Go to the door of the man s house. I don t know how to behave myself, I m nervous

Updated on society 2024-04-15
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1.Don't be wordy, don't deliberately find something to say.

    2.You can't be silent and say something with great gold content.

    3.Find out beforehand what the other parent's likes.

    When you talk, don't lean on yourself, always talk about how you are and what happened. This will make the other person feel bored. When you eat, you might as well say:

    This dish is delicious, how to cook it" Or first learn about the interesting things that have happened recently (find it on the Internet) and then you can bring it up when you are cold, if your boyfriend is smart enough, then you don't have to worry, he is the most important intermediary who should stand up and adjust the atmosphere.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask your boyfriend first what type of parents like him.

    If you like traditional and obedient, you always smile, you don't have to take the initiative to find a topic, and you can answer politely and smile when people ask something.

    If you like sweetness, you can flatter a little, praise Aunt Kua for being young, cooking deliciously, take the initiative.

    When asked about your parents' work, you can choose to be honest or general. There is no need to feel inferior. If the other party's parents are really not optimistic about your parents' work, then the family will not be anywhere, and there will be friction in the future anyway.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be nervous, be natural, don't let his parents think you're pretentious, be sincere, just pay attention to politeness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First ask your boyfriend what his parents like, and then understand it yourself, if he goes to his parents cooking or something, he will help, talk about family life, and praise his son more.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't say too much, just let it be.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's the same as when I took my girlfriend to meet my parents that day! Actually, it's nothing Dress up decently, be mature, and don't dress too revealing! It's basically OK The first time you don't have to talk so much, just answer when you ask! Don't worry, I wish you happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be nervous, just dress generously, don't wear those fancy clothes, jeans and trouser legs are deliberately cut to pieces, go to the point where you can help cook a meal or something, don't give them the image of opening your mouth to eat, I wish you success.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be too nervous, be polite, respect your boyfriend's parents, it's fine, they will definitely treat you as a child, and they won't be so demanding.

    Chat more with your boyfriend's mother, say something that the old man likes to hear, and show his sincerity, I believe his parents will feel it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Talk about casual clothes, answer questions, help when you have something, and sit honestly at other times.

    Perfect 100 points.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be sure to buy gifts, even if you go to a relative's house, you can't be empty-handed!

    1.You must first understand the preferences of his parents, so that they can choose gifts, but they will live together in the future, and the first impression of a good relationship is very important!!

    2.It's okay to dress simply and elegantly, don't put too much pressure on yourself!

    3.After you go, you have to have a little eyesight, don't eat ready-made, help if you can, can't help and find a way to help, can't sit still!!

    4.As for what topics to talk about, it's okay, you can say it on the spot then, and his parents will definitely ask you something about your family situation! If you still don't know, you can ask your mother, you have a lot of experience.

    Hope it can help you o( o ha! Be happy

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you have too many relatives, don't bring gifts, just bring them to grandpa and dad.

    Bring some health products and ask your boyfriend, what dad and grandpa like.

    I think the hardcover tea is very good!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on whether it's rural or urban.

    Cities Just bring some fruit.

    Rural people are very particular, especially when they go for the first time, what kind of gift to bring, that is, four things, tobacco and alcohol are must, and the other two things are to look at and buy for yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's good to bring fruit, don't worry too much about going home for the first time.

    The first time you brought something to someone in his house. How to mix in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's okay to bring a fruit basket, don't get too much for the first time, give this and that bad, give that and this is not good, politely bring a good fruit basket on it, it is recommended that you buy your own good fruit to be wrapped by others, because many of the wrapped fruit baskets are bad fruits, rotten!! Also, don't be too nervous, just be normal, have a sweet mouth, and everything will be OK.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Bring some fruit! Don't be nervous that you won't talk when you arrive, your boyfriend's parents will also take the initiative to chat with you, and you will get together while chatting!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You shouldn't have to bring so much for the first time, so it's good to have a little meaning! Buy some gifts for grandpa!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just bring some to your immediate family.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe, first of all, congratulations on taking another step forward in your love! Going to your boyfriend's house to make a good impression on his mom and dad is the most important thing! If you refer to what I said, it will definitely work!

    First, don't wear heavy makeup! Plain dress is best! Second, the elders like filial girls!

    And the mouth should be sweet, uncle, aunt or something, say more about it's okay, and ah, you should understand table manners, when Auntie is in the kitchen, you just say help her! I've seen it all on TV, after eating, you have to ask to clean up the dishes and chopsticks before his mother! Ordinary mothers like diligent daughters-in-law!

    But when you do this, don't let yourself and others feel a little contrived, you know? Hehe, I wish you all happiness and happiness in the end!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, don't be nervous, be relaxed, it's okay, everyone will be a family in the future.

    Be sensible, it's OK to be diligent, hehe, the dessert is pleasing to the elderly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The problem is the same in reverse, you go to his house and he goes to yours will be nervous. I was the same as you at the time, but I thought I was going to my own house, and I would definitely see each other in the future, right? That's why I'm here with that mindset.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Try to be shy, don't talk too much, smile more, everything has your boyfriend, you will be OK.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When you're in love, you're not a kid anymore, and there's nothing left, just follow the normal performance, don't deliberately disguise and harsh your inner thoughts, or how will you end up in the future?

    If you don't want to go to his house in the future, don't you, since you go, you have to behave yourself

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell you that the more nervous you are, the more you will make mistakes, relax a little, and 、、、 like your own home

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A must-have strategy for girls to meet their parents for the first time!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Take it easy. You have to pay attention to your speech and behavior when you go to his house. To help his family with household chores, such as washing vegetables, helping his mother cook.

    Helped serve the dishes, cleaned up the table after eating, and washed the dishes. When you see it's dirty, clean it. I've talked too much, I guess you're tired of it.

    But his family won't let you do so much, even if you learn to be like this, you have to learn to be like that! Not that family likes lazy girls.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Adjust your mindset and relax. As for buying gifts, you can ask your boyfriend what his mother likes from the side, and you can refer to it before deciding. It's normal to eat, but I'm afraid I won't be able to help you then. I wish you success!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The first time you went to his house, it was his parents who gave you a red envelope, and you can accept it politely.

    The thing to pay attention to is how to show your virtue as their daughter-in-law in the future, at least you are more diligent and their sons will be taken care of, they are more assured, and they don't have to be too diligent and courteous, just be reasonable and modest.

    Don't be nervous, it's all coming this time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You must pay attention to what you say and do, that is, you can talk more when you do more work.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Be natural, help them be a family, and don't be so polite.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Talk to your boyfriend about what gifts to buy, and you can eat the meal in a decent and generous way.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    One place has one custom, some will give, some will not give, just be taken to heart, just be natural.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be nervous, zoom in, it's better to talk less, try to help his parents with some housework, and keep his mouth shut. I also just went to my boyfriend's house for the first time, and he had a lot of family that day, and I was very nervous and a little embarrassed when I arrived, and then his dad said that I didn't seem to be very diligent, but in fact, it wasn't at all, I was embarrassed, but I would prove everything with practical actions, hehe. Do what I say, yes!

    Wishing you happiness!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If his parents agree, they will give you a red envelope.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    1.Family background to know.

    2.The relationship with your boyfriend is very important, and the more you love him, the more nervous your family becomes3Local regionality should also be known.

    4.Dress appropriately, language, 5Observe attentively.

    6.Pay attention to conversation skills.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, it doesn't matter what you bring, as long as you have the heart, in fact, your boyfriend should know this. He's already told you that his family won't like the gift you brought, haha. Regarding the situation at his house, as long as you do what you are used to, that is the most real you, and that is the impression you have on his family.

    Instead of performing for the family. Isn't it? He likes your people, not your hair.

    Why does his mom like him? He shouldn't blame you. If you want to go, go naturally.

    Instead of performing, to show others, to please people. Right. That's not the real you.

    Doing so is not a guarantee for you in the future.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Buy a car for your nephew, and you can do it with blocks, boy. In the cold field, I will talk about interesting things in school, or travel scenery and so on. It's good to behave naturally, just like your own home, don't be too restrictive, you can familiarize yourself with the environment first.

    I don't know much about the issuance, I don't know how to fake it, or I just re-sit the hairstyle, after all, it's more important.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Find a way to tie your hair up. In this way, the whole person will be in good spirits! It's very important to go for the first time, don't be rude, in addition to cross-stitch, you can bring some fruit or something, now it's cold, you can buy a small cotton suit for your child, these are enough!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's better to be natural, don't be too deliberate and it will be self-defeating.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    A must-have strategy for girls to meet their parents for the first time!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    His parents just want to see you, your nervousness won't affect your image, they will understand, they come over like this, you should see your boyfriend's family as if it were your family.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You don't have to think about what to do, or what you want to do, these boyfriends will already introduce, arrange, and the family will also guide, you just need to follow him

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Just take it easy and don't overthink it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Tell your boyfriend that he will take care of you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Are his parents tigers? So scared,

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't be nervous, just prepare a small gift for each person!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Don't be nervous, I think you can bring some, but don't bring too much, don't let me feel like you're upside down

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's good to buy some fruit for the first time and bring it over, that is, the ones you eat for the New Year, and then you can buy some children's favorite ones to give, and it's not necessary to go for the first time, just have something in your hand.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    From the perspective of rural people, we are more nervous than you, and if you stay there for a few more days, we are still afraid that you will not be used to eating and living, because since you go there, they will treat you as a prospective daughter-in-law. As for what to buy, I think it's secondary, now people's material needs, after all, are not as good as before liberation, according to local customs, ask your boyfriend to go. The point is that you have to do as the locals do, respect their families in small things, do one thing for the rest of your life, and do it for the rest of your life.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I'm also from Sichuan, and as far as I know, it's better to go to them and buy some nutritious food, and bring some fruits, in fact, Sichuan people are very welcoming, as long as you get there, be more accommodating, be diligent, and help his mother with some housework, his family will like you very much.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Buy some small souvenirs from your family to take with you, don't always follow your boyfriend, take the initiative to accompany their family, for example: help his mother wash the dishes, chat with the elderly, and most importantly, don't deliberately disguise yourself, because it's awkward! You're good to go!

    I wish you all the best!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Buy some souvenirs or clothes, or some gifts or something, relax, as long as you and your boyfriend are in love, nothing feels awkward. You don't have to behave too well, because the days ahead are still long. It depends.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Don't be nervous, go to see people and applaud, go to the supermarket to buy some affordable gift boxes, and don't be too extravagant, after all, the countryside will not care too much about what you buy, just bring a little heart.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Don't be nervous. Be generous and decent so that their family will respect you. If you behave submissively, you won't have a good time in the future.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Listen to your boyfriend's opinion, see what gifts to buy, and treat them as if they were your own parents, there's nothing to be nervous about.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Be generous and decent, respect them and they will respect you, and you can say more nice things to the old people to coax them.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Relax like usual and buy something practical My boyfriend bought a footbasin to take home for your reference.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Hehe, a good opportunity for everyone to get to know each other, not to be nervous, happy and happy to face.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Buy something popular, like fruits, parental supplements, etc.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    I'm going to ask your boyfriend about this. Let's see what kind of attention is there.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Buy some supplements or clothes.

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