How can you tell if the other person is serious about you or on a whim?

In fact, just look at the other party's attitude towards you, his subconscious actions and the way he deals with some issues, you can see whether he is serious about you or just his whim. Because for people, some subconscious actions, inadvertent small details are impossible to disguise. If he is serious about you, then the way he handles things and his knee-jerk actions will be biased towards you, considering your feelings.

First of all, it depends on his attitude towards you, if he is serious, he will care about your feelings, and will not be emotionally hot and cold, which makes you very insecure. He will consciously cut off some of the so-called peach blossoms around him, because he will give you a sense of security and will not let you think crankily. Then for some subconscious actions, he will show a posture of protecting you.

For example, when two people go shopping together, he will consciously hold your hand and let me walk inside every time he walks to protect you as much as possible. And then when you ride the escalator, if you're wearing a skirt, he'll automatically stand behind you and protect you in every way. When eating noodles, if the vinegar is far away from you, he will consciously put the vinegar where you can reach it.

It's all small details, but it's hard to tell you how much he feels for you. Because often some subconscious small actions can best expose a person's inner thoughts, and can also best reflect your position in his heart. <>

When dealing with some things that involve your problems, he will patiently take into account your feelings, carefully ** your emotional changes, and then strive to be able to satisfy you. And he will also plan your future very seriously, because if he is serious, then there must be a place for you in his future blueprint. Because he really sees you as his other half, the kind of person who can spend the rest of his life together.

Therefore, through the above expression, we can understand that if he is serious about you, he will accommodate your emotions, and some subconscious small actions will show a protective posture towards you, and will be biased towards you in the handling of problems, and can plan you into his future.

We can judge by what the other person has done for themselves, and if the other person has been so good to us, it must be serious.

If the other party is on a whim, he will not often take the initiative to contact him, and he will be hot and cold to himself.

If the other party treats himself seriously, he will definitely care about and take care of himself very much, and he will also consider his own feelings when he speaks and acts, and the most important thing is that he can be more durable.

Then you need to judge from the time he insists, if he chases you for a long time, then it means that he is serious.

If the other party is serious about you, then the other party's love for you is definitely very sincere, and they will also pay special attention to your every move, and will often take the initiative to help you.

Look at his performance, but whether he really cares about you or not, or just words, if it's just words, it means that he is just a whim.

Those who really want to pursue you will also be good to you in every bit of life. For example, when the two of you are arguing, he will put yourself in your shoes and think about the problem for you, and he may be tolerant and understanding, because he feels that the quarrel between the two of you will make you feel very wronged, and he can't bear to make you feel a little sad. Maybe the other person will be very uncomfortable when the two of you quarrel, and the people who really want to be with you will be by your side no matter what happens, because they know that companionship is the most affectionate confession.

If a boy is a whim, he will not be particularly enthusiastic about himself later. If he is sincere, he will care for himself with all his heart.

See if he will express it with actions, because some boys will only pay lip service on a whim, and sincerely will use actions to express love.

If he is usually very willing to chat with himself and take good care of himself, it means that this boy is sincere, if he usually has no communication and suddenly chases you, I think it is a whim.

Pass the test of time, for example, a year or two to see if he is still chasing you, if so, it is sincere.

Then it should be judged according to the actions and performance of this boy when he chases you, and according to his attitude.

For three or two days, you will definitely not see any results, and you will not be able to tell whether the other party really likes you or is temporary.

But if after a long time, the communication between the other party and you is still as good as it was at the beginning, then it may really like you.

If it's hot and cold for you, it may be temporary. You should be able to feel it.

See if he wants to appear in front of you, because if you really like someone, you will try your best to appear around you, so you might as well observe him more to see if he is also in the above situation, if yes, then congratulations, someone likes you, if it is not or rarely it is not the kind of intentional or unintentional appearance, then it is just a coincidence, and it has nothing to do with whether you like it or not.

If you are destined, your love story will go on forever. It depends on whether your relationship is strong or not, and it is appropriate to be good to your girlfriend all the time, and you will always be good if you trust each other and respect each other. The two sides should not be suspicious of each other, but must respect each other, trust each other, and understand each other.

On a whim, after a long period of contact, it is natural to distinguish.

I really like to talk to you every day, I want to stay with you every day, I want to do what you like and want him to do for you, I care about you, I am considerate and responsible.

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him. Don't jump to conclusions at the beginning, let alone make it easy, even if a woman is sober, most of the time it is just a sadness, and a hundred and eighty times of injury can't be practiced to be a good body, love this thing must: handle it gently!

Time is the so-called time to see the truth, time to see the hearts of the people.

Look at his eyes and observe him more often.

As the saying goes, a man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but a man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you.

Then test him, and let time tell. At least half a year, if it is still as good as ever to you, it is really like you.

Sincerely, only you know.

It can be verified in the matter!

Actually, this kind of thing is quite difficult to talk about, just take me and my boyfriend as an example. We met at work, and we dated after two months of acquaintance. See what he lacks, you ask him for something, and if you give it, he values you. Then ask him what he wants.

I've actually had your story before, when I was in college, so I understand your struggle. You are a nostalgic person, and being unwilling is also a weakness of human nature, so you are very nostalgic for your ex-girlfriend. I don't know why you broke up, and I don't know who took the initiative to break up, but you still think about her for more than a year, which shows that she has a very stable position in your heart.

As for the cloud, in fact, slowly you find that you still have a good impression of her, people are very strange animals, get along more, you do have feelings for her, and gradually form a dependence, such as he doesn't give you a **, you will look forward to it. But what, you can never pass the hurdle in your heart, what hurdle? "Yun is a few months older than me, and his height is only one meter and a half", it is these two objective factors that make you feel unwilling to find such a girlfriend.

And your attachment to your ex-girlfriend, your unwillingness to give up your attachment to your ex-girlfriend, has become an excuse for you to not be able to face the hurdle in your heart.

It's this excuse that overwhelms you and makes you tangled. In their words, let the past pass, people cannot live in the past, they must face the present, face the future. It's been more than a year since you broke up, and you're no longer the same person you used to be, is it really possible for you to reconcile?

If not, then why let yourself live so alone in the past? In fact, there will be many people in your life, and full memories are the most worthy of your treasure, rather than rejecting all feelings to be alone and breaking up for a year. Besides, starting a new emotional journey with other people doesn't mean that you can't miss her anymore, burying your feelings with her deep in your heart is the most responsible way for her, for the clouds, and for you.

In fact, feelings also need lessons, taking it seriously is the premise, but taking it seriously does not mean that you only take her seriously, and the breakup may be because of all kinds of inappropriateness, or because you are inexperienced and cannot give her the ideal matching love. The feelings in front of you are at your fingertips, and it is impossible for the clouds to wait for you in the same place for too long, don't wait until you miss it to start nostalgic for this friendship again, and you are reluctant to give up, this is simply a vicious circle, brother.

Now all you need to do is think carefully, can you get over that hurdle in your heart? Do you care so much about her age and height? Yun may not have a cute personality, or she may not be tall.

But doesn't a mature girl have her charm? Isn't she really infatuated with her small and delicate, bird-like people? And as you say, she is empathetic and attentive.

Remember, don't use your attachment to your ex-girlfriend as an excuse anymore.

Love is a word created by human beings in order to cover up their desires, so don't think about love complicated, I personally think that if you have an exclusive desire for a person, and the other party can make you care about every move, then you are in love with each other, it is not easy to be happy with each other, you should cherish it.

Alas, in fact, you have never accepted her in your heart, and you can't accept it at all, let it go, it will be good for yourself and for the other.

The landlord is so patient. Writing so long, the first feeling.

You like her for sure, you have to be a little warmer in case she dies of mixed mix.

When you get along with others on a whim, you tend to be more anxious and impulsive, so that the relationship between the two is not easy to last. If you want to be in a hurry, you have to change your haste so that she can feel that you don't know her on the spur of the moment. Words are not enough, we need to change our approach.

All the beginnings are because of a whim, with inner feelings, it is more important than serious consideration, some things have been seriously considered for a long time, and the results are not satisfactory, like a child is that you always have a simple and sunny heart.

This feeling is that you have a different position from the beginning, and the first impression of a person is very important, which is called whether you have a good impression or not, others are serious about you, and you are just playing with others. But sometimes it's important to give due consideration to the feelings of others.

That's just playing. So (*m). You do.

If you haven't grown up, you can go out and exercise.

You work hard not to move anyone, nor to prove to anyone, but you know that working hard is the best gift in life to yourself, maybe mixed with a point of unwillingness, that is because you have the best self in your heart!

Looking at people, not every girl is the same, and some will only call one person husband in their life, or feel very serious about this title. Some people are as good as they can be, and they call their husbands when they sleep with a man casually.

It's okay if you're quite strong, don't take it seriously.

Just shout casually, don't take it seriously.

At present, I just have a good impression of you, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been popular for a long time, and I will see it after a while

Looking at your description, I feel that he likes you, it's too fast and too direct, but I don't know if it's a whim, but does it matter if it's the one that rises? There are some things that you don't experience how to grow up, only when you are exposed to it, you will have the right judgment, make your own choice, will turn this experience into experience, and will grow up, right?

He's what you like, ask him. Or observe if he is only like this to you, if she treats others like she does to you, I think you still forget it.

We can't understand the truth or falsehood, you need to be attentive yourself, the key is that you like him?

It's a good thing she thinks so. Prove that she is serious about you and really wants to develop with you. If she's just playing games with you, she doesn't have to think about these issues at all.

If you are sincere, you just need to be nice to her and show your true self and true feelings.

If you want to have fun, please let her go, thank you.

If she says this, she doesn't necessarily mean that she won't accept you, you can still try to develop faster, she has insecurity, but it is impossible to wait until she is secure enough to start talking.

Uh, this... I guess they're all a little embarrassed! After all, some people are afraid of getting hurt, but I'm sure she's definitely a beauty. You're going to have to work hard.

I also think it's hard to be sure.,Sometimes it's just that the good feeling is not the kind of deep like.,It's going to be discovered after a long time.,Let's take it slowly.。

Approach him a foot or so and see if your heart is going to beat faster.

Modern people have no emotions anymore! It's so flooded, the best way is to push it, and if you feel like you're together.