What are you crying for in the middle of the night?

One night a few years ago, in a rented house in Harbin, I was lying alone in an empty room reading Yu Hua's "The Seventh Day", and for two and a half hours, I was engrossed in reading, reading, reading, and reading, and my tears could not stop flowing.

Most of the plots in "The Seventh Day" are rewritten based on real news events, and the originality is not enough, but it is extremely moving, and it touches everyone who lives in this era, so that everyone and I who live in this era can't help but cry for the various encounters of the characters in the book.

When I read "The Seventh Day," I thought about myself, and I thought about myself, like some of the people in the book, who had gone through some hardships. I don't think misery is a university, and if suffering is a university, I'd rather never go to college.

Most of them quarrel with their boyfriends, and they are angry and aggrieved at the same time. It's really tiring to fall in love, and sometimes you can quarrel because of a little thing. And both of them are angry, and no one will let anyone, so they can't sleep at night, and the more they think about themselves, the more aggrieved they are, and they will keep crying.

Crying late at night, mostly arguing with my husband. I remember when I first got married, the two would often quarrel over trivial things. At that time, I felt that I was very wronged, and I regretted it in my heart, so I always cried secretly at night.

Now think about how pitiful you are!

Sometimes I can't sleep at night, so I look at my phone until late. That night, I watched a sketch by Jia Ling in memory of her mother, which was so deeply rooted in the hearts of the people that I couldn't cry anymore. That sketch tells the story of her mother's affection for her and the indescribable affection for her.

It really hurts my soul very much, and after watching this sketch, I will think of my mother's love for me, and when I make her angry, tears will flow uncontrollably.

I remember crying at night because I felt very lonely, and after I broke up with him, I felt that I had given a lot of affection, but I didn't get anything in return for this relationship. I think I was really stupid at the beginning, for a man, I would cry late every night.

That's because my husband was out of the house, I waited for him to come home with the baby at night, but it was very late, the baby also slept, he still didn't come back, I called ** to him, he said he went somewhere, not going home, I was very annoyed, very angry to hang **, and then the more I thought about it, the more sad I became, his heart did not have us at all, he didn't tell me anything, he always wanted to do what he wanted, no matter what you think.

I think the main reason I'm crying is insomnia.

I think when I was going to graduate school, I often couldn't sleep in the middle of the night because I might have been under too much psychological pressure. It's the feeling of powerlessness that is very sleepy and then can't sleep, which is very painful. So during that time, I often cried because of insomnia.

After my dad died, my mom found me a new dad. When my mother told me, I didn't cry in front of my mother, my face was very calm, but my heart was bleeding. I thought my mother might not want me anymore after finding a new father, and I couldn't help crying in the dead of night.

There was a period of time when the pressure was too much, and my hair was also under pressure and fell out a lot.

During that time, at night, it was like a chicken blood, and my spirit was very good, and the more I tried to fall asleep quickly, the more I couldn't sleep.

I couldn't fall asleep over and over, so I thought about it, remembering the hardships and injuries I had suffered when I was a child, and my heart was inexplicably sad and sad, and I couldn't help but shed uncomfortable tears in the corners of my eyes.

There are too many struggles and pains in growing up, and I can't help crying late at night when I encounter things, why I am like this, why I want to go through this, how to get past these difficulties, my heart is soft and sensitive, I can't help crying, I can't see the people and things around me, and I don't know how to reconcile with myself and the world.

I still remember when I was in junior high school, I separated from my friends who played well in elementary school, and I wasn't in a school at that time, and I didn't know who to talk to when I was sad, so I could only hide in the quilt and cry alone, and then when I came to high school, I broke up with my first love, although it wasn't deep in the bone marrow, but I couldn't help but be sad, and now if my boyfriend quarrels with me, I'll be cranky, crying, unless he breaks up with me.

One, you are not understood. In life, no one can understand your psychological thoughts, and family and friends question you and never support understanding. Sometimes it's for the good of the other party, but it can also be misunderstood. There is no one to tell the grievances in your heart, and if you say it, it will be recognized as your problem.

Second, you are very lonely psychologically. Living alone for a long time, or having no one to share with you at home, is the reason why you cry quietly late at night. You don't understand the meaning of being alive, going to and from work, going to and from school, and being sick is also a person.

There is no joy in life, only endless troubles.

3. Confused future and work pressure. This is the problem you have to face, the work pressure is high, the salary is small, the house and car cannot be bought, you don't want to rely on your parents, and you have to rely on your parents, that kind of mood is uncomfortable, and you begin to understand the heaviness of life.

Three. Confused future, work pressure. This is the problem you have to face, the work pressure is high, the salary is small, the house and car cannot be bought, you don't want to rely on your parents, and you have to rely on your parents, that kind of mood is uncomfortable, and you begin to understand the heaviness of life.

Fourth, falling out of love and being trapped by love. Are you so caught up in love that you cry in the middle of the night? The man snorted a few bottles of beer and drank it late at night, and the woman complained to her girlfriend. Why can't there be lovers who have dependents, maybe it's the dependents who are missing!

In recent months, why do you always cry silently at night?

There are still many ups and downs in life, you need to go through, tears crying in the middle of the night, flowing in the dark, blooming into flowers, you will bravely face everything in life.

One. You are not understood. In life, no one can understand your psychological thoughts, and family and friends question you and never support understanding. Sometimes it's for the good of the other party, but it can also be misunderstood. There is no one to tell the grievances in your heart, and if you say it, it will be recognized as your problem.

Two. You're mentally lonely. Living alone for a long time, or having no one to share with you at home, is the reason why you cry quietly late at night.

You don't understand the meaning of being alive, going to and from work, going to and from school, and being sick is also a person. There is no joy in life, only endless troubles.

Three. Confused future, work pressure. This is the problem you have to face, the work pressure is high, the salary is small, the house and car cannot be bought, you don't want to rely on your parents, and you have to rely on your parents, that kind of mood is uncomfortable, and you begin to understand the heaviness of life.

Three. Confused future, work pressure. This is the problem you have to face, the work pressure is high, the salary is small, the house and car cannot be bought, you don't want to rely on your parents, and you have to rely on your parents, that kind of mood is uncomfortable, and you begin to understand the heaviness of life.

Four. Lost in love, trapped by love. Are you so caught up in love that you cry in the middle of the night? The man snorted a few bottles of beer and drank it late at night, and the woman complained to her girlfriend. Why can't there be lovers who have dependents, maybe it's the dependents who are missing!

In recent months, why do you always cry silently at night?

There are still many ups and downs in life, you need to go through, tears crying in the middle of the night, flowing in the dark, blooming into flowers, you will bravely face everything in life.