Should a bland relationship continue, is it true that a relationship is bland?

I think it's rare to find a love affair at the beginning as boring as you describe, unless you're different.

Feelings are two people's business, any feelings will be diluted by time and distance, you will get tired of being together for a long time, you will be less together, you will become strange, the best feeling of love is the kind of separation that has just begun.

The relationship between two people is equal and mutual help and mutual love. There is no need to pursue who has more and who has less. Again, go with the flow, go with the flow.

When you break up, people will have cranky thoughts, thinking about each other's various things, thinking about their own contributions, but you will also condemn yourself with your own conscience, in fact, you don't have to, no one on the earth will turn the same. Whoever leaves can still live, so many mountains and seas, I can't live without you, and the promise that I can't live without you will not all become a passing cloud with the migration of time and space.

Let it be!!

I don't know what to do with you, to be honest, you said that he may have been hurt before, so, that is to say, he has known you for more than a month and said that he misses you, it may be a manifestation of love, I also have a similar experience, I can see that you care about him, but because of loneliness and emptiness, the love comes quickly, of course, it also goes fast, while you are not dead set on falling in love with him, give up, such feelings, I think you also feel unsteady, otherwise you would not be so annoyed. Listen to me, there will be better people waiting in the future.

I suggest that you break up, after all, you should have your own life, and you are right to pursue passion.

I also think that such a boy is too bad, although I am also a boy, but I don't want to be partial, after all, love is mutual, there is no need to force anyone to accommodate whom.

It's good to find your own happiness and happiness, and I wish you happiness.

Don't continue, since he doesn't have such strong feelings for you, why continue, if you continue, you will only let yourself fall deeper and deeper! Why bother? Is long pain better than short pain?

Personally, I think that the first time I fall in love, I should make at least 4 calls a day**, and at least 25 text messages a day. You can try to take the view of the 4th floor, don't reply to the text message, don't answer, test if he really cares about you, I personally feel that the taste of dealing with perfunctory is very heavy, and it is recommended to observe for a long time.

It's good to be plain and emotional

But some people don't like such bland 、..

Some feelings may be happier if they are a little duller.

In this way, it depends on what you think、..

Do you love her?

Hehe, you try not to contact him for a few days, and you don't reply to him in text messages, ** to be cold. , make him feel like you're going to leave him, try it. Absolutely fine...

I feel that he doesn't understand romance very much, he doesn't understand obsession, you just can't stand his coldness towards you, you can talk to him about this, you need his care all the time, don't ignore it like this!! Tell him what you want to do with the karma.

Actually, it's good to be bland, as long as you really like him.

In fact, the ordinary life is the most beautiful

Two people together only need to have a small amount of happiness, pure love

There is no need to ask for a bang!

I can do what you say.

Maybe he has a new love! You have to pay attention.

In the beginning, unless two people have been meeting for years, or are already many friends, which is obviously a bit abnormal, or already many friends, it transforms from one friend to the identity of a lover. Otherwise, when I start falling in love, I will hang my belly on the other side. I would think about each other all the time, but it wasn't very flat.

However, dull love doesn't have to be love. In order to determine whether it is love or not, it is impossible to rely on two strong and flat people.

The most important thing is whether the other party loves you or not, and you love each other. For two people who love each other, the road of love is like a TV series, accompanied by the last red dust, life is love; Life is not very exciting, there are no mountains to swear, life is still like water, both sides are used to the presence of the other, the last sunrise, the sunset sleeps, lying flat is always a lifetime. For those who don't love each other, even if I start to be active, there is a lot of romance in my life, even vows of vows, but I won't be happy.

Two people are in a strong or flat position, and if they don't fall in love, they're not really in love. Maybe you feel very flat in life, but in such a life, you understand each other, share with each other, this is not love? Maybe he didn't send you flowers, and you don't know how to make romance and surprises, but he loves you very much, and he is willing to give everything for you, why not?

But if you love love, you can't miss each other, and you'll have some friction between each other. At this stage, emotional problems are most likely to occur.

If you want to spend it, you have to make some effort. If you want to keep your feelings, you have to respect her, don't be too lazy to explain, more, girls don't care what you explain, the more careless you explain, they even want to see you. It can also try to separate for a while.

Actually, it doesn't equal a breakup. There are two people who see each other every day, or they live together. It will have a feeling of exhaustion, so it is worse than two people.

The distance is good. Many couples have not been able to sustain themselves in the past, but if they can succeed, I believe there will be more and more of them.

Worth. Because even if it is a vigorous love, there will be a dull day. After many years, the relationship between the two people will still tend to be flat, and they will live a long life.

Words that are flat from the beginning can make people more comfortable with later life, and at the same time, they will also make people feel calm.

Worth. Because true love is inherently bland, and companionship is the longest confession of love, and the love that never leaves is worth continuing.

It's worth it. Ordinary love is very stable, and two people also have each other in their hearts, and they can go very well.

Whether a relationship is ordinary or not depends on the attitude and mentality of both men and women towards the relationship. Generally speaking, when men and women fall in love, they are often dead and alive in love, like glue, not seen for a day, like every other autumn, too bland, it is easy to make the other party feel that you are not sincere. Or you have changed your mind, because people in love are very sensitive, and a little wind and grass will make the other party like a great enemy.

After getting married, the relationship will slowly return to flat, as light as boiled water, but it is this boiled water that makes you feel the true meaning of life!

I don't think there's anything wrong with being bland, it's just about money, rice, oil and salt, of course, everyone's thoughts will be different, as long as the relationship between two people is strong and they really want to be together.

The plain feelings in love really depend on the situation.

If two extroverts love each other, then they live.

There will be continuous sparks, and it is not dull but also happy.

And two introverts, their relationship may be very flat, but it stands the test very well.

Plain is true, very philosophical, because too high is easy to fall, too low is easy to be bullied, everything should not be up and down, feelings are the same, the thin water flows, and the wind and drizzle are the real life, real feelings.

A relationship is bland and bland, this sentence is true.

Because no matter how warm the feelings are, after the baptism of time, they will eventually return to the flat, so the real feelings are still inseparable after running in with each other, and they still love each other, so cherish the feelings of two people, and the ordinary life is the most real emotion in reality.

In fact, feelings don't have to be vigorous, and a plain emotional life can also make you happy every day and live your life in a down-to-earth manner. Be happy every day to meet every day's life. Life doesn't need to be vigorous, and the occasional little surprise can be very satisfying.

I think that ordinary feelings are really good feelings. Because firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are the whole of life, and it is also the cradle of cultivating feelings, and it is the real life. But sometimes feelings also need condiments to deepen feelings, to warm up, and to keep feelings long and fresh.

A good relationship is not just plain, but there is something called habit. It's like air, you don't pay attention to it in normal times, and when you lose it, life is worse than death, and your heart hurts so much that you don't know it. This is a good relationship, it has been deeply rooted in the bone marrow, how can I love you more?

If it's plain, it won't have much deep feelings.

What does love look like to grow old? Many people think that the end of love is family affection, but in fact, Li Ran only has family affection.

No matter how passionate love is, there is a dull day, which is a reality that many people can't accept in the process of marriage and love repair consulting.

When love goes from hot love to dull, it does not mean that love is over, but it means that a relationship should enter a deeper mental state.

It's just that many people will have some psychological changes at this time because of the emotional changes between themselves and the other party, and they begin to question love, not knowing whether this love has entered a cold period or the other party is not in love.

It is easy to tell whether love has entered a cold period or is not in love, and it is easy to see from the other party's mentality and behavior.

1.Whether there is a sense of dependency.

The relationship has entered a dull period, which does not mean that the relationship has disappeared. Since love exists, it means that the other party's dependence on you has not changed.

On the contrary, because two people will establish a deeper communication after entering a quiet period, this sense of dependence will be deepened.

But if you don't love each other, this sense of dependence will disappear, and the other party will begin to become independent, and when you can solve it by yourself no matter what happens, it means that the relationship may have reached the moment when love disappears.

2.Whether there is a sense of responsibility.

The sense of responsibility does not disappear with the end of the chemistry, and it does not change if the other person still has feelings for you.

He still wants to be responsible for your present and future, which is a normal state of mind between couples.

If the other person treats you very casually, it also means that there has been some kind of transformation between you.

The difference between the cold period and not loving is still very big, and many people will carry out some self-deception in the relationship, for example, they know that the other party no longer loves themselves, but they will still deceive themselves and just enter the emotional dull period.

This kind of situation will only make a relationship worse and worse, and in the end, it will hurt two people.

I once saw in a post that there are four stages of love: hot love period - transition period - flat period - stable period. I can't help but think:

Is it possible for the two people to continue to develop in this lull period, maybe the lull period is a hurdle in the relationship between two people. The fact is: many couples around me have already fallen out during the transition period, and finally ended in a breakup.

Some people say that plain is true. After living, you will have a deep understanding. During the period of love, we were full of freshness and love for each other, and we couldn't wait to be together every day, and it would not be an exaggeration to say that it was a conjoined baby.

The longer you get along, the other party's shortcomings will slowly appear, and at this time, quarrels, grievances, and cold wars will ensue, and you will often wonder if the original person is still there? Many emotional deaths occur during this bottleneck period, which is what we call the transition period. Finally, the transition period has passed in the division and integration, how to face the dull period of feelings?

As we slowly grind in, the petty temperaments of both sides will gradually converge in these mundane trifles, and it is undeniable that communication and understanding are important in this period. Whether it's at work or emotionally, communication is the source of all our problems. We quarrel, that's because we feel that the other party doesn't love you enough, thinking of all kinds of spoiling in the past, he doesn't love me anymore, he annoys me, this kind of divergent thinking is just a lack of communication, a lack of understanding.

Don't let the stuffy hold, don't think about yourself, don't question it. Don't become overwhelmed by this senseless suspicion. The relationship between the two of them is the most solid.

In fact, he hasn't changed at all, it's just that he is no longer the stunned young man he used to be, he has gradually shouldered the responsibility on his shoulders, he has become more introverted, and he is too lazy to express his feelings.

The moderate distance is a small ** that we face in the face of blandness. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. In bland feelings, this sentence also applies.

We are together every day, facing the person who is familiar to us and can no longer be familiar with, it will feel boring, so if you adjust the distance moderately, you can give yourself a small vacation, give him a small vacation, and when you meet again, will it make you miss the person in front of you is so cute, even if you have been with him for many years, but the moderate distance will still make you feel a little fresh when you see him again.

Keep the feelings fresh and let the emotions last for a long time. It's easier said than done. A person's efforts are useless, only when both parties are built on the basis of trust, can they tolerate and understand each other in a dull and tedious life.

Do a little thing for each other, do a little practical thing for each other's family, and over time, this foundation will become more and more solid and solid. Even in the face of strong winds and waves, it can survive.