Why is it so hard to comfort a person, who has a good plan?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can tell her about my experience, although it's nothing. When I was in the car as a freshman, a thief stole the phone I had just bought, which I had just bought!!

    When I was in the bridge aisle in my sophomore year, I was stolen from a wallet, not to mention the money, I and my friends' meal cards, book cards, ID cards, etc., hey, the main thing is that the wallet is still relatively expensive!!

    The junior year was stolen 600 yuan by a thief, and it was only when I had to pay that I found out that there was none, although it was not very much, but it was the New Year, and I felt quite depressed, and I didn't buy anything I wanted to buy.

    I was a student at the time, and now I'm just working, and I just know that it was stolen, and that's just too insignificant, and surviving and standing in society and having a place in society, that's what should be considered. Now that I think about it, I was also indignant and even sad and angry about being stolen at that time, and I really think it's ridiculous.

    If you lose your possessions, that's a trivial matter, and if you lose your happiness and freedom, your possessions are worthless.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ahh

    It's nothing, if you lose it, you lose it, if she refuses to eat, you will accompany her and starve, she will not bear it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The old does not go, the new does not come.

    The phone is dropped, the wallet is not lost, the keys are not lost, what is good about the previous phone?

    There are many ** on the market now, maybe there is one more suitable for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1.Don't talk to her for a while, she will feel uncomfortable and will come to you on her own initiative.

    2.If she is really your good friend, and you are willing to pay for her, you will pay for her and give her a mobile phone on a holiday out of your own pocket.

    I'm so proud that she has such a friend as you! ยท

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I also know that mobile phones are very expensive, and it will definitely be sad if my parents know about it, and it will be distressing if I earn money to buy it. But after all, it's a 5 outside the body, and besides, if you lose it, you can just buy a good one? The old doesn't go, the new doesn't come, it's not.

    Why bother!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's wrong with losing your phone? It's nothing, it's actually normal, who hasn't lost something, hehe, you should think about what is inconvenient after he loses his phone, and help him think of a way to get it, haha Don't say much I just signed up for this post a few days ago, hehe, go out for a walk with him, and you won't be sad after a long time

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Understand the context

    Know his background, know the basics of him. Just like if the rich have no freedom, he naturally yearns for freedom, and if he has money and freedom, he naturally does not yearn for freedom. People with different backgrounds care differently than they like.

    Know his background and know what is important to him.

    Learn about growth

    Learn about his upbringing. in order to communicate better. Knowing his growth deeds, you can know what is happening to him now and how it affects him, just like if she was a child, her parents divorced and followed her mother, then if her father is back now and wants to live with them, you have to know that in the years when he grew up, his attitude towards his father was resentful or worried.

    Learn about life

    Learn about his life now. in order to know the environment he is in, his state of mind. If she is happy to live a stable and peaceful life.

    That shows that he is content with the status quo now, and if he always wants to go to the outside world, it means that he has his own goals and is not willing to accept the status quo. If he just wants to do it, he will only complain all kinds of things all day long. There are also different comforts for those who want to live together without being disconnected.

    Get to know the family

    Find out what his family is like, after all, parents have the greatest influence on their children. If the family is harmonious, then his growth is also happy. If the family is not harmonious, the child will have some complaints in his heart, either there will be many complaints about life in the future, or he will strive for his own harmonious life.

    Take a closer look

    Know what's going on in his heart. The thoughts in the heart are the most direct. Maybe he said that I was happy on the surface, but I could look at his eyes and even sigh from his behavior. You can detect if he's really okay or not.

    Understand things

    If you understand him, you will be able to comfort him from all sides. But it is also necessary to understand the process of his affairs, and to know the process of things can better help him enlighten him.

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