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It is inevitable that loving couples will dislike each other after they get married, because they may be very happy and loving before they get married, and even say that they have lived together for a period of timeBut the state after marriage is different from before marriage, and both people will gradually find something not so good about each other. <>
Two people will dislike each other, feel that the other party always has something to do, not to their liking, for example, most women may have this habit of frequent cleaning and housework, but men may not have men to deal with housework, basically wait until the chaos is not good, suddenly one day I feel so messy on a whim, just have time to clean up today, or suddenly a guest came. The house is very messy, and I'm embarrassed to clean it upA woman's housework is basically periodic, and he may clean up once every 1 or 2 days, and if he feels messy, it will affect his mood very much. <>
In the maintenance of the family environment, there is a certain conflict between the two people, but even if the man himself is in love, he also deals with housework every day like a woman, and tidies up the house neatly, but he still has other contradictions, such as eating, some people like to eat meat, some people like to eat vegetarian, such as consumption, such as the attitude towards parents, work and life, and there must be contact in this aspect when two people fall in loveBut it's definitely not as much contact as after marriage, and after the two get married, slowly his true life status will be revealed, and he won't hide himself completely. <>
Most couples will dislike each other after getting married, and there is a run-in period of half a year to a year.
This run-in period is different from the run-in period when falling in love, that is, two people continue to run in their living habits, for example, some boys' schools have the habit of staying up late for a long time, he basically goes to bed at one or two o'clock every day, but some women may go to bed at 11 o'clockTwo people naturally have a conflict in terms of life and rest, it doesn't matter if they don't live together before, but now that they live together, they have to adapt to each other's living conditions.
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Loving couples, after marriage, do not dislike each other, but become the closest people, naturally without any pretense. After marriage, they will live a very real life, and they will not deliberately please them.
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I think there should still be a dislike for each other, because no matter how loving the couple is, there will always be some living habits that the other party can't bear, but this dislike can also be regarded as a small pleasure in life.
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No matter how loving a couple is, after getting married, both parties will dislike each other's shortcomings, but because the relationship is still running in with both parties, loving couples will accept each other.
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Not all couples will be disgusted by each other after marriage, only two people understand each other, tolerate each other, respect each other, and such couples will be very happy.
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It's not like this, whether you dislike it after marriage has a lot to do with whether two people care about each other and love each other.
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I think it will, because time will smooth out many things, including freshness, and the days after marriage will gradually become boring, and they will slowly dislike each other.
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I think it's like this, when two people are together for a long time, they will have a feeling of disgust with each other.
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I don't think that's the case, loving couples never dislike each other, but are afraid of losing each other, which is the real loving couple.
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It's not like that, if it's true love, you definitely won't dislike each other, and since you love it, you will love all of him.
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It is true that after marriage, the shortcomings of two people will be infinitely magnified, and they will dislike each other.
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In fact, this is not the case, some couples will only be more affectionate after they get married, because they can live a two-person world.
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Of course not, as long as the two people run in better, and the relationship is deeper, they will not dislike it.
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After getting married, two people become more and more disgusted with each other, and they are less and less satisfied with each other, and such a marriage will not last long. If two people want to be together for a long time, they must learn to appreciate each other's strengths. After getting married, you will find that it is different from when you are in love, which also shows that two people do not have a good understanding before marriage.
Boys should not become too obvious to their wives after marriage, girls can't bear it. Girls marry you to enjoy this relationship, not that girls blindly have to endure it. <>
This kind of marriage will not last long, maybe at first it is because of some feelings, but then it will choose to separate after it wears off. When a girl is pregnant, her husband doesn't understand herself at all, but still has a cold war with herself. When a girl is confined and pregnant, if she is indifferent, she will never forget it.
If two people are not satisfied, how can they go on for a long time, girls can't let themselves be wronged. If you don't love, let yourself go, don't choose to drag, this girl's youth is limited. <>
The most important thing to do in marriage is to learn to stop losses in time, and never let yourself do it blindly. The things you encounter in life and the different treatments you face may be different. If you want to go on with your husband for a long time, two people must not lack communication and must care about each other.
After they have no advantages in each other, the two of them also have to learn to create some surprises. <>
Generally speaking, if you want to grow old, you need two people to manage it together. The test of this relationship is not whether two people can be together for a long time, but whether two people often quarrel. If you like someone, you have to be with this person, and you can't do some bad things and you can't be dishonest with each other.
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It shouldn't last long, disliking each other more and more will make there be a lot of contradictions between two people, and there will be some thoughts of wanting to separate when there are more contradictions between two people.
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It shouldn't last long, two people are very dissatisfied with each other, and the other party will dislike each other for anything, so the relationship between the two people will become very poor, and the two people are likely to separate.
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Not for long. has appeared, detailing that he has a lot of dissatisfaction with the other party, and the other party also has a lot of dissatisfaction with himself, at this time he should quickly break off the relationship between the two people.
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Because when you are in love, you show your best side to each other, and after you get married, you show each other's truest side to each other, so this will happen. <>
Just like a peacock will open the screen when it encounters a beloved thing, a couple in love, are in love, are up to the twelve, the most perfect self in front of the couple, in order to attract each other's attention, but after marriage, two people become each other's closest partners, and need to get along day and night,At this time, the originally hidden shortcomings will be discovered by the other party one by one, and againCoupled with the trivial life after marriage, some shortcomings will be infinitely magnified and eliminatedThis leads to many people feeling that their partner is different before and after marriage, and thus begins to dislike each other. <>
Ma Yili. There is a sentence that can describe such a change very well, although it is easy to fall in love and get married, it is not easy to do it and cherish it. Falling in love is easy, you only need to think about how to make each other happy and how to make the relationship between the two parties go further, so when falling in love, most men will put effort into creating a romantic atmosphere and making women feel happy.
After getting married, what the young couple needs to consider is no longer the wind and snow, life pressure, the run-in of the two families, having children, etc. will occupy all the time of the two, romance can only be done occasionally, and some even can't scruple at allIf both parties are still in love, the marriage may fall apart due to frequent arguments. <>
In fact, in love life, no matter how loving you are before marriage, how good you are in the eyes of the other party, you can't escape the image rupture and emotional fatigue after marriage, the difference is only that some people can adjust their mentality in a way that suits their marriage, but some people choose to give up this marriage because of imperfection. In the author's opinion, the former is sensible, she can see the essence of marriage, while the latter is really blind, because no marriage does not need to be managed, and it is perfect.
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Because when two people are in love, they will deliberately collect their bad side, and what they show each other will be the better side. When I was in love, I won each other's hearts, and I did my best to please each other, often making a little romance, eating together, shopping, and watching movies. Some are good times in life, no stress, no worries.
And after getting married, it's different. Getting married means marrying a big family, and the other party's parents and relatives have become your relatives, and you have to bear more responsibilities. You are no longer two people alone, you are the bridge between the two big families, and all the conflicts in the family need to be resolved and maintained by the two of you.
In addition, the pressure of life is high, housing loans, car loans, and raising children. Everyone is in a state of exhaustion, and they may not have so much patience to care about the feelings of the other half.
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The reason why there is such a chain of thought is because the relationship between the two people has been determined after the marriage of the high code, and at this time, both parties feel that the other party has arrived, and it is not very important to weigh it, so it will reveal a lot of shortcomings, which will be disliked by the other party.
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There is always a big difference between falling in love and getting married, and many people will find a lot of differences after getting married, so why do most people dislike each other after getting married?
First, the responsibility of marriage is more importantFalling in love is when two people come together because they like each other, as long as two people are happy, they will feel very happy and will not think about other things. But once you get married, you need to be responsible for each other, and if two people form a big family, you need to be responsible for the family. Marriage between two people means that they can't easily choose to break up, nor can they easily contradict each other, and they need to be maintained with love and responsibility.
Marriage is a marriage in which two people cherish each other and take on the profession of supporting the family, and they can't just take care of their own ideas.
Second, life needs more running-in Once two people come together and become husband and wife, it means that they will live together every day. When you fall in love, you don't face it every day, you will be together when you are happy, and you will not meet when you are unhappy. However, after getting married, it is different, you need to live together, even if you are unhappy, you have to face each other.
There are always a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, and the process of getting along with two people is a run-in process, so they will dislike each other.
3. The interests involved in marriage are more, and when falling in love, two people will not put their property together, they only need to pay separately, and their own interests will not be reduced at all. However, once you become a husband and wife, many times the interests are linked, and any decision made by one party will affect the other party, so there will be some small frictions. <
Marriage does require greater responsibility, but the happiness gained is not the same as falling in love, and since we have bravely chosen marriage, we should be responsible for this relationship. We should understand each other a little more and give each other a little more tolerance, so that we will be happy in marriage.
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Because when you are in love, both parties are showing their good side, and you are not together 24 hours a day when you are in love, but once you get married, what kind of behavior do you do in the same family and the same environment in the same environment, and even what bad habits you have, you will see that your behavior after marriage will be completely exposed These behaviors, most of them are not found in the process of falling in love, this is a kind of psychological gap, It is the feeling that the ideal does not match the reality.
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When you fall in love, you have your own filter, and you only remember the good of each other. And after getting married, all you see are shortcomings, and you will naturally dislike it.
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Because in romantic relationships, the man is more likely to please the woman, and most of them use consumption to create a pleasant atmosphere for both sexes, so as to stabilize and sublimate the emotion. In the marriage relationship, it is more necessary for both parties to pay and take responsibility, just like Party A and Party B have become partners, and the same rights and responsibilities may not be possible for everyone, not to mention that so many couples still have unclear rights and responsibilities. Falling in love enjoys physical pleasure, while marriage really tests the psychological level.
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Because after getting married, I was shocked by many reasons in reality, so everyone has different shortcomings.
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Because when you fall in love, you are not very familiar with it, and there is no contradiction. And after getting married, the two will have a lot of conflicts after being together for a long time. Naturally, they began to dislike and quarrel with each other.
It's true, no matter how much your husband loves him, he shouldn't be treated as a relative, because her husband's heart will change, so you must take precautions.
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