Relationship problems I hope the girl will come in and help me come up with ideas!

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It shows that he likes you very much.

She's a little too shy, though.

You talk to her, the average girl is reluctant to make this relationship public at school, he may be afraid of being seen by others, right?

Maybe she's shy, it's nothing, wait and see.

She said she was afraid of you, and she blushed when she saw you, which means that she also likes you. Since you are both students, it is better to meet normally at school, and it is better not to talk about anything else when you meet, and to talk more about studies or jokes between classmates to eliminate her nervousness. The topic is just that you love me and I love, which makes everyone nervous.

Seeing you nervous means that she also likes you, otherwise how can she not be nervous when she sees other people. You should communicate with her more often, be alone more often, so that your feelings are deep...Naturally, it won't be so nervous, feelings are to be cultivated, take your time, every girl will be shy, take her out for a walk more, do something sweet, and it will be fine in the future. Come on, come on!

Cherish her, she is a person worthy of your love.

It's normal to be shy, especially girls. You choose something that is more acceptable to her, approach it first, and take your time.

Hehe, so do I, but we have to try to refrain from it, and now I don't have it either.

Looks like she likes you.

As long as you don't want to be so complicated, be sincere to her, don't be anxious to show what you mean, see the right time to hang out with her, find the feeling slowly, both parties know the meaning, and then you will succeed.

Can it be simplified, the question is whether you like her or not, if you don't like it, then it's OK to keep your distance from her, don't find out, the two of you are embarrassed, if she asks you or something, you can excuse it, don't just respond to the appointment, like you are so entangled and entangled, it is difficult not to hurt others.

Judging from your description, this person likes you, if you like her, pursue her, if you don't like it, keep your distance, less contact, it's as simple as that.

Even for my sake, he did not hesitate to make enemies of hundreds of people... Forehead support.

Guess what, just ask

Why should girls help you, so that men can help you? Don't indulge in emotional problems too much, and face them calmly. When you meet someone who loves each other, love seriously and build the future together, otherwise, forget the past, continue to search, and know that as long as you have enough courage, confidence and perseverance, you will definitely be able to do what you want.

Fainting to death, that sounds like a joke, are you kidding too?

You just smile and say your name, and you add a liking for her、、、 and it's easy to go.

Nor embarrassing.

Just don't let the girl you like misunderstand.

You're stupid.

There is no love that cannot be forgotten.

Time passes, and you won't forget her, but your feelings for her will fade with time.

I used to think like you, but here I am.

You can start all over again.

She doesn't love you, and you don't want to hold on to anything.

However, you still love her now, so no matter what others say, you still want to be good with her, and it's up to you to make up your mind.

Brother (let's declare that it's a girl first), the second paragraph you typed, why don't you tell your girlfriend about it? From the girl's point of view, I think she will be moved when she listens; Now is not the time for you to seek comfort, because you haven't worked hard for your love, try again, just for the sake of the phrase "I can't like anyone else again in this life".

If it still doesn't work, then give it up, start all over again, learn to forget her, and stop saying stupid things like "I can't like others anymore in this life", love can only reflect its value when it is used on people who also love you, you can afford to put it down, and you can do it.

Finally, I wish you success and get out of the haze as soon as possible!

I can understand your feelings very well Feelings are like this, no one is at a loss for anyone Don't deliberately look for answers in the relationship This will only hurt each other Time is the best antidote Then you will naturally understand it all As long as you love each other, don't entangle See if you don't do well enough If you are impulsive and uncomfortable, you still don't have to think about it If you hurt yourself, learn to take care of yourself You know that you are not alone There is always someone who will help you.

I don't know, why did you break up, so I don't understand how she felt after the breakup, in fact, the best way to forget about a person is to find another person to replace, maybe after the breakup she was very painful so she found a new boyfriend, or maybe she found the advantages in your current boyfriend after the breakup, but all in all, the past is in the past, don't think about it anymore, thinking about it will only find pain for yourself, forget it! Think more about her shortcomings and forget about her

Women are fickle. She must have someone else to share with you.

Before breaking up with you, I must have met the man and decided to be together [it is not excluded that we are already together].

Since it is divided, it is divided, and women are like that.

If she really likes you, she won't. Unless. She already had a crush on that person before you broke up. Breaking up with you is just right to be with another person.

Either that's what she's by nature. It's you who are looking at the wrong person.

Why did you break up、It's a question、

If it's your fault, then she has a new boyfriend, it's probably a spiritual comfort, if it's her fault, it's probably because she's already in love with someone else, and you don't know, as soon as you separate, there is a new one, and it's not strange

In fact, the time when you just break up is the easiest time for the opposite sex to take advantage of it.

Because of the emptiness, it is not unusual to want to have personal comfort.

She was there before she broke up with you, and she only let you see it after she broke up with you.

First of all, sort out the situation: 1: During the four months of dating, what do you feel about your boyfriend, and what is his attitude towards you?

2: With a middle income, you have to take on the responsibility of a family, and it is many years, you also have to have a house, and your children ,......A series of expenses are obviously unaffordable. Are you going to endure it, or something else?

3: His younger brother's loan has to be repaid by his brother, which is unreasonable, and his brother can help for a while, but not all the time!

4；It is undeniable that this man has a strong sense of responsibility, not bad.

Sort it out: think it out one by one.

Brotherly things have always been a pretty annoying thing. You have to know that you are about to get married, and if you identify this man, ignore these current difficulties, I personally think that you love him very much, but now I am a little confused, get married, and if you break up for the sake of this problem, to be honest, it's a pity...But you also have to consider a little bit of reality, after all, if you don't think about feelings, you just get married and have debts, and there are such a big expenses at home, life will definitely be very tight, you or you can talk to your mother, ask your mother's opinion...

In fact, sometimes, people are really entangled and can't let go of their feelings, but the reality is really too realistic, you want to live well in the future, then you think about it again before you get married, ah, have the courage to go on, I hope my answer will be helpful to you

Let's help us come up with ideas! Thank you! I don't know what to do anymore! I want to choose my own with the school in my heart. Let others say it. When there is no continuation, you will suffer from it, and the brother trusts his feelings.

Brotherhood is indeed an inseparable feeling, but they all have to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and sooner or later they will have to be separated.

It's not advisable to protect my brother too much, after all, it's my brother who wants to help, if it's to help my brother delay the marriage, it's really not advisable, if my brother is angry, he should be treated harshly, my sister also scolded me like that, but I can still listen to ......

Tell him that you love him very much, tell him not to wait any longer, tell him to let his brother try to take care of himself, tell him that it is necessary to be selfish with ourselves and start the journey of marriage.

That's enough, don't be overloaded.

You can sit down with your boyfriend and discuss it calmly, ask him what he thinks, and you can also tell him what you think, such as whether you care so much about money and want to pay off the mortgage or whatever, and also plan for the future of both of youLook at how he answers you, or you can discuss with him to let him give less to the family, do a good job of financial planning, enough for you to pay off the mortgage and life, and then give the extra money to his family, if he really loves you, he should also agree, after all, you are a woman, it is also good to be able to make such a concession, and there is no woman who does not want her love life to be bad, I hope it can help you ,!!

Then calm yourself down and think about which one you like?

It's understandable that the family is anxious, but you can't take your own happiness as a child's play, right?

You can marry whoever you like. Don't blindly follow your parents' advice. Personally, I think that marriage should still be up to you.

Wouldn't it be a beautiful thing to choose someone you love to spend your life with? The landlord went to see the Dream of Red Mansions. Don't delay your lifelong happiness is important.

Keep five points to yourself! Exclamation mark big brother!

First of all! You shouldn't eat what's in the pot and look at what's in the bowl! You brought it on yourself! Secondly! You're hilarious! Why!? Because you didn't confess that girl at school! Do you have capital tangled!?

Exclamation mark big brother! If you don't like others! Don't get married and have children who harm others and yourself!

And also! It's not like you can marry whoever you want! At least you haven't asked anyone for their opinion on this girl who is still in school!

You! Can you stop me from thinking you're a creature with no brains!?

Find what you love. Don't blindly satisfy your parents. Or something else. Marriage is not child's play.

Choose your own. Let others say it.

It's up to you to think about it, ask yourself who you really like, and then make a decision, otherwise it's not good for anyone.

When there is no continuation, you will suffer from it, and the brother trusts his feelings.

In fact, your parents are good for you, one is that your boyfriend is a soldier and has been away from home for a long time, and the other is that his parents are not very healthy, if you want to marry in the past, you have to work and take care of his family, your parents are distressed and afraid that you will be wronged, and marriage is a lifelong thing, you should think about it yourself and don't get married with a brain fever (you must know that it is not easy to divorce from a military marriage), and if you really think about getting married, try to let him leave the army.

In fact, the parents' ideas are not necessarily wrong, but the views of the two generations are different, you first think that you are a parent, from a rational and objective point of view, if your daughter is looking for such a family, will you agree, if you will not agree, then what other ways do you want to convince the family?

It's better to obey your parents.

If you will agree, then what is the reason for your consent, parents are not blind to their children's feelings after all, as long as the relationship is good, they also have to think a lot, whether they will live well in the future, how is the other party's family, and many other things.

You make a list of the reasons why you agree, and then communicate the reasons you feel are valid to the parents.

The first thing to know is why your parents are against you.

The ultimate goal is for your own good, and I am afraid that you will be wronged in the future.

They were not happy with him, not even with his family.

Then I believe that he is not only able to let your parents know.

Everyone has their shortcomings, but they also have their strengths.

Touch your parents with his love for you.

Persuade your parents that you will tolerate him and his family.

As long as you feel happy and willing, then even if they don't agree in the short term, they will be impressed by you over time.

If you can't give up on your boyfriend, then there must be many reasons why you can't give up, such as your boyfriend loves you deeply, your boyfriend is very good, your boyfriend is a potential stock, etc., and convince your parents from your boyfriend's point of view.

Your boyfriend's family background is not good, and it can be changed through your efforts, and if your friend is an officer, all this will change.

If it's just an ordinary soldier, then I really suggest that you think carefully and wish you happiness!

Why do you have no future as a soldier?

Don't explain, as long as you are sincerely good, cherish you, care for you, and understand you, you are living with him for the rest of your life and not his parents, right?

From your words, I feel that your family conditions should be much better than his.

After reading so many answers to persuade me to give up, I was speechless and depressed, what a beautiful feeling, what a loyal girl, how touching things, so there are still such pure and beautiful stories in the real era, why not insist? Why give up? As long as you find the right person, many people can live a life of romance and happiness, as long as the two of you have been firm, you will definitely be happy!

The specific solution to the problem is to make yourself happy and happy, because this is the ultimate goal of your parents, you are happy in front of your parents every day, tell them how happy you will be with him, and then work hard to learn some skills and so on, tell your parents that you will go up more with him, slowly, and work hard with your dear, and your parents will agree after a long time. Or, you go to some kind of help show, hehe, such as love defense, haha