My life is a mess, how do I go about it

Try to let go of yourself, calm your heart, tell yourself that you are not too late, tell yourself that you are only twenty-seven years old, a boy is twenty-seven years old is the time to be masculine, find a job that you don't think will be too tired to do, and then think about how to live a good life, adjust your emotions, move forward steadily, the road ahead is very long, don't regret how many opportunities you have lost every day, think more about what you have, see how badly you write yourself, There will definitely be friends in your life, even if only one is true to you, then you are happy, you still have a family, you are very lonely, you have to try to communicate more with friends around you, show yourself to the people around you, let more people understand you, I believe you will become confident and cheer.

Personally, I think you should have a belief and a spiritual sustenance. I know the meaning of life closely. Form your own cosmology.

You have to know that life is impermanent, and nothing lasts. Don't look down on yourself. There are two aspects of good and bad things.

The most important thing is a career: When a man has a career, he has self-confidence.

I feel that your life lacks sunshine, vitality. In fact, you are still very young, but your words are full of exhaustion!

Becoming a teacher is your ideal, which means that you have a clear career goal, then your life is still very clear, at least you know where you are going. A lot of the time, we all live in ignorance, and you are one of the few people who knows what you want. So, for work, I would like to tell you that if you think about your goals, you have the courage to persevere, but it is not blind persistence, and it is a great joy in life to be able to find a career that makes you feel happy.

When we are not engaged in a profession that we love, we should look for beauty from our surroundings, feel beauty, and feel happiness.

In terms of feelings, maybe I don't even understand you, because I haven't experienced it. But I want to tell you a little bit of my opinion. Make more friends, this friend is not just the opposite sex, but you can try to make friends with the opposite sex who can talk to someone.

People need to understand each other and care for each other in order to become very close. Human life is very short, and no one can be sure what will happen tomorrow, so when you meet someone you like, don't think too much and be brave. Many times, we will feel tired of life, this time we must learn to self-regulate, life is so precious, why embarrass ourselves!

Follow your heart!I believe you will find a different scenery in life!

First of all, you are a healthy person, and secondly, you have a good family and you are in college. With these three points alone, you are already luckier than 80% of the world's people. No one's life is smooth sailing, and the problems you are facing now are not life-and-death issues, be calm, do your best, and listen to the destiny of God.

It's not that failing to pass the teacher exam is hell, and it's not a temporary dark sky without a girlfriend. Why does a big husband have no wife?Why can't a real man feed himself?

If you want to open up, life is just like that.

You don't have any problems at all, it's normal, whose youth is not confused, I graduated in 88 years this year, and I have achieved nothing to do foreign trade exports, I rent an underground suffocation in Beijing, and I get 4,000 yuan a month, nothing, a 26 is already confused at this age, and we need to continue to struggle to have a way out, and there are very few people who succeed before the age of 30.

Ideas determine the way out, and ideas determine fate.

First of all, you have to correct your own attitude, you feel that you are not handsome, and you dare not pursue the girl you like, this is completely your inferiority complex, I used to be similar to you, but then I figured it out, time is always losing, little by little, you do, it is losing, you don't do it, it is also losing, in this case, why don't you try it, whether you succeed or not, at least you won't feel regret in the future, the good youth is gone, do you think it's worth it?Also, you said that you want to take the teacher exam, I think this is a very good wish, you just need to have a clear conscience, at least you have worked hard, you have struggled, whether you succeed or not, those will have results after you have struggled, and also, your family conditions are compared with me, it is simply much better than me, we don't have any rich relatives in our family, you and your brother He, doesn't he help you again, after I came out of college, I have to rely on myself for everything, there is no one around me to take care of me, I am not still living well, although not better than some people, but not worse than some people, as long as you correct your attitude, all problems will be solvedand cherish yourself.

Hehe, I suggest you take a look at Cai Lixu's lecture on happy life, at the beginning of which he talked about life, the most important thing is to choose, and when it comes to how to choose, this lecture is quite moving, hehe, you can take a look, life is chaotic, I think the main thing is to take one step at a time, and the luck is not good, and then it is messy.

Then let it be messed up a little bit, so messy that you don't want to care about it, and it will be fine!

If you do more meaningful things, it won't be messy, hehe.

Let the master and I will guide you through the maze.