No matter how loving a husband and wife are, it is difficult to get to the end of what they have not

Everyone gets married and goes to the end with this man, but the reality is often not like this.

Too many couples, newlyweds have a very good relationship with each other, but in the past few years, the two people have finally separated, and it is difficult to get to the end of the day.

This is because husband and wife, in addition to having love for each other, have many other ways to get along.

If a couple gets married and never "shares" three things, even if they are in a good relationship now, it will be difficult to get to the end in the end, you should be careful.

01, no money has been shared.

Although some people say that talking about money hurts feelings, I think that beautiful feelings still have to talk about money.

But after marriage, the husband and wife are a family, and if the family members are very clear about money or care, then there will inevitably be problems.

A person, no matter how good he is to you and how good sweet words he says, if he always looks at his own money very tightly and worries that you spend his money, it is definitely not the love you imagined to love you.

In the same way, if a woman wants to ask a man for money for everything, she will not give anything, and in the same way, she does not have so many feelings for this family.

As the saying goes: husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes.

Although this is not very good, but it is very real, in life, many couples, when the days are good, the relationship with each other is also very good, but when they meet each other in a difficult period, the relationship begins to change.

But after living for so long, few people have been stable and free of difficulties all their lives, and most people will accept the hardships of life to a greater or lesser extent in the days to come.

If a couple can hold each other's hands when they encounter difficulties, and break through the current difficulties through the joint efforts of both parties, the relationship between husband and wife will be stronger and the future will be more loving.

On the contrary, only those couples who share the same ups and downs, but cannot share the weal and sorrow, even now still love each other deeply, but if they encounter some difficulties, the relationship between them can easily break down.

03, I haven't shared my thoughts.

Everyone has their own thoughts, it may be in their work, it may be their family, maybe they have never told anyone, they are always silently hidden in their hearts.

However, the relationship between husband and wife is no more than ordinary people, two people together, to be closer to each other's hearts, you must open your heart and let the other party fully understand themselves.

Therefore, those unspeakable thoughts, at this time, there will be a place to confide, talk to your other half, and show him the most authentic side, so that he can fully understand himself.

The husband and wife have not shared the hearts and money of both parties, no matter how loving they believe, it is difficult to go to the white end, the husband and wife have hidden their privacy, and have never made a heart, how to get along calmly, as a husband and wife, if it is still AA system, it means that both of them are not considered to be family members of each other, and they are too clear in terms of money.

There is an old Chinese saying: husband and wife are flying separately when the same forest bird is in trouble!

It's the hardest thing to have not shared with each other's previous dating partners. Although both men and women think that they can tolerate each other's past, they still can't get over that hurdle in their hearts. If you can't get over that hurdle in each other's hearts, you will mention these things in your life, intentionally or unintentionally, and these things will cause conflicts to erupt.

In the life of the couple, there are many things that are shared, and if there are some things that are not shared, then there may be no real love, and it is likely that married life will not last long, so, what is it? Let's take a look at it.

In fact, after getting married, many things will start, which can be the pressure of life and work, or it can be the difficulty of economic development. If a woman sees such difficulties in a marital relationship, she will want to leave and do not want to face the difficulties with the boy. For men, this can be very affected.

After all, she was already tired in the face of difficulties. At this time, the woman or this look, we can see that their feelings are not very deep, but we can see that such a marriage will not last long.

In fact, no one is alone in this life. Choosing to live alone may be because it is damaged. Then, as a couple, you can share some happy things you encounter in your daily life or some troubles at work after you get home from work in the evening.

Only by introducing one's own affairs to the other party can others understand themselves better and understand themselves better. Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife last longer.

In fact, in today's society, there is relatively little time to suffer together. They can go through more tough times together, that is, when a vacation trip or vacation trip is crowded, at this time they can enjoy together a food ingredient, or even a radish and kimchi, in other words, a bucket of instant noodles, all better. In fact, they really love someone and don't easily look down on his saliva.

On the contrary, eating one food ingredient strengthens each other's feelings.

First of all, we have shared a water cup and a toothbrush. Shared each other's leftovers. Having shared these few things shows that they don't dislike each other at all, and they really love each other.

If you haven't shared a bed, you have shared money, their clothes, you haven't shared the benefits brought by their parents, and you haven't shared the warmth, it's not true love.

Including some things in their daily life, each other's inner secrets are very important, if the husband and wife do not carry out the corresponding analysis, it will greatly affect the cultivation of the feelings of the two people, which is not conducive to communication, including some interesting things at work between each other, do not share, it means that the relationship between the two parties is not so good.

There was no sharing of wardrobes and money for two people. There are also bank cards. Only having shared these things can prove that the relationship between two people is very close.

Because these three things can best reflect the feelings between husband and wife, and they are also a test of the feelings between them, if they can share the chain Zheng words, their feelings are very sweet.

Because such a sleepy husband and wife cannot treat each other sincerely, there will be a lot of sense of distance, so breaking up and getting along with each other will definitely produce more contradictions, and in the end, it can only affect the feelings of the two people.

Because if husband and wife can't share before the slip, it means that they haven't fully trusted each other, but it's not enough to love each other thoroughly, and they still have some reservations about each other, so it's difficult to lose their hearts without delivering true love.

It is difficult to get to the end without sharing money, difficulties, and worries. Couples who can share each other's hearts will not only feel that they are very important in each other's hearts, but also feel that they are loved, and in the future, the relationship between the two people will be better, and the closer their hearts will be.

I think it's hard for couples to get along if they don't have a common topic in common. the second has no common goal, and the third has no common concept of consumption; the fourth has no shared values; The fifth has no common hobbies.

If two people don't have a home, don't have something to pay together, and have no feelings for this family, it will be difficult to get to the end of the day.

To be able to share secrets, and to be able to hold and enjoy bank cards together, and at the same time, to be able to share some interesting things in life, or some troublesome things, in short, to be able to share the joys and sorrows, most of these couples can be in love with each other.

Marriage is ruined, can "share" preferences, secrets, connections, time, and pain, so that most of the couples in the cave hall are in love with each other, because Nayin is only those who have shared the above five things, in order to be able to spend their lives without regrets, to pay for their feelings, so that they can cherish this hard-won feelings.

First, share preferences. Second, share secrets. Third, share more connections.

Fourth, share time. Fifth, Tuanchun shares a miserable file or rolling pain. Of course, being able to love Bai Shou is not just about sharing these five things.

Mutual respect and understanding are also required.

The shared hall shouts only preferences; sharing secrets; shared connections; share time; Share the pain. Of course, it is not so simple for husband and wife to love each other, but as long as the above 5 things have been shared, at least they can live a life without regrets.

Couples who have never shared the economy will always have a sense of distance; Couples who have not shared secrets are only in the same bed and have different dreams after all, and they can't really understand each other; Couples who have not shared a circle of friends cannot integrate into each other's lives, and it is difficult for them to get to the end of the day.

As far as I know, it's best not to share the same workplace between husband and wife. If the husband and wife are in the same workplace, in fact, there is nothing for the two to communicate with after work. It is also possible that the relationship between husband and wife may be affected because of conflicts at work.

Not experiencing hardships together and sharing their pasts. Only couples who share hardships will cherish each other more and have a stronger relationship. Each person's past has a great impact on their future, and knowing each other's past can deepen their understanding of each other and deepen their feelings.

Husbands and wives can share the economic crisis, and only by sharing hardships and hardships can they share happiness. Share the trough of life, stay together and never give up. Share housework, burden ordinary and small things together, and pass big things together.

Towels, toothbrushes, personal clothes, if these three things have not been shared, then the other party must dislike you, and you are not so important in his heart at all, even after being together, there will be conflicts because of all kinds of trivial things, affecting the relationship, and they can't go to the end together.

Couples who have not shared glory and wealth together, frustrations and tribulations together, and emotional experiences are generally difficult to reach the end because they do not know each other well enough.

The first thing is that the quilt is not shared by two people, indicating that two people have no feelings, the second thing is that chopsticks are not shared by two people, and they will definitely not grow old, and the third thing is that the toothbrushes of two people are not shared together, and these things have not been shared, indicating that such couples will not grow old.