How to associate with someone who is very possessive?

When interacting with people who are more possessive, you should be careful, because they have a very firm grasp of what belongs to them and do not want to share them with others, and this kind of person is self-centered.

For general things, we must learn to be patient, don't worry about him, and be more careful when it comes to economic interests, so as not to be deceived.

Possessive people like to tie people to their side and don't allow others to have free space. Possessive people believe that others should be absolutely obedient and loyal to them, and like to dominate others. Moreover, this type of person is also very jealous.

Therefore, when dealing with someone who is possessive, you must be careful to fall victim to their possessiveness, and you must resolutely handle your relationship with the other person.

First of all, keep stating to the other person that you are an independent thinker and that it is impossible to completely obey the will of others. Then, make the other person constantly realize that the relationship between friends should be equal, not the relationship between domination and domination, and that no one person has the right to dominate the other.

Secondly, when getting along with possessive people, you should keep a certain distance and not get too close to each other. Make it clear that he is just one of your many friends. That is, don't let the other person see you as unique to him.

Of course, you also need to encourage the other person to make new friends. For example, you can introduce your friends to each other and make your friends his friends too.

Let me tell you a story! I had a friend before, she was very possessive, she didn't allow me to have other friends, every minute of me, every second I had to share with her, if once someone knew about me, but she didn't know, she would lose her temper inexplicably, and even destroy my things, it was impossible for you to leave her, and people who were extremely possessive would do things beyond our imagination.

I thought it was a friend who became a good friend, but then I felt that this was a sick way of making friends, so I tried to quit, I would tell her that she was not in good health recently, and there was no way to meet her, for fear of infecting her, and I usually had to give her a **, ask her about her life to show concern, no matter what kind of friends can't survive the time, after a long time, the feelings will fade, and no one will leave anyone, even if they are there with each other.

Summary:If I don't have to get along with such a person, I choose not to get along, I can stay as far away as possible, sometimes it is better to have such a friend than to be alone.

With people with negative energy, the heart is slowly barren, and distracting thoughts are overturned; And with people with positive energy, you will be inspired to love life and discover the beauty of life. You can always find the joy of life with someone you can talk to, don't talk to that person anymore, he has to talk to him, because he doesn't understand you at all.

When something happens to two people, they should express their views and opinions, and then they can communicate and discuss with each other, and they will get a very good relationship.

You must learn to be obedient, raise objections when it is critical, and sometimes communicate more with the other party, so that you can get along amicably.

If I have very possessive people around me, then I will not get along with them at all, because there will be a lot of conflicts when I get along with them for a long time, so it is good for everyone to leave each other in time. But if he is more than willing to be with me, then I will not listen to what he says to me. When something happens, I always stick to my opinion, and I don't listen to his opinion at all.

When getting along with people who are more possessive, you should have your own ideas, have your own judgment, and respect each other.

When you meet such a person, I think you should give him enough security so that he knows what you are doing all the time, so that his possessiveness will become very weak.

This kind of possessive person still has to reduce his relationship with him, because if you get along with someone very well, he will feel jealous and then make some impulsive moves.

First of all, you can tell your friend that you don't like his character, both parties should be independent, don't always rely on any one person, if there is something delicious, you must know how to share it with each other, and don't let your character become very selfish.

Possessive people are not particularly easy to get along with, and they can also make you particularly tired, I think you should stay away from your friends, this kind of possessive people will also do some very extreme things.

My friend is very possessive, how do I get along with him? First of all, we need to distinguish where he is more possessive? There are times when we can tolerate it, and sometimes we can't tolerate it, we have to resist.

When you get along with such a friend, you must make concessions. You can let your friends take advantage of some small advantages. In this way, we can get along more happily.

01 When getting along with a possessive friend, if the other party is jealous because of possessiveness, or when he loses his temper, you must not have a head-on conflict with him, or quarrel, which will only make the relationship between the two worse and worse.

02 Possessive friends, sometimes angry will be cold and violent to you or ignore you, at this time you must be thick-skinned and take the initiative to coax her, in fact, their hearts are very soft, you change the number to coax her and laugh. Scrum.

03 When you have an argument or conflict with a possessive friend, you must not ignore him, but take the initiative to tell him that you care about him.

04 In fact, possessive friends just really care about you and value you very much, so as long as you treat such friends with sincerity, they can feel your sincere treatment, and they will not be particularly angry.

There are three ways to be possessive of anyone

1.Boost your self-confidence. Feeling fully capable of surviving on your own and gaining freedom can reduce your dependence on others. At the same time, it can also boost self-confidence, make yourself more positive, have more energy, and succeed on the way forward.

2.Learn to evaluate objectively. In society, it is required to learn to evaluate one's behavior objectively, not to be too emotional, to look at and judge things according to facts, and to think more rationally, which will reduce the intensity of possessiveness towards others.

3.Strengthen self-awareness. By reflecting on what you have done, strengthening your perception of yourself, learning to treat yourself correctly, not thinking about things that are too old, focusing only on the present, and focusing on your own development, you can reduce the intensity of possessiveness towards others.

All in all, you should pay attention to your own development, enhance your self-confidence, learn to evaluate objectively, strengthen your self-awareness, and let go of your possessiveness of others on the way forward, and live freely.

What is the reason for the external environment? In the current environment, everyone except this friend is very unfriendly, which makes you want to hold on to her; Recently, I have experienced a blow to my work and school, and I am in great need of the support and recognition of my friends.

Personal reasons? The independent "self" and "self boundary" have not yet fully established a workaround:

Build a sense of "love everyone first, then love specific people". This is one of the points that my teacher mentioned in the reading club of Wang Yangming Xinxue that I attended recently. Just imagine, if a person is indifferent to other people, it is also scary to be enthusiastic about you in real life.

Since interpersonal interaction is inevitable in everyday life, try to accept it and deal with it. Therefore, first of all, we must have a sense of subjectivity, be curious about the outside world and explore, try to make friends with friends with different personalities, understand the differences between our own and others' personalities, and find different shining points in different people.

Build a sense of uniqueness. Uniqueness can help us separate ourselves from others and make us feel irreplaceable. The book says, "The belief in the uniqueness of the individual is particularly helpful in adapting to circumstances, excelling, and enduring the uneasiness that accompanies it—loneliness."

In the same way, the sense of self-uniqueness also helps us to establish the concept that we are unique in the eyes of our friends, and she may have many friends, but the feelings of different friends are different. When we see individual similarities, we should also realize that people who are constructed under different combinations and different options are different, and there are no completely similar people in the world.

Identify with yourself. This is a process of taking back the initiative, when we identify with ourselves and believe that we will be regarded as the only self by those close to us, the initiative will come back to our own hands. At the same time, you should also feel your various emotions, not rejection, and do not deny the value of your emotions.

Accept before you change.

He has a strong desire to possess anyone, and he wants everything around him to be firmly controlled. On the one hand, it is a manifestation of a lack of self-security. On the one hand, it is also the influence of the original family.

If we want to solve. The first step is to determine which aspects have the most impact and start to solve them. I hope it inspires and helps you