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On graduation day, we fell out of love together.
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Generally speaking, a breakup is more likely, so it is not about anyone, but about a large area of external observation. Of course, there are a few people who don't break up. You ask what you should do, first of all you can't give up your studies, otherwise your future prospects will have a big impact.
As for whether you will break up or not, it can only depend on how you get along in the future, and you can only do so, and there is no need to worry too much about this, because as long as you are willing, and he is willing, you will not break up. But really, will you still be willing to do so in the future? It's hard to say, because the future has not yet arrived, and perhaps at that time your own thinking will change a lot because of the growth of your knowledge and knowledge.
Of course, it is not ruled out that he will also change. 1. Calmly talk to him about the future, and make an overall plan for you, which is also to make him learn to let go of the prejudice in front of him, in fact, there are many ways to coax him, in fact, it is best to be the most specific is not to coax intentionally, but until he is angry, and he has a good overall plan for the future of the two of you, there are many things in the relationship between the two of you and you are not wrong with me, and quarrels are also very routine. Don't run away from contradictions, but actively resolve them.
If a couple is in a different place for a long time, then there may be various conflicts or misunderstandings between the two people. Even if two people live together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and frictions of one kind or another, not to mention that you will not live together for a long time.
So, when there is a conflict or problem in your relationship, don't panic too much in the first place. When encountering problems, don't run away, but actively find ways to solve them together.
Only when you learn to face up to the problems and misunderstandings in a long-distance relationship, and you don't easily ignore the contradictions and loopholes in the relationship, can you make it possible for the relationship to last for a long time.
The reason why many long-distance couples have difficulty getting to the end is often because they ignore the contradictions and misunderstandings in the relationship.
When the contradictions and misunderstandings in the relationship are not resolved and resolved in time, these misunderstandings and contradictions may brew into more and bigger problems or misunderstandings, and eventually lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship between you. Or, you're lucky enough to live in the same place without breaking up.
Therefore, the relationship after graduation has these three options: breaking up, long-distance relationship, and not breaking up with each other and not leaving.
My breakup after graduation seems to us to be not a sad thing sometimes, and we can even secretly rejoice that I am relieved that I don't have to get up early every day to buy breakfast for her, and I don't have to worry about what to give him for his birthday.
Yangyang's love is not true love, no matter how far away true love will try its best to make you make do, not just because distance and pursuit become a reason to break up.
This kind of breakup is normal, it can only show that each other does not have deep feelings, or has been planned for a long time, or it is difficult to return.
It is not necessary to break up after graduating from college, but the probability of breaking up will be relatively large.
Whether to break up or not should depend on the future planning of both parties, whether to go to the same place or not, and whether to choose ideal or love, this is the actual judgment.
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It is indeed more realistic, that is, after graduation, I learned more about some realistic factors, because although the love in college is beautiful, but there are not many that really go to the end, it can be said that falling in love in college is an experiential way to fall in love, and it is not considered the pursuit of marriage. The chances of success between the two of you, that is, the chance of getting married, will be much greater than falling in love in college, so falling in love after work is more realistic.
Personally, it is recommended to fall in love in college, even if you talk about love in college, you may not be able to go to the palace of marriage, but how much people have experienced in this life, but no one can say clearly about the love relationship, so you must have a brave first attempt, and it is the best opportunity to try in college, and the risk and cost of falling in love after entering the society have risen greatly.
After entering the workplace, we will find that many people have changed and fallen out of love. Relationships in the workplace are more utilitarian and tend to choose bread, and they are more pragmatic, or rather realistic. Houses, cars, and tickets are the favorite topics to ask about in almost every blind date game.
The material foundation has become the threshold of love.
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Here's an answer to that question for you. BTG first said that campus love is simple and real. That is our eternal pure existence. But there are a lot of practical problems that come with falling in love after work.
The first is that falling in love after work is not as simple as campus love. When falling in love after work, whether it is a blind date or a free love, two people consider the most realistic issues, such as a car and a house, job income, and so on. When a son falls in love at school, it may be more that one party's specialty or character attracts the other, and considering that there are not so many, it is just a simple expression of love and liking.
Falling in love after work can make a person better recognize reality. After work, falling in love is faced with more realistic material living conditions, only when certain conditions are met, the relationship can continue and develop for a long time, if these conditions cannot be met, it is likely that there will be no chance to start.
The second is that campus love is beautiful, but the relationship after work is the most common feeling. Many times the graduation season is also the breakup season, and many heart-rending loves talked about in school become worthless and scattered at the moment of graduation. This is often related to the difference between the family living conditions and the city where the two people are located, and falling in love at work, many times in the same city, will reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble.
But whether it is campus love or falling in love at work, it is very important to learn to cherish each other, and campus love also has positive results. I wish you all the best to meet the person you love at the right age and go on.
Whether it's a love on campus or at work, you must respect each other, impress and attract each other with sincerity, and two people work together to live a good life, so that it is enviable love. I hope I can help friends in need.
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When you fall in love at school, you may encounter a problem when you graduate: you and your boyfriend receive offers from two cities, and they are separated from each other. ......At this time, how to continue this love needs to consider the feelings between each other, the real state of life, and the help from the family.
1. The feelings between each other ultimately determine how this love continues.
Two people have received offers from different cities, which means that the two people may be separated from each other in the future. ......In this state, whether love can continue will depend on the feelings between two people. ......If they have average feelings for each other, the two are likely to break up.
But if two people have a deep relationship, the love can continue.
2. The real state of life greatly affects the direction of this love.
After receiving offers from different cities, the real state of life will greatly affect the direction of love. ......If two people are likely to want to get together, the love can continue. And if two people can't get together and live in a different place for a long time, this love is likely to end.
3. The help from the family may make this love come to a successful conclusion.
For recent graduates, there is no power to change the state of a long-distance relationship. ......At this time, if both families can help, it will have a significant impact on the final outcome of the ...... relationshipWith the help of family members, the status of a long-distance relationship may be changed, so that two people can be reunited and the love can reap a happy conclusion. ......It would be the most ideal and the most beautiful state.
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Even if two people work in two different cities, they can continue to love after graduation, and as long as they learn to operate, they will do well.
Have your own plan.
Everyone has to have their own plan and work towards it. It's not that many long-distance relationships can't stand for a few years, it's just that they can't see the light of day in the future because they don't know when they will end the long-distance relationship and the uncertain future. So the best way is to be able to clarify a goal, to aim for each other, to give each other a deadline, to give each other room for development.
Don't take distance too seriously.
Long-distance relationships are the same as ordinary relationships, the difference is that they are not in the same place with each other, and there will be differences due to the different lifestyles of lovers, but we should not be afraid because of this. In life, we can find that long-distance lovers are happy in the same way, and unhappy people have their own reasons. We will find out:
There is time to meet more often.
Although long-distance relationships can now be connected through convenient tools such as WeChat, after a long time, they will also produce a sense of fatigue, and there will be a sense of distance when they need to be around. Therefore, if the distance is not large, you should see each other more, if the distance is relatively large, you can meet once in two or three months, and plan what to do every time you meet, and cherish the time you spend with each other. Both people must have a common goal, in order to be together in the end, appropriate investment should be there, and I believe that it can be completed in the end.
I hope that with the passage of time, I will be more sensible, more aware of my own value, and more aware of the painstaking efforts of my parents and teachers.
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