What do you think about the quarrel between lovers, it s not all the girl s fault, but the girl keep

Many people think that girls are used to spoil, even if she loses her temper, boys have to let it. I don't think it's important who is right and who is wrong in a fight, it's important that both sides stay rational and think more about each other. If it is a rational girl, she will know that it is her fault and will apologize to the boy.

However, there are also girls who know that they are making trouble unreasonably, but they don't want to take the initiative to apologize for the sake of face, and just want to go down a step, so the boy should take the initiative to ease his emotions based on his understanding of the other party. If a girl is sensible, she will be better to her boy.

If it's a trivial matter, the girlfriend is just to be coquettish and let the boyfriend experience her needs and mood, then as a man, be lenient and don't care. If it is indeed the woman who has done something wrong, hurt the other party, or even hurt the other party's family, then she must apologize, otherwise the two people will get along with each other from the beginning, and there will be no right and wrong and no bottom line in their common life in the future.

Even if it is the woman's fault after the quarrel, as a man, you must tolerate the woman, only in this way can the two live for a lifetime, for a family harmony, there is nothing for a man to pay more and suffer more grievances, and the wife is married to help you bear part of the housework and courage, and women are born to be pure. Since we have lived together, we must tolerate each other, understand each other, and understand each other. But as a woman, after a quarrel, the man apologizes to you, don't worry about it, talk or talk, and do the laundry for the man.

Two people live together, and contradictions are inevitable. It's normal to quarrel in love. But the question is why noisy, willful, contradictory, misunderstood, impulsive.

Analyze rationally, empathize, criticize and self-criticize each other, and put yourself in each other's shoes. Don't let love cool down because of quarrels, but when both parties are calm and rational, find out their own shortcomings and mistakes, especially men, be proactive, open-minded, more tolerant, big things into small things, and small things to deal with directly face-to-face.

Think about the difficulties of two people, the bits and pieces of two people together, have a sincere feeling, calmly face the inconvenience and sadness caused by loss alone, after letting the heart melt a little bit, turn around, analyze your own shortcomings, analyze your own problems, and change yourself, such as not drilling the horns, not blaming each other, not nitpicking, commanding, if you change and don't see the other party change, the girl has been apologizing, indicating that the girl cherishes this relationship.

Two people who quarrel a lot, one of them must be the initiator of every quarrel, and the other fights with it. If the woman quarrels every time she doesn't stop until she reaches her goal, and breaks the casserole to ask the end, I think that if the man chooses to forbear, he will become a habitual choice to apologize in the future, and the woman will habitually want the man to apologize, and this problem develops into a marital relationship, and if you have a child in the future, it will have a certain impact on the child.

Most arguments between couples are made by the more loving spouse to apologize. In reality, there are also many couples who apologize first after a quarrel, because some romances are more concerned by girls, and boys have an indifferent attitude, so people who care more about this relationship, and people who can't do without this relationship, after the quarrel, he will be the first to apologize and admit his mistakes.

I think that girls are not too excessive, it is best for boys to apologize first, girls are more emotional, boys apologize first does not mean that he is really wrong, girls actually understand in their hearts, girls will feel that boys care more about him, admitting mistakes first is a kind of generosity and tolerance, in the hearts of girls will be closer to the feelings of the two.

No matter how good the relationship is, couples will have quarrels, sometimes it is obviously the girlfriend's fault, but in the end the quarrel becomes the boy's fault, which is a very normal phenomenon.

We must believe that when there is a quarrel between boyfriend and girlfriend, only the boy will be better able to solve the problem if he admits his mistake, otherwise the conflict will escalate. When a boy and a girl quarrel, if the boy does not compromise, it will make the girl more angry and cause the conflict to escalate even more.

In a relationship, we must know that boys need to take on more responsibilities, and the first responsibility is to need to be in a good mood for their girlfriends, and not to make the other party angry, otherwise it is the biggest undesirable. No matter whose fault it is, even if it is a girl's mistake, you must take the initiative to take responsibility for your own mistakes, so that the boy will feel good and the matter will be resolved. Boys should know how to take care of their girlfriends, and don't argue with their girlfriends about whose mistakes they make, which will lead to the other party's unhappiness, which will affect their feelings, and finally their own mistakes.

We should all know that girls are unreasonable many times, even if it is their own fault, but they will not admit their mistakes, but hope that the other party will give them a step. For girls, I hope that the other party can know how to give in, even if it is their own mistakes, they must admit it as soon as possible, so that girls will feel that they have met the right person, and thus they will feel very happy.

We must always firmly believe that in the process of falling in love, no matter whose mistake it is, the boy must take the initiative to admit his mistake, so that he will have a better life. Don't reason with girls, because girls are the biggest truth, otherwise you will only be helpless in the end, and you will be tortured.

This is caused by the difference in the physiological conditions of men and women, women are inherently weak, and they are very good at disguise, and everyone is sympathetic to most of the situations of women.

Personally, I think this is because girls are generally reluctant to admit their mistakes, so they like to blame boys for their mistakes.

Because the brain structure of boys and girls is different, boys think more rationally, while girls think more emotionally. The logic of men's thinking is that you are wrong in this matter, I told you it, you have to correct it, just don't make such a mistake next time. And the way of thinking of women must be, you actually contradict me?

You're reasoning with me.

Because girls' personalities are more willful, sometimes they quarrel with their boyfriends, and their boyfriends will tolerate them and let them, so in the end they all become boys' faults.

Because girls are more willful and vexatious. So even though it's the girl's fault, if you have a fight, you'll definitely end up blaming the boy.

Because the boy was stupid and couldn't speak, the quarrel turned into a quarrel in the end.

It's the boy's fault, so that the girl can be faster and not angry.

Because girls are more lucky, girls are more domineering, so if you want to keep girls, you can only admit that it is your fault in the end, or the girl will not give up, and he will continue to quarrel with you.

In fact, between two people, it is difficult to say who is right and who is wrong. But sometimes girls have this habit, even if they are wrong, they want boys to coax themselves, not because they don't understand, but because they want to feel this way.

It's obviously his girlfriend's fault, but in the end, the ugliness became the boy's fault, which shows that this boy is still a tolerant person, and he won't hurt his girlfriend in order to fight for a right or wrong.

Girls need to be coaxed, their minds are fickle, and sometimes they are unreasonable. So, as a man, be generous and don't be like a girl.

Because girls are very messy and pestering. The girl never admits her mistakes, so it becomes the boy's fault in the end of the quarrel.

Because there are many girls who are unwilling to admit their mistakes, or girls feel that admitting their mistakes is a very faceless thing in the process of dating boys, so they push the mistake on this man.

It is normal for two people in love, Mr. Zhang quarrels together, if the girl is wrong, you think you can still have a relationship with him, you must let him take the initiative to admit his mistake to her, just to make the girl happy.

The girlfriend's fault, but it is not a blind quarrel that can distinguish right from wrong, but it is easy to intensify the conflict.

Because now that there are more men and fewer women, it will become a feminist society, and if you don't let her, you will become someone else's girlfriend.

If it's obviously your girlfriend's fault. It's the fault of running to the end to become a boy, it's wrong, it's wrong, boys shouldn't quarrel with girls, I think people who really love girls. I shouldn't have quarreled with girls. It should make girls happy all the time.

Because girls are very emotional, if you say his mistakes, you're finished, so it's recommended to coax more.

Because in the end, the man will admit his mistake and coax the woman back, and the woman will be angry.

As a boy, then in this emotional quarrel, you must give way to a little girl, this is for sure, learn to be humble.

Although it often happens that the girlfriend is wrong, all they care about is whether the man loves her or not? If a boy doesn't love him, it's a waste of saliva to say anything, and if a boy loves her, he must be reluctant to make her angry.

It doesn't matter whose fault it is in the quarrel between boyfriends and girlfriends, in general, it is the guy who has to admit his mistake in the end.

There is no rule that says that a boy must apologize before a girl, but most people acquiesce in this way. Boys should take the initiative to be soft, and when there is a conflict, they will be generous, and girls seem to have a certain initiative here.

In fact, such a love model also depends on the relationship between two people, if two people are in a very equal relationship, then it may be a matter of facts, who is wrong is who is wrong, then whose fault will be recognized, but if two people are in an unequal love relationship, then it may not necessarily be balanced, most of the person who is being pursued has no fear, he has the absolute initiative, so he is generally not the party who takes the initiative to admit his mistakes.

Between you and your girlfriend, you are always enduring it, then it can be explained that you secretly pursue your girlfriend, you have no initiative, since you admit your mistakes without the initiative, I don't think there is anything wrong at all, there are few people who can make right and wrong clear in the relationship, so you chose this girlfriend, you should tolerate his little problems, of course, the big issues of principle should still be on the matter.

I just want to ask, if your girlfriend is angry with you, do you want to be reasonable or do you want a girlfriend?As long as you think about this problem clearly, it will be clear how to do it.

I don't think so, otherwise if you get married in the future, the other party will think that you should let him.

I think it's an unwise choice to quarrel, and if you lose the quarrel, you may lose your girlfriend if you get angry and win. Whether you quarrel or lose, you will suffer, sometimes even if the other party does something wrong, you don't blame her, in fact, she herself knows that she is wrong, you accuse her, she will feel that you are a blow to her dignity and self-esteem, self-esteem will drive her not to admit her mistakes, even if he himself knows that he is wrong, he will not admit his mistakes or even quarrel with you. You can try, next time she does something wrong, don't accuse, just stare at her with a smile, she will feel shy and embarrassed, and even run over to play coquettish with you.

I think if a guy and a girl quarrel, well, when he's angry, the boy can apologize first. At this time, girls are relatively uncalm, and she will be very angry when you hear what you say. You can apologize first, and then analyze the problem rationally when both of you are calm.

Who admits fault first in the quarrel, mainly depends on what the problem is?If it is some small problems, the man should take the initiative to apologize to the woman, but in the face of major events, there must be facts and principles, and you can't blindly judge who is right and who is wrong, which will encourage the other party's bad habits.

Guys should really let a girl, so that the relationship can be better.

Boys should let girls be blindly humble, and it will not make the relationship last, or should be measured.

As a manly husband, you must have this awareness. It's not who lets whom, but it depends on whether you love her enough, if you love her, you can tolerate everything she has. There will be no quarrels, there is no right or wrong between lovers. Don't be reasonable, learn to be tolerant.

Boys should indeed let girls, but if girls are also wrong, that's a different story.

Should let the girl, if he has a man outside is a big mistake can't be allowed,

If you love her, you should apologize first, provided that your girlfriend is not unreasonable and messing around, otherwise you will be more and more sad.

It's not whether it should or shouldn't, but what to do, let it go when it should be, and don't let it when it shouldn't.

Everyone is equal in front of feelings, but boys should give girls enough love, don't cold war, coax, women love you, you must spoil her, I wish you a long time.

Quarrels make girls appear generous, and it is easy to make girls happy, why bother hurting feelings for a while, you should let go, and you haven't stepped on the bottom line.