Can love not in one city continue

I think you and you should have a good talk with your girlfriend Girls like the boy they like to be with them at any time That's love But I can understand the objective factor of your lack of time In a state of love with each other, even if you are busy and don't have time, you have to connect with each other Once it gets cold, then you should know the consequences The important thing is how you look at it It's not your selfish She's not completely right It's mainly up to both parties.

You are right. Fair and reasonable.

But she's not too wrong.

Just because I love you too much.

But they don't know how to love you.

As long as the two of you truly love each other. No matter where it is. Just have each other in your heart.

If I were you, I would do the same.

Girls always like to lose their temper, she actually understands your thoughts, she just wants to do this, but you still have to coax her, so that she will think that you are calling her.

Girls are just hard to understand. Hehe..

Then you just communicate with her directly, and tell her the truest thoughts in your heart, your girlfriend should also belong to the reasonable kind, she only feels insecure because you are not around, which you also need to understand, but in the end, you have to understand that the relationship of a long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain... Prepare yourself buddy@!

I once had this choice, when I was young, my first love, I resigned directly from a listed company without any entanglement or concern, and went to his city.

I thought I was brave and would be appreciated.

Years later, I realized that it was just recklessness, and my life has changed since then.

If I had been given a chance to choose again, I might not have chosen to go to another city just because of love.

As an HR with some professional work experience, it is not recommended that you give up this choice, but I hope that no matter which one you choose, you must think more, consider more comprehensively, and have the courage to start over after making a mistake.

If you're thinking about working in another city, I think there's at least a few things to consider:

One, is this love ripe enough for you to give up everything you have now (work, relationships, familiar life, etc.)?

Second, is he worthy of your dependence and dedication after your resignation? (Of course, you don't have to be smug).

Third, if you go to another city to work, how will it affect your life and career development? If there are difficulties, can they be overcome?

Fourth, do you now have enough savings to support you to live independently in another new city without being wronged? (The respondent privately thinks that it is best to reduce the possibility of cohabitation before marriage, and this is not a successful experience sharing).

Fifth, finally, and I think most importantly, assuming the worst outcome, can you take the outcome yourself without complaining?

end, bless you, I hope you are the best choice, no matter what you choose.

This question involves everyone's understanding of love and the definition of self-sacrifice. Some people believe that love is unconditional and can sacrifice everything to maintain it. Therefore, in the face of love, it is inevitable to sacrifice or give up something to keep love intact.

1. The biggest sacrifice you are willing to make for each other in love is to go to each other's city.

If you and your partner are in a different place, then even if it is far away from you, the other person's city is very foreign to you, you will overcome the distance for love, and even cross the ocean. Leaving your hometown to a strange city, starting anew, leaving your family, and re-establishing your own circle, although it sounds like a lot of difficulties, as long as you are by your lover's side, you feel that you can overcome all obstacles, and on the contrary, it will give you a lot of courage and security. Therefore, when love is tested by distance, you will choose to go to the end of the world for love.

Second, you can give up a lot for love.

If you are sure that the other person is your true love, then you will be with the other person without hesitation. Even if the other party's financial conditions are not good, you will not mind. Although you are very interested in the quality of life in your daily life, you have always been exquisite in the eyes of others.

But love will be more precious in your eyes, and you think that it cannot be measured in money. So even if the other party's conditions are not as good as yours, or even a little poor, you will see more of the other party's other good traits and use them for yourself. And in the process of communication, he is also willing to pay more materially.

3. Some people can sacrifice to the extreme for love.

For example, a person can give up his career and dreams to take care of his other half wholeheartedly. They may give up their time, money, and social life in order to make their partner feel more valued and cherished. These people believe that their love can overcome all difficulties and obstacles, making them more complete and content.

Fourth, finally, we need to consider our own understanding of love and the definition of self-sacrifice.

We should realize that love is based on equality and respect, and that our sacrifice should be a two-way street, and we should not lose ourselves excessively. True love should be able to make us stronger, not make us vulnerable and hurt. We should look for balance and self-preservation in love, while also taking into account our partner's feelings and needs.

Summary: Life is closed in the world, and the most important thing is to keep it, and to keep it is a heart and a person. Time always proves that what stays by your side is the most precious!

When faced with feelings, most people still regard themselves as more important than the other person. Although selfless sacrifice for the sake of a lover is great, in fact, no matter how much you value your other half, you should not completely lose your old age and self.

Most of the young people who work in big cities are alone and drift outside, and they are rarely together as a family.

At this time, the loneliness of the body and the loneliness of the soul make them yearn for a comfort.

You see, many young people in big cities nowadays, once they start to fall in love, they will live together.

This kind of land luck also shows that they long to have someone by their side.

Of course, as a young person, the physical needs are also higher than those of other age groups, and living together can also better address the physical needs.

At this time, they don't think about getting married.

Because, there are too many conditions needed for marriage, such as a house, such as a car, and the reality of the bride price.

As a drifter in a big city, in fact, few people can have the conditions to get married. Unless locals.

Or after many years of love, two people have an economic foundation and feel that it is suitable for each other to be together, then it is possible to enter the palace of marriage.

For example, in the same city, it is okay to fall in love, but when it comes to marriage, a northerner and a southerner, the problem comes.

It can be said that when you are in love, you can tolerate each other, but once you want to enter into marriage, the things you need to worry about are not just the things of two people.

The problem of geography and living habits will become the decisive factor for breaking up. But in the love stage, these can be ignored.

Therefore, young people working in big cities, the purpose of their love is to attract each other to young people of the opposite sex, and the other is to simply search for loneliness and want to find a partner.

In modern society, with the development of the economy and the transformation of people's thinking, more and more young people choose to work in big cities instead of returning to their hometowns. These people seek a broader space for development and a better quality of life, but because the city they choose to work in is far from home, they often find it difficult to escape the feeling of loneliness and loneliness. Until now, the marriage process had to go through the love stage.

However, for some people, being in love is not an obligation or a guarantee for the future. So why are these young people working in big cities still in love?

1.Find spiritual sustenance.

Young people working in big cities often face a lot of pressure and frustration of not being able to find a breakthrough, which forces them to look for sustenance. In a relationship, everyone wants to find a sense of security and sustenance, and to find a sense of peace and warmth in the busy work and fast-paced pace of life.

2.Learning and development.

Romantic relationships can also sometimes be an opportunity for learning and development. Girls can learn from their partners how to experience life and get rid of stress, while boys can learn how to find happiness in work-life balance. Once such a deep bond has been formed, they can also believe that they can truly rely on and support each other, so that they can gain the motivation to build success and have more chances of success.

3.Realize self-worth.

Romantic relationships are also an important opportunity to realize personal value. Through the establishment of romantic relationships, everyone can get to know themselves and others better, and get better self-awareness and recognition. In addition, romance and creativity are often needed in romantic relationships, which makes a person more confident and creative.

4.Satisfy emotional needs.

Romantic relationships can also help with emotional needs. Everyone needs love and respect, and to meet each other's needs with love and attention, so that different positive emotions can be sought. In a romantic relationship, most people feel happy, happy, and calm.

In conclusion, for those young people who work in the city, being in love is not the only option, but it is a way that many people use to meet their emotional needs, find themselves, learn and grow. Although a relationship requires a certain amount of sacrifice and patience, it is still an unusual, rewarding and fulfilling experience if it aligns with one's own values.

It depends on how hard you copy.

Long-distance relationships are usually a bit harder than the ordinary love process, because they are not in a city

When the other party is sick will not know and is sad.

No, because of the distance between the two places, the relationship is very weak.

1. Look at the relationship between you and your boyfriend, if it has reached the point of talking about marriage, or you have seen him as the other half of the future, then you should go to school.

2. Consider whether this man is worth giving up your current job.

What I want to say is that people are inert, and they often don't want to move their nests when they are used to staying in one place, but if you don't move, how do you know that it will not be better in the future. In fact, if you go to study, you have another chance, not what you will do in the future, I have many friends who study a major, but the current work has nothing to do with the major, the main thing is that you know how to increase yourself, and you can develop in another direction when you are in graduate school.

In addition, I also think that it is much better to be in a big city than in a small city, where you have a high starting point and often have many opportunities, for example, I am now working in my hometown, and I want to learn more things after work, but there are no training institutions, and I have to take some large exams and take leave to go to the big city.

Your current job looks good now, but who knows what will happen in a decade or so from now? In the 80s, I thought it would be good to enter a state-owned enterprise, but now they are all laid off. Now that there are more and more schools, it is difficult to guarantee that the school will not operate like a business in the future.

Not from the perspective of love and work, but from the perspective of your own future development, I think it is also beneficial for you to go to graduate school, not to mention that there is a boyfriend there, this is a sure profit, there is no need to think about it for so long.

In closing, I would like to say that the path is your own choice, no matter how you choose to go, don't regret it!