Ask the elders how my life should go

Oh, this situation seems to exist in ordinary young people. If you don't really enter the society, you can't experience the darkness of society, and you can't appreciate the hardships of life, this result may be inevitable. For a 17-year-old minor, now is the time to make amends.

In other words, it is also an opportunity to make corrections. I don't know if your brother is still studying. I think it is appropriate to expose him to some social realities.

For example, some jobs that contribute more effort and pay less. Create a pressure on him to realize for himself that if he doesn't work hard, he won't be able to gain a foothold in this society. You can start with his interests, even if it's a game or some other recognized one"Not doing business"things.

I often failed the course when I was an undergraduate, but when I really entered the society, many issues would be considered very clearly. Because the reality is in front of us. You can properly cultivate some habits of reading idle books.

Patiently analyze some philosophical truths to him, and educate him with some examples that he can see. Don't fulfill all his demands, let him know that the reward is based on the effort. If he's no longer studying, consider letting him learn some skills.

Be ruthless, the so-called hard work, starve its body and skin. Of course, this requires a lot of determination on the part of parents. In short, this kind of thing is not something that can be said in one or two sentences.

If you really want him to do something, you can slowly arrange some simple things that he is interested in, so that he can have a successful experience, and at the same time, do not let him feel proud. It's a process, slow and deep, to let him know that he too can succeed.

In this world, 95% of people are ordinary people, I don't know if LZ is among the 95%, if you are the 5%, you don't need to look at the following.

What does it mean to be an ordinary person? You won't be in a plane crash, you won't win a lottery ticket, you won't be a millionaire, you will bargain for something, your husband and wife will quarrel or even divorce This is the kind of life we live, and 95% of us can't escape this law.

Therefore, we must face up to our position in this society and try to live a better life as far as the objective laws allow.

So how can you live better? Or rather, how can you live better than most of the people around you? It's very simple, you are studying while others are entertaining, you are thinking when others are sleeping, and you are wasting time while others are making progress with all your time.

Put aside unrealistic fantasies, be clear about your goals, put in more effort than others, and persevere when you encounter difficulties, and life should go on like this

Take your steps forward happily step by step, and when you successfully take the first step, you will find your own direction and find new feelings. Don't think about the pain, because the more you remember the pain, the more painful it becomes. Failure is also an important step in life. Regroup and create brilliance.

Go with the flow and have a goal is good. But reality is always destroying dreams like enemies. There will be many choices in the future of life, and how to choose when the time comes, you need to be cautious.

Now that you have grown up, have you ever thought about repaying your parents, thinking about how your parents have grown up for 20 years, but you are here to say if you want to go on! Don't you think it's funny?? Children are mature, failure does not mean that it is a lifetime failure, I still say that the most important thing is to be able to laugh to the end!

What's your condition?

Generally speaking, look in one direction and go straight ahead, no matter how fast or slow, as long as you are walking the right way, don't hesitate to keep walking.

Life is a bad thing, and we can't change anything but make it worse!!

One is to wait for death, but to forget the existence of death.

You can go as you want.

Everyone's different.

The value and meaning of life is given by yourself, and what anyone else imposes on you is not your life, but someone else's life, so if you want to know what life is, only ask your own heart, where your heart goes, is the direction of your life, don't use other people's standards to demand yourself, otherwise you will always be a dancer on the stage, and spend a lifetime to interpret others, which is the biggest sorrow in life!

What suits you is the best, and what can make you feel happy is what guides you in the direction of happiness.

For the sake of money, too tired. For the sake of love, it's too wronged. For the sake of parents, there is too little filial piety. For the sake of the child, there is too much to worry about. For the sake of friends, I don't want to do it for too long. In short, too much helplessness!

If you don't have money, you have no dignity and no status, I was educated and stupid when I was young, and I worked more regardless of money, and as a result, as soon as I got divorced, the fucking leader made me unemployed, and he said that if I got divorced and brought a sick child, I couldn't live more. That year, I lost a lot of money, which was really worse, and I almost committed suicide, and now I have a little experience, and I can only survive by begging for living expenses on **. This kind of day reminds me of the snake man who said, knowing that ** is risky, but I have to do it for the sake of life, I don't know if I encounter a bear market in the future, I won't be able to live.

After the typhoon the night before, the only mango tree in our factory was broken, and I wrote the following article to see if it is useful to you!

The Mango Tree in the Wind

After a typhoon overnight.

The only mango tree in the factory.

In the past several typhoons.

Again and again it fell and again and again.

This time, however, he was not spared.

Finally, it was unbearable to be blown by the strong wind.

Broken from the roots.

Can no longer be born again.

And found out in the course of the inspection.

The root cause of it being blown down multiple times plus being broken this time.

It's because it's planted too shallowly.

The roots of the tree do not penetrate deep into the soil.

If the foundation is too shallow, it will eventually fall to the ground.

Thinking of myself in a trance.

Remembering everything that happened in the past.

It turns out to be so similar to the mango tree in the wind.

Because their "roots" are too shallow.

will blow down again and again in the wind and rain of life.

Stand up again and again.

And now there is still life.

But how many times can you hold on.

The mango tree will never come back to life.

Somewhat glad. Because he hasn't fallen yet.

Although there will be worries too.

Will your life be like it?

One day he collapsed because he could not withstand the huge wind and rain.

I can't get up again.

But I'm going to keep going.

This is the path of life.

I had to try to finish it.

I want to thank this mango tree in the wind.

It was it that told me.

There is no strong and deep foundation.

It will not escape the blowing of the wind.

That's what life is all about.

The same is true of life.

Don't be relieved, child. Starting your own business also requires certain ability and experience, and working in a company is actually a good place to learn experience. At least, you have to know how to manage your own business, right? You should learn management first.

Employment first, Wu Lao laughs and then starts a business, at least you have to take the premise that you can support yourself, right?

To start your own business, you must have certain ability and experience! Go for business, do the business of the industry you want to do in the future! Tianxingjian, self-improvement, 、、、 breakthrough.

What kind of work have you done before? Is it now that nothing can be accomplished? Have you ever asked yourself what the hell is going on?

Have you ever observed the people around you, why can you succeed? Have you ever observed that there are also a group of people around you who have failed? What characteristics do they all have in common?

Have you ever understood your heart's true needs and desires? These are all areas that cause annoyance, and of course there are many, many more. If you have no desires and no desires, you will have no troubles, is the desire in your heart very great?

Everything needs to be meditated.

d. Be ashamed to ask: Be willing to learn from people who are less knowledgeable or have a lower status than yourself, and not feel embarrassed. Thriving:

Shin Shin: Describes the vigorous growth of plants and trees; Rong: Lush.

Describe the vegetation growing luxuriantly. The metaphor is that the cause is thriving and thriving. Pick the fat and pick the skinny:

Picking, picking: choosing; Fat: Fatty meat; Skinny:

Lean meat. The parable picks and chooses, and the light should be good for oneself.

To live is to be born and to live. Think about whether what they ask you to do is good for you, and if you think you really don't like it, then tell them that you don't like it, as long as sensible parents should understand. How much money you earn is not a specific number, but you have to work hard to make money, for yourself and for your parents, but also for the future home, now this society has no money, although you don't want to be a multimillionaire, but you work hard to make money with a clear conscience.

For it is impossible for man to live only for himself. Therefore, in life, you must be worthy of yourself, your parents, and others, work hard, live well, and let yourself feel that you have not come to the world for a trip in vain.

I suggest you take a look at "How Steel is Made", we have too many confusions, all of which come from the fact that our hearts are not strong enough, or our mentality is not positive enough, read more books, and provide spiritual food.

Born, live! Everything else is just an interpretation of this sentence!

The meaning of life lies in the attitude towards life. Be optimistic and positive.

I've been here to play all my life, really. Although I am not rich, I just want to be happy (provided that I don't hurt others) and I don't feel that money, social status, fame, etc. are my goals in life. It's important, but I don't really care.

Don't hesitate to teach.

bù lìn cì jiào

Explanation] stingy: stingy; Give: Reward; Teach: teach, teach. I don't hesitate to give my own opinions, and I hope to give guidance. Kind words for advice.

Structure] verb-object idiom.

Usage] as a predicate, object; For humble advice.

synonyms] do not hesitate to advise.

Antonyms] pride and complacency.

Example sentence] But I believe that if there is a time to ask for help, Mr. is sure. (Lu Xun's "Book of Two Places" V).

Don't be ashamed to ask, don't thank me