry!

If you really can't solve it yourself, communicate with your parents well, and they will still accept you!

As for children, like everyone else, I still think you must not want it! For your own future, you are still young, and you will get married in the future. For the sake of the child's future, you can't afford to support him now, even if you raise him, how do you answer when he asks you about your father in the future?

I think you should go to a specialized hospital and find a professional doctor now. Then take good care of your body, and you won't be unable to have children because of this. Finally, I wish you to come out of the shadow of the present and find happiness as soon as possible!

It's absolutely unacceptable!

If you want, what you want is the child of someone who doesn't love you at all, and the existence of the child is a harm to the child, a harm to yourself, and a harm to your family!

If you want, you're just a student now, how do you raise? Who raises you? Do you have a job to do in the future, and there is still a lot to do?

Can you? A child who doesn't want a man who doesn't care about you dead or alive, do you want to be a treasure? Are you a fool?

Are you crazy? You may still have some feelings for that man now, but I believe that it is not love at all, because it is a kind of unwillingness, you are unwilling to let things happen like this, you are still a junior in college, you still have a lot of good future, the current relationship is just a necessary process on the road of love, when you meet the person you love, he also loves you, you are silently glad in your heart, how correct it is to not have this child now!

Give me a point! Go to a better hospital, and you can give birth in the future! VII 7

You are only a junior, you have no independent financial ability, and the child has no father, so the child you are going to give birth to is destined to be unhappy, so you can spare him! And his birth will definitely make you unhappy for the rest of your life, you yourself are excited for a while, and you will definitely not be able to raise him if you give birth, and then you won't drag your mother into the water? Don't say that you can take care of the child by yourself, I'm sure you can't, you can't even take care of yourself and can't take care of others, and if you have a child, don't think about luck in this life, your marriage will be over.

Even if you don't care, your family can't stand it. And this child you gave birth to will make you unable to forget the person who caused you trouble for the rest of your life, are you happy about this?

People can't live only for their own happiness, even if you think about your mother, hit him, don't let a moment's pain evolve into a lifetime of pain. Also, if there is anything to say to the family, now your parents are the only ones who can really help you.

The question is whether you must not be able to be a mother after this fight. If yes, then you can consider it.

If it is not necessarily, I advise you to knock it out.

Don't have children, even if you can't have children in the future, if you find a man who understands you, he will understand everything you do, if you want this child, have you thought about how to raise him, can you do your responsibilities as a mother, you are still studying. So get rid of the children, if you can afford it, go on your own, if you really lack money and borrow some from a good friend, the worst solution is to tell your family. Personally, I don't think your boyfriend is a thing.

There is no sense of responsibility that a man should have.

I think you should have given birth to the innocent child.

After you give birth, you can send it to the nursery and bring it back when you are able to raise it.

Tell your parents. They are all your loved ones and they will help you because they love you. If you don't tell them, they'll feel like you don't treat them like relatives.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he will accept you and your children, and he will love you and your children.

I hope you will be born ...

From the child's point of view, if you give birth to him, one day he will definitely ask you where your father is, how do you answer, if so, it is a man who loves you, it is just that, obviously you don't love it anymore, what will you think in your heart when you see the child in the future, will you not regret it, can you promise to love this child forever, there is no resentment in your heart, that is a life, since you gave birth to him, you have to be responsible for him, life is too long, it will happen to countless variables, this child is better or not better, if you don't want him to know, you must discuss it with your mother Home is an eternal harbor It will tolerate all your mistakes and shortcomings Maybe your parents will scold you and beat you They just hate iron and steel and are just distressed for you After scolding and beating, they will definitely solve all the problems for you and bear all the pain for you Although ** is a very inhumane act But the child should be the crystallization of love He carries the hope of his parents and the continuation of life Will he be happy for a child born in such a situation A moment of cruelty is better than a lifetime of pain.