My father in law is fighting with others, should I help fight?

Updated on society 2024-04-03
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No. The solution does not have to be force. If you were present at the time, it was okay to drink back from the neighbors and protect your father-in-law at home to fight off the neighbors, but it was not okay to follow your father-in-law to the neighbor's house and beat others.

    Clearly position, he is a person who lacks discernment in his father-in-law. If it is a problem with the temperament of the father-in-law, he will not resent you if he causes trouble, and he will not even complain to you and let you follow and bully others. It's not okay for others to bully themselves, there are village committees that distinguish right from wrong, and there are public security bureaus that punish crimes.

    When it is too late to request assistance, the Constitution has a justifiable defense regulation. You can do a moderate amount of counterattacks. Overdose is not a good thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do things rationally If the matter is serious, we can solve it through legal means If you go out of anger and don't think about the consequences and injure and maim others to death is to compensate the other party for losses Your father-in-law can ask for compensation if he is injured or ask someone to mediate Is it not cost-effective to do things recklessly and harm others and hurt yourself When the time comes, it is useless to regret The reason why people are superior to other animals is because they have wisdom But they can't be rash We can learn more about psychology and philosophy to establish our correct three views Books like how to restrain your temper are very helpful for your life and for your future generations, and I hope it can help you, and I can also help you sort out if you have any hurdles in your heart that you can't get over.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and if you win, you are just a number of enemies, and if you have the ability, you will reason and let your neighbors retreat.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People who don't know how to be reasonable, they are often impulsive, and fighting can't solve problems! Remember, don't mess around if you're not sure. What's more, it's hard to say who is right and who is wrong. To be a man of character.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you beat it, forget it, and you must get it when you fight.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Help,,must help! When the road is uneven, he roars, and when it's time to shoot, he will shoot wow, and he will break into Kyushu

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, the son-in-law is half a son, who don't you help.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what it is, what kind of person it looks like, what kind of person the neighbor is.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, your father-in-law beat him in front of your parents, you must have a reason for him to do it. Everyone has a reason to live here, and everyone has a reason why they can't live. Your father-in-law is your father in a sense, so why do you think your father-in-law beat you?

    There are a lot of problems in a family, and sometimes there will be some positive and some negative in these problems, in fact, when your parents beat you, it is not necessarily a bad thing in the eyes of your mother. You have to be clear about the views of your peers, in fact, they are much the same, your father-in-law beat you in front of your parents, it must be because he thinks you have done something wrong, so he will beat you, because you are not his child after all, so you can let him do more than he tolerates, it must be because there is a problem on your side, maybe you didn't do anything wrong, but you definitely didn't do anything wrong.

    In this case, it is useless for you to be tough with him, because first, you just don't win, because he is an elder, and no matter who comes to persuade you to fight, he will persuade you not to do it. Second, even if you do it, you win, your wife is gone, and you lose the fight, so you can't do it.

    How to solve this situation? It must be through the power of the third party, for example, your lover's side is that you have to communicate with your lover, why does your father-in-law beat you? How to avoid this situation from happening again, you have to show your attitude, at the same time, you also have to make it clear to your father-in-law, make an adjustment to the way you solve the problem, you need more communication, to avoid this situation, just like every adult really left home, and then grew up and started a family, it is rare to say that you can rise to the level of hands-on with your parents, you think about your own son can't do it, how can you do this to an outsider?

    So you have to think about whether you have gone too far, how to solve it, apologize and apologize, which is what you should do.

    Finally, finally, let me say my point of view, because the elder will actually beat people, he must have something wrong, so he may not realize these wrong places at this time You have to sue your mother-in-law, and the problem will be solved if your mother-in-law is on your side? Your wife is on your side again, isn't the problem solved? It is equivalent to your father-in-law insisting on facing you, his wife, and his daughter.

    Don't win. The above is a joke, or simply say that calmness is an important attitude for the family to solve the problem, at the same time, calm down and communicate more is the solution, maybe both of you have something wrong, but more of the reason must be in the communication, so you still need to calm down more, serious communication There are many ways to communicate, you can search on the Internet, you can also solve it through some psychological counseling, these things can be checked, Finally, I wish you happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm glad to answer this question for you, and I see your description of this problem, my personal opinion, and the advice that has been given to you is this: First of all, you describe that the old man beat you in front of your parents, and you don't know what to do, so first of all, why did he hit you, if it was for no reason, and then there was no reason to hit you, then in this case, you should go to his theory, ask him why he hit you, why he behaved this way. And if something happens in the middle, maybe you didn't do it right, and then what, he hits you in front of your parents, what about your parents? There is no obstruction, what about this time?

    You can admit your mistake and you'll be able to fix it. The most important thing is to know why he hit you and why you know why, and this will be easy to solve.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think if that's the case, it also depends on the reason, and if there's no reason, do it. Then I don't think there's any need to continue. If you get married, you will have to face such an old man, and if you are beaten in front of your parents now, it will become commonplace in the future.

    So I think it's time to think about it. Of course, the decision is yours, and if it were me, I would definitely choose to break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My father-in-law beat you in front of your parents, I don't think this should be, did you do something to make your father-in-law more ugly? Or it is something that cannot be repaired, so that the old man will be so angry, will beat you, so you must respect the elderly, there must be something to give to the teacher, and the teacher will say calmly, don't do impulsive things again, hurt your family relationship, and want to have family affection with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it's my own mistake, I admit it, let you beat, and your parents won't interfere, if I don't do anything wrong, you are in front of my parents, it is a great disrespect to me, and it is unforgivable, let me put my face, and how to behave in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your father-in-law beats you in front of your neighbors, your father will not favor you, which should make your father-in-law even more angry, and he can only mediate your conflicts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There must be a reason for everything, it is impossible for the father-in-law to beat you for no reason, or you are not good to his daughter and so on, men should not blindly take care of themselves, you also think about the daughter he has raised for decades and married you to your family to integrate into a new family, do you also have to take care of her emotions, people can't be too selfish, compare their hearts to their hearts. Think about whether you will also take care of your daughter's feelings when you become a father. The palms and backs of his hands are full of meat, and he also hopes that his daughter will live a very happy life, if the man is not too much, I believe that no father is willing to go to this point, I hope you can think about it!

    If you still want to live with your wife, cherish the people in front of you, take a step back and open the sky, of course, life is more important than face, don't you say it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your father-in-law beats you in front of your parents, which means that your father-in-law doesn't take you and your parents seriously, if you beat you, you can directly call the police or fight him to the end, and you can fight back.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the parents are in front of them, of course, they must first show weakness. Then he ran behind his mom and dad. Let them support you, after all, people of the same generation are easier to talk to. If you do it to an elder from a junior, it won't sound good to say it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's because you fought with your wife, you still beat your wife, and your father-in-law beat you, that's right. If you didn't do anything wrong, your father-in-law beat you, or favored your wife, you can reason with him, even if he beats you in front of your parents, you can't fight back, no way, he is also your elder

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, find out why he is hitting you. If you beat you for no reason, you can sue him and arrest him, of course, relatives can't do that. If you do something illegal, he beats you, and you deserve it.

    Hitting you is saving you and saving your family. If it's because he's too strong to hit you, you can run and don't interact with you in the future. Something for your daughter-in-law to go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's too much, at least it's not wise, it's up to your parents, your parents don't have an idea, you just admit it, your father-in-law beat you, and also in front of your parents, I think it's estimated that you did something wrong, then think more about your own ** wrong, take a lesson, and correct it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your father-in-law dares to beat you in front of your parents, it means that there is something wrong with you, otherwise your parents will not agree.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what the reason is, why you want to beat you, if you do something wrong, the old man can't beat you, you can only endure it, after all, it is an elder, if you beat you for no reason, you can reason with him, and you must not fight back.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think your father-in-law beat you in front of your mother, it depends on what mistakes you made, he treats you like this, if it is not your fault, if he beats you, I think it must be a little sorry for your mother, if you really make a mistake, I think you are sorry for your mother.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, my father-in-law is also your dearest person. It should also be your dearest parents. If the husband wants to beat you, it must be because you have made a mistake in some way. It's also normal for him to hit you in front of your parents.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is also an insult to you, if you have not done anything wrong, then you can still keep your self-esteem, because self-esteem is very important for a man.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Whose fault is it? Yours or your wife's?

    If it's your fault, it's to the point where you need to fight, your parents should take the initiative, if it's your wife's fault, it is recommended to divorce, such a maiden family is too unreasonable, marrying his daughter is better than being single for the rest of your life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Such a domineering father-in-law must take revenge, so let his son-in-law hang himself at the door of his house, so that his daughter can not marry if he is widowed.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There must be a reason for beating you, if it's a trivial matter, forget it, if it's a matter of principle, if you think you're right, you should fight.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    My father-in-law beat me in front of my parents, which means that you have done something that you have ignored. Your parents don't have face either, and they should beat you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't make a big mistake and touch the bottom line of others, this kind of behavior can be directly dealt with by the police, no matter what, it is definitely not right to hit someone.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The old man beat you, you can only be grateful, after all, the wedding has also changed its word.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Married? If you do something wrong, you should be punished, and it is impossible to hit you at will.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's a bit excessive, it's not you who hits you, it's your parents in the face. Isn't this an example of chickens and monkeys! You make your parents embarrassed. People's fathers-in-law, mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law all love their sons-in-law, and there are still beatings. It's really relying on the old and selling the old.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: Is there any injury in the fight with others, your father beat you and educated you that you did not cause harm to you belongs to the father's responsibility for the discipline of the child, if the father beats you and is injured, you have to call the police to deal with it and hold your father responsible, if the two sides fight, the police will be responsible according to your actual situation.

    My father beat me when I was fighting.

    Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: Is there any injury in the fight with others, your father beat you and educated you that you did not cause harm to you belongs to the father's responsibility for the discipline of the child, if the father beats you and is injured, you have to call the police to deal with it and hold your father responsible, if the two sides fight, the police will be responsible according to your actual situation.

    Hello, I was fighting with someone else and someone else beat me up and hurt me slightly, but my father didn't know and thought I was looking for something to hit me a few times, and the other party doesn't recognize it now.

    Legal basis: Article 234 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China: Whoever intentionally harms the body of another person shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release. Whoever commits the crime in the preceding paragraph, causing serious injury, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years; Whoever causes death or seriously injures a person by especially cruel means, causing serious disability, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment, or death.

    When you fight with someone, there are witnesses, is there surveillance nearby? Didn't you call the police on the spot?

    If there are eyewitnesses who prove that you are fighting, you can testify and identify the other party, call the police to deal with it, and ask the other party to pay compensation.

    There were eyewitnesses and surveillance, and five or six other people beat me and myself, but after I finished the fight, my father thought I was looking for something and beat me a few times.

    Others beat me to minor injuries and now they don't admit it, and there are eyewitnesses who testify that you can report and warn them of the crime of intentional injury when five or six people beat me, and that the act of beating one person by multiple people is suspected of picking quarrels and provoking trouble and intentional injury.

    There is certification and monitoring, which proves that those people admit whether they admit it to you or not, and they need to be held legally responsible.

    What if they don't admit that they were the ones who hit the wounds?

    He did not admit to having surveillance testimony and was convicted of the crime of beating people under the Public Security Law.

    Admitted that there was no surveillance witness, and the police convicted him on the basis of factual evidence.

    It's my picking.

    If one party provokes trouble and the other party kills the other party, and the person who stirs up trouble dies in vain, it is the responsibility of beating people anyway, and if they say that my father beat me, what should I do.

    They all beat you, your father beat you, your father and the other party beat you for the same crime.

    See if you want to pursue it, and if you want to pursue it, your father was also present at the time, and it is also the same crime.

    If you don't want to sue your father, you can only admit it yourself, and if you sue your father, you will have to go in and be detained in the same way as them.

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