How do you tell if someone really has a crush on you, talk about it?

It is relatively easy to see that a person has a good impression of you, from the small details. For example, if you inadvertently turn around, you will find that his eyes have been on you, and then just right, the two of you meet eye contact, and he will immediately look away. Of course, there are some braver and sultry little brothers who will smile sweetly at you, and then your little heart will flutter and turn around with a smile.

Also, you can always meet him in different places, and then he pretends to meet you just by chance, greets you, and says what a coincidence, in fact, such a big campus, how can it be so easy to meet by chance, and it is not a chance encounter he created for you, wanting to see you all the time, and then revolve around you.

Look at which direction his body is facing and the micro-movements when he talks to you. If the two of you are sitting and chatting, even if the other person's upper body is inclined to you, but his feet are facing the opposite direction of you or are very upright, it means that his heart has not been given to you. If you are standing and talking, then observe the distance between the two people, generally within 1250px, which is an intimate distance, more than 1250px means that your relationship is not too close.

Secondly, is his body language defensive? Is it holding your arms, is it leaning back?

It's very simple, look at the details, there is a big mystery hidden in the small details, there is nothing wrong with this word, and you can adapt to it when you go to **. When I first started in a relationship, I replied to messages at a rapid pace, and if she loved you, she should hesitate to reply to every message you sent because she cared about how to phrase it, because she cared so much about her impression of you. If she replies to you quickly without thinking, it only means that she is relaxed about your relationship, and even doesn't pay attention to it at all.

Daily chat, if you chat, the other party didn't reply at the time, and later replied "busy with work, sorry to just see" You can continue to pursue getting along, because he is still explaining to you why the reply is late, and he still has you in his heart. Let's look at the frequency of your likes, comments, and chats, the higher the frequency, the better I will be for you. If you don't even have the simplest likes, then where are you in his heart, you will know if you have a good impression, right?

I liked someone at the time and didn't dare to confess at the time, I also looked at whether she had a good impression of me before I began to confess, I said how I judged, from the state of her asking you for help, if she loves you, she should come to you for help when there is nothing to do. To put it bluntly, it is "nothing to do". For example, looking for innocuous questions to pester the person she likes, so that there is an excuse to get close without appearing ignorant.

When she is really confused, she will seek the advice of her friends first, and is unwilling to let the people she likes see her ignorance and vulnerability.

Look at how you behave when you say goodbye. When you're out on a date for a day and you're about to separate, let's say you walk away in two directions, and he walks out two or three steps, does he come back to look at you, smile and wave at you? If he just walks away and never looks back, it means that you are just friends.

Sometimes I feel like he's looking at me secretly, and sometimes I feel like it's an illusion. I really don't know if you like me. I felt like he was happy to see me.

Fake, alas, even if he tells you about his ex-girlfriend, talks about feelings, comforts you when you're down, and gives you food, he doesn't like you, so don't guess, girl.

I watched him put the ID printed with my ** in his upper left pocket, the closest place to his heart...

If a boy has no affection for a girl, and there is no girl to play with, when he has his arm, he subconsciously wants to avoid it, because he has his own mutuality, so he will refuse.

If a girl goes to take the boy's arm, the boy does not refuse to prove that the boy has a good impression of the girl, at least there is a feeling, there is a desire to protect, or a friendship between friends, although it is not a couple, but the relationship is still very good.

Everyone has their own safe distance, only in front of the people they like and the people they believe, they will remove this safe distance, and when you put his arm again, it has entered its safe distance, which proves that he is not disgusted with you, and even likes it very much, so through this action, you can judge that he has a good impression of you, not just that he does not hate it.

If you really like each other, you can follow this feeling to confess to her, feelings do not need to be guessed, guess and guess, it is a waste of time, and give others more opportunities, it is better to seize the time to strive for your own happiness, wouldn't it be better?

Words are the bond of emotion and the bridge of communication. Thank you and me for meeting me, and if you wish, click on the upper right corner to follow "Your Treasure Duo" and let me accompany you through every lonely moment.

The relationship between the two people is close, and after getting along for a long time, they will more or less have some different feelings, but they are covered by friendship.

Especially if two people who often chat with each other regard sharing their feelings with each other as a normal thing, then they will feel dependent on him in their hearts.

But this kind of frequent chat will make us have the illusion that we like each other very much, and even think that two people are only one step away from falling in love.

Driven by this emotion, the probability of two people falling in love is indeed very high, but whether they can maintain this relationship for a long time is another matter.

The two people maintain a fixed contact every day, and their first reaction when they see something interesting is to share it with each other, and almost all of their free time is reserved for each other every day.

And after a period of foreshadowing for this kind of online communication, one party will ask if they want to hang out together.

At this time, the other party is actually very happy in his heart, even if he may not agree to the other party immediately, but the offline meeting between the two people will not be too far.

If you are very comfortable and relaxed with someone, then maybe the Lu people will make people wonder: does the other party feel the same way? This question is not good because everyone's emotional experience is unique, and different people may have completely different feelings and reactions in the same situation.

However, there are a few ways we can find out if the other person feels similar to you.

First, you can tell how the other person feels about you by your body language. If the other person's body posture is relaxed and natural, the eyes are honest and clear, and the body movements are slow and gentle, these are signs that the other person is friendly to your feelings or likes you. Conversely, if the other person's body language is stiff, tense or evasive, or their eyes are slurred or there is a lack of communication, it may indicate that they are not very emotionally friendly to you.

Second, you can understand how the other person is feeling by the way they behave. If the other person often takes the initiative to communicate with you, share their thoughts and experiences, or are willing to take the time to do something with you, then these are all positive signs to connect with you. If the other person is always busy, reluctant to communicate with you, or lacks a positive response to your offer, the expression of affection for you may not be too enthusiastic.

Third, you can find out how the other person is feeling by asking them. However, it should be noted that this method needs to be handled carefully and do not cause stress or discomfort to the other party. For example, you can ask the other person about their current mood, thoughts, or views on certain issues to understand the emotional state of the other person.

Finally, you can try to express your feelings and likes directly to see how the other person reacts. However, it should also be noted that this method is only suitable for more certain situations, and is not suitable for people who meet for the first time or have an unfamiliar relationship. If you have already established a good communication with the other person, you can express your feelings and ask the other person what they think at the appropriate time.

If the other person feels similarly, then congratulations, you may be able to further develop your relationship.

In short, it is not easy to determine whether the other person has similar feelings as yourself. However, we can observe and understand the emotional state of the other person from many aspects such as body language, behavior patterns, and direct inquiry. Regardless of the final outcome, respect the other person's feelings and maintain good communication and friendship.

Love that is not clearly expressed as an adult is an illusion. What is adult love? It's together! It is the barrier of time and space, whether poor or rich, I want to walk with you for the rest of my life.

If a person says he's had a crush on you for years, but never wanted to be with you, you'll think he's just telling you a joke.

So don't always ask someone if he loves you or not. You must have tried all sorts of things before. Those messages he didn't reply, the topics he didn't answer, and the appointments he didn't attend, he couldn't have rejected them more clearly.

If a person tells you good morning and good night, gives you breakfast, gives you care, but doesn't say "I love you", then you might as well wait and give him a deadline, after all, there is always a process from raw to mature between people.

But it's important to remember that every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who truly loves you must be eager to run to you, even if he feels that he is not good enough now, he must want to keep you first and tell you "I love you".

So those feelings of love that are not clearly expressed are all illusions. You may be just one, not the only one. The phrase "I love you" will be late, but it will never be absent.

It's like I've heard a very heartwarming story.

The gray-haired grandmother and grandfather said: Others like to say I love you, why don't you say it?

The old man said, "Didn't I say it many years ago, if there is a change, I will inform you."

When the old woman heard this, she smiled like a girl.

There are some touching situations that may only be said once in a lifetime. However, once is a lifetime. People who really love you will not be stingy with this sentence. He knows you want to hear it, so he will say it.

People nowadays are actually very smart. Those who know that you are tempted in every way and are waiting for you to say a definite word, but he always talks about him left and right, then stop lying to yourself, you are really not the person he identifies.

When the person who loves you takes the initiative to stretch out a hand, he will not pretend not to see it, but will not hesitate to interlock his fingers with you. All seemingly casual avoidance is actually rejection. No matter how well disguised it is on the surface, it will be cloudy and light.

So I also hope that no matter what kind of person you are, don't express your crush on someone, the crush is not so great, and in the end it will hurt yourself. If you really don't really want to be with each other, don't say it's love;

If you are still looking forward to a beautiful love, you might as well be bold and express your likes, maybe he also happens to be waiting for you, it is better to love than to miss.

Loving and not loving is a very complex emotional state that cannot be seen at a glance. The judgment of love and non-love needs to consider many factors, including words and deeds, emotional expression, ways of getting along, behavior habits, and so on. Here are some of the signs that may indicate that a person loves or doesn't, but it is important to note that these signs do not necessarily apply to everyone and all situations and should only be used as a reference:

1.Eye contact: If a person has a crush on you or loves you, they will usually pay more attention to eye contact with you, and their eyes will reveal emotions such as warmth, love, and trust.

2.Body language: When a person loves you, they will usually show friendly, intimate body language such as hugging, shaking hands, etc. When they don't love you, they will keep their distance or show cold body language.

3.Emotional expression: When a person loves you, they will usually be more proactive in expressing their emotions, such as greetings, caring, encouraging or complimenting you often. When they don't love you, they will be cold or lack emotional expression.

4.Behavior: When a person loves and envy you, they will show some behaviors that give for you and care for you, such as doing some small things for you, taking care of you, etc. When they don't love you, they often behave more selfishly or don't care.

In short, to judge whether a person loves you or not, you need to pay attention to their stupid words and deeds, emotional expression, way of getting along, behavior habits and other factors, and it takes time and experience to accumulate.