A s very troubled life, oh, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go out and find some good friends to get together, or watch a movie with your girlfriend or something, life is already very boring, don't be too sad, no matter what difficulties you encounter, there is a way to solve them, be happy, and everything will pass ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Cultivate more hobbies, exercise more, keep yourself busy, and you won't be annoyed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why are you bothered What are your reasons why you have to be annoyed Is there a reason to try to change anything to get rid of your troubles? People have to grow up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find joy in life, happiness is given by yourself. Talk to your friends, listen to **, sing k. Don't think too much about it, think more about the benefits. Happy to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mindset issues. Who doesn't have to worry about it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Suffering for the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

    What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

    Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

    Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

    You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

    I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

    So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

    For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

    Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

    So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

    In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? ~

    In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

    There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

    So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.

    Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

    May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I know that you are also a weak person, not so strong, but sometimes, we have no choice but to be strong and persistent, your energy is beyond your imagination, hope is ahead, have faith.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, you have to have a suitable job, so that you won't be so annoying when you fall in love.

    If there is an improvement in a year, it means that your family background is good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Brothers, everyone has to go through such a confused period, just hold on and get through, how beautiful life is!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you have to regain your self-confidence, you have to believe that I am born to be useful, and then find a job, the kind that has room for improvement, and then start small, no one comes out of school without setbacks'We have to face setbacks and defeat setbacks. You're still very young, cheer yourself up... If you work hard, there will be money, and so will beautiful women.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Laugh for a lifetime, and suffer for a lifetime. If you relax your mind, you will find something different.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is recommended that you try a local private school or a private school in the nearest province, which should be much better than your current location, and the pressure should be relatively less.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now they are all only children, and pampering is inevitable, but after all, if you want to live together, you have to adapt, and there is no way. You don't have to take the initiative to be courteous to them, as long as everyone is ordinary. Remember, in college, your roommate will be the person who knows you best, so don't get into trouble in the dormitory.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's just a freshman and adapt to it Not everyone is obligated to make themselves happy If you really don't feel like a first-way person you can rent out your bed and rent a house in the city I hope you can have a good college life Hehe

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yishu said: Be a man to be subtle, get by, don't have to worry about it, the water is clear and there are no fish, people are clear, who doesn't live with whom for a lifetime, some things are counted in the heart Yishu said: A person must learn to get along with different types of people himself, otherwise life is so lonely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No way. College students deserve to have a good time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I was in college, there was a saying, "Freshman year doesn't know."

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you are decadent in college for 4 years, then you will be very troubled to find a job in the future, and regret the original decadence, in order to have less trouble in the future, career development will be smoother, and you should study hard in college, and when you graduate, you will know how precious the 4 years of study time in college are. It's been 3 years since I graduated from university, and the original top students are now developing very well, and their incomes are also very high, some of them have gone abroad, and some of them have become corporate executives. So it's very, very necessary to study hard in college, get a scholarship, participate in more activities, take some certificates with a higher gold content, and seriously consider your own development path!!

    If you don't work hard in college, it will be much harder in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The major in college is only important, but what is more needed in college is to develop a lifelong habit of active learning and to know how to solve problems (through learning, through communication).

    I think what you need to change is your attitude towards life, first of all, everyone has a better mentality under the pressure of society now, you are still very young, there are still many opportunities, don't set your goals high, you say that you don't think you are strong professionally.

    In fact, there are many kinds of people you need for future employment, computer science, English, marketing skills, and it will be very common to need it, even if it is in your design industry (there are many folds in the design industry, or there are many interconnections with other industries).

    Learn English first, and then read some marketing books, which are very practical.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Actually, the university is another nursery.

    Bear with me, friend, let's come out early and mess around.

    I will work as an intern in an advertising company and a large company in the future.

    Don't expect anything to study hard. If you go to the library, it will only be more boring, and it is better to come out and learn something real than to watch those dead things.

    Real skills are the last word, learn and do at the same time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I went to university mainly on my own.

    Don't expect much practical stuff that college will teach you.

    Go to the library more.

    Read more books. If you are interested, you will learn it seriously.

    Go to the library more often to find relevant books to read.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Now that you know the consequences, you should be more serious. In fact, this phenomenon is a psychological phenomenon that all college students have. Lay a good foundation first, and when you go out for an internship or work, you will have two brushes. When others look up to you, you learn faster. Let's do our best!!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I recommend this book to you to read "Poor Dad." Rich Dad will tell you the answer. Nothing else matters, the most important thing is to grasp the years.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Actually, the university is another nursery.

    Go out early and practice and learn a little experience.

    Dealing with this industry early, many of which cannot be learned in textbooks.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is a psychiatrist in the school!!

    I'm a sophomore like you, and I'm an engineering major, so it's stressful.

    Go and don't be embarrassed. I'm going too...

    I'm sorry.,But I still have to go.。。。

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That's what life is all about.

    It's good to get used to it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You have to manage this stage, don't feel lost. It will be fine later.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    College is like a business, there are profits and losses.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Find something to do, enrich yourself, and don't keep playing games.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A process.

    At least you've got ......

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As long as you have a dream and work hard for it, you will be rewarded accordingly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Oh, seeing your question, thinking of my 20 years old, I think, most of the post-80s generation should have had such a confused period as you, and I have also had it. Don't rush, let's take our time.

    First of all, you can be sure that you are a filial child, will consider the feelings of your parents, and your parents' suggestions can be referred to, but I don't think you need to blindly follow, if learning car maintenance is not your interest, you should still find your own interests, start learning again, what you are interested in, it may be easy to learn and easier to stick to a little.

    Academic qualifications are not the most important, if you want to start again in a big city, I think you must first quit impatience, choose the industry you are interested in, start from the grassroots level, and then slowly apply for relatively professional training courses, learn more professional knowledge, and slowly move up.

    Set yourself a short-term goal, make a detailed plan to accomplish it, and start implementing it step by step. I believe that when you start to follow the plan, your sense of confusion will slowly disappear.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The road of life is long, but there are only a few steps that are crucial. This seems to be Liu Qing's quotation. Depending on your situation, you're not starting out yet, which is good because *** says:

    A blank piece of paper is good for writing the latest and most beautiful words, and a blank piece of paper is good for drawing the latest and most beautiful pictures. Although it is said that eating a trench will grow wisdom, but I take the first step well, and it is better not to eat that trench, so you have to grasp the first step, which is very, very crucial. It is recommended that you 1, the words of your parents are right, you have to learn a craft for people, as the saying goes, if you don't learn art, you will break the system, although you look down on the peasants, but we should understand that knowledge changes fate.

    Rough work is low-energy to do. Second, choose to learn your perceptual and interesting craft, what you said about doing business can also be understood as a craft, but it is difficult to learn, and the shopping mall is like a battlefield. It depends on whether you're the one or not.

    Nowadays, there are many people who fail to do business. 3. Choose today's more popular ones, such as computers and other electronics, which belong to high-tech, which can be deep or shallow to learn, and can be small or large in application, as small as playing games, typing office, and as large as aerospace and unknown fields. Many units recruit people who are required to be able to use computers first, I don't know if you can have sexual interest, but you know its importance, sexual interest can be cultivated slowly.

    4. Don't be ambitious, don't be impetuous, be down-to-earth, start from scratch, step by step, be single-minded, do a line of love, do a good job, otherwise nothing will be achieved. In short, you have to learn to do, dare to learn and dare to do, learn what you are emotional, and what you want to do. If you want to learn useful, you must concentrate on learning, if you want to learn a word, you must learn it quickly, you must learn it well, and you must not be confused.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Learn a craft, and practice your mental qualities well.

    Find out more about the consumer market and the potential growth point of consumption.

    It's really not good to mend clothes, or go to mobile phone film.

    It's all good handiwork.

    Youth waits for no one, you still have a few days to waste, there is not much, cherish every day and be happy every day, don't think about the troublesome things, when you think of the troublesome things, you want to go to him ringgit, what's the big deal, no matter how it will pass.

    I hope the landlord will go his own way, you can't change the past but you can change the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    One of my classmates is like you, and you are in a similar situation to him.

    I want him to talk to you, he has found a job now, he is doing well, and his thoughts are the same as yours

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I want to talk to you qq But I don't have electricity here, so let's talk to you, you're 22 still young, it's a good thing to want to go out, but the outside life department is a good mix, if you don't want to spend your parents' money, then you can do what you like, then you can make money, it will be a little bitter, but you have to know that you are still young, you can eat, don't be afraid of hardship, you insist, you must persevere, if you can persist for 3 to 5 years, you will have a small achievement on that road, people are more valuable in willingness, but also persistence, Only in this way will we be recognized, you are still young when you get married, I personally think that you can get married in a few years, or how do you support your family, the computer is out of power, I want to talk to you again, it seems that it is not possible, and finally I hope that your life is not too exciting, as long as you live happily, have perseverance and perseverance, you can do anything in the future Come on, believe in yourself, maybe you have nothing now, but you have to believe that your efforts will be rewarded.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I have also had your problem, the key is that you still have nothing to do, you are too idle, so you will feel very confused, in fact, the method is very simple, don't care about him, find something to do first, as for the later things, you can work slowly to learn knowledge from the work, understand the development of society, and determine your own return! As for studying is a good idea, it is still not possible to work without a diploma now, so I suggest that you take a high pass rate for the entrance examination tutoring and get a college or undergraduate certificate! Skills, you learn according to your hobbies or the development trend of society!

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