My boyfriend wants to break up, is there a way to get it back?

Alas, why bother? Do you need it?

Whether it's divided or not, it's all caused by you.

Based on what you say, say a few fair words:

1 You have always only cared about yourself, and when someone quarrels, you actually hurt him. You don't give him face in front of your friends. If your boyfriend did the same to you, would you say yes?

2You are not honest, you like him, but you always hurt him in what you do.

3 You are too suspicious, now that he ignores you, you know that you are wrong, you know that he can do without you, you can't do without him, what did you do earlier?

You have to really get rid of your own problems, otherwise it's useless for him to ignore you anymore, don't think too much about it now, recognize your mistakes well, and change it ruthlessly! You don't have to admit your mistakes to him. After all, it's not a day or two between you

Maybe sometimes you should really self-reflect, go back to the previous bits and pieces, if he still loves you, you don't have to ask others how to redeem it, because there is no breakup at all, how to redeem it, I believe you will prove it with practical actions, good luck.

Women in love are stupid, but we also have to have a limit to figure out what we really want? Is it his kindness to you, or is it your love alone?

He may be too childish, just wait a while, otherwise, he is really going to leave you.

In fact, if you love someone, you can hope to be redeemed and be able to keep it, but you must have a bottom line, and if you love each other, you will not be happy without yourself. Ask yourself what you want.

It's recommended to divide it, no matter how you can't not answer **, don't reply to text messages, isn't he worried about you at all, he knows that you love him very much, so ask yourself, if he loves you very much. Looking at his performance, he ignored people without even any explanation, persuaded you to break up, and even if they were together in the future, he would only treat you twice as much, so that you would feel good.

Men want their girlfriends to be good to them, considerate and cute, of course it's not good for you to be big-tempered, if he's not always late, forgive him for a good time, what's the matter, besides, he's your boyfriend, since your friends are your friends, of course they can tolerate you, so they won't recommend your boyfriend to be late, maybe he's really angry, and he will naturally ignore you Anyway, traditional women are king, you are considerate, think more about him, and you will naturally be rewarded No matter what the final outcome is You won't regret it if you work hard, and you can't force your feelings. In addition, if there is no return, it means that he really does not deserve to continue like this for him. (I have to change my temper too).

You have to calm down for a while, after a week you contact him, then his heart is calm, think about your bits and pieces, or he still loves you, it shouldn't be as serious as saying you, after all, he didn't say that he broke up with you, and in the future, let your temper go and restrain yourself, which is good for both parties...

If you say that he doesn't look at you when you're sick, it may be that he really doesn't care about you anymore, and you don't need to think about saving his heart.

Give him some time, and give yourself some time, and calm down and see what you need between you?

Recently, you have to be more accommodating to him, and after more than a year together, your boyfriend may be tired of your ignorance and willfulness.

Do you often do it to make him worry and make him feel uneasy?

I'm like this (male) now.,It's also often not letting my girlfriend.,It's a lot of noise.。。 Hey, my girlfriend has always done some wayward things. That's it for now.,If you can.,You can accommodate it.。。

Yes.

Didn't he mention breaking up, just in anger, let's understand each other! Also, before the man has not expressed his position, it is better for the woman not to have any conjecture, if he doesn't love me anymore, he is going to break up with me. Men's statements are deliberate (for mature men).

It's better not to contact you for a while, everyone should calm down, think clearly, and naturally know what you want.

Two people together. The most important thing is trust.

Since you don't trust him first. Then of course he will feel that you don't love him.

It's useless what you say. The moment you don't trust him, there is no love from the beginning.

Of course, I'm not saying that men are right. Of course, he was also at fault.

But think for yourself why he is the way he is.

You have such a big temper, he thinks about his former girlfriend, which means that what you are doing now is not as good as what his former girlfriend did.

If the guy feels that the relationship between two people has come to an end, he proposes to break up without warning. The knee-jerk reaction of many girls is to put down their face to beg each other, or to do some radical behavior in an emotionally unstable state to try to redeem it. But contrary to Sakura, these actions not only do not help, but will push further and cause lossesAn irretrievable situation between the two1. Ask yourself if you really want to redeem him because of love.

The process of redemption is not as easy as most people think, after all, two people broke up because there was a big problem in the relationship. Therefore, before redeeming, please ask yourself in your heart, whether I really like this person, whether I am willing to spend a lot of time and energy to redeem this person, and whether I can endure the mental torment in the early stage of redemption. If you are sure that you love this person deeply and are willing to endure it for his sake, then you can begin to redeem it.

2. Recognize the reason for the breakup and then deal with it. It is not very easy to propose how to get back your boyfriend by breaking up, and girls have to figure it out, because boys are really dead to the emotional foundation after breaking up or agreeing to break up, and it is also very difficult to get back their boyfriends.

3. Improve feminine charm and establish the basic attraction base. No matter what the relationship is, no matter what the reason for the separation is in the end, if you want to keep this relationship, then you must understand that improving yourself is always the most important thing. Since you can't completely change someone, and if his proposal to break up is unreasonable, then it proves your current use value, and you can't make him ignore the problems caused by everyone and willingly stay by your side.

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When a boyfriend proposes to break up, our first reaction may be to try to get him back. However, before we can make amends, we need to think calmly. First of all, we need to understand the reason why the boyfriend proposed to break up.

We can communicate with him, listen to his thoughts and feelings, and try to solve problems. We should respect his decision, but we also need to let him know that we care about him and are willing to work for a better relationship.

When trying to get a boyfriend back, we need to avoid excessive pursuits. Excessive pursuit can make your boyfriend feel stressed and uncomfortable, and it can even make him more determined in his decision to break up. We need to give him space and time to calm down and think about what he really wants.

We can show our strengths and charms through our own actions, so that he can get to know us again.

In addition, we need to stick to our principles and values. If the boyfriend brings up the reason for the breakup that is not in line with our principles and values, then even if we win him back, we may have a new problem. We need to make sure that our relationship is healthy and balanced, not built on sacrificing ourselves.

Finally, we need to accept reality. Sometimes, even with our best efforts, the boyfriend may still decide to break up. In this case, we need to respect his decision and try to look forward.

We can use this experience as an opportunity to grow, learn how to deal with similar problems, and find happiness that suits us.

Companionship is the most affectionate confession, it takes time to prove that loving someone, no matter how much love you have, it is better to grow old with you, although love is sweet, but it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, many lovers break up everywhere, many female compatriots will choose to redeem immediately in the face of breakup, but recovery requires methods and skills.

Love is a process of running in with each other, two people get along with each other, understanding is essential, if you really want to redeem it, you can go straight to Baidu (Xu Yunyun successfully redeemed her boyfriend's experience) to learn from the redemption process inside, I wish you to save love as soon as possible, come on!

1. How to get your boyfriend back: introspection.

If you want to solve the problem, you must first learn to find the reason, instead of stalking for forgiveness and recovery, even if you redeem it and do not solve the problem, then you will still repeat the mistakes of the past, and you will fall into repeated entanglements, and break up again, he will be far away from you, hesitating to avoid the plague, so you must first learn to reflect and find out the reasons for the breakup.

2. How to get your boyfriend back: divert attention.

When one party proposes to break up, it means that the feelings for you have changed, maybe it's annoying, maybe it's tired, but no matter what the reason, at this time, it will escalate into his disgust with you, many times you have been together for too long, and it is not a good thing to be separated, what you should do now is to invest in your relationship, focus on yourself, and pay attention to yourself.

3. How to get your boyfriend back: Promotion.

You can calm down and improve yourself at the same time. Improving yourself is mainly aimed at what you did not do well before, you will have more confidence when you improve, appearance is important, but the connotation is also very important, if you want to win back a man's heart, you must re-attract men and be an attractive woman. Blindly stalking often increases the pressure on the other party and causes the other party's disgust.

To love someone is to grow up with him in a long time and wither together in the last years of life. Love is not counting the days to pass, the most important thing for two people to be together is to stay with each other, understand each other, leave a space, and leave a bottom line.

The person who really loves you will not choose to leave you, and it is useless to redeem a person who wants to leave you.

Even if you put down your dignity and beg him, maybe he will choose to leave, which will only make you cheap.

It depends on whether he still loves you or not, if love will be moved, if he doesn't love it, it's in vain.

I think the first thing is to calm down. You see, I've been through so much, my parents have agreed, and time will tell for the rest. If you have to redeem it, and my premise is that you are really sure that he is not empathetic and that you really want to redeem it, you have to prove to him that you have fixed those faults.

Do it more delicately, more family-oriented, and more life-oriented. For example, you can make your own ledger and write down your daily expenses and all the money you wanted to spend but didn't spend in the end, and so on. It's still up to you to be moved.

If he still loves you, and after he calms down, he is full of your progress, and I think there is room for redemption.

In addition, what I want to say is that you should also be quiet and think about what factors are causing the tiredness in his mouth. You have to tell him that the reason for the family is actually very simple, itself, you are a girl, and the family hopes that you can have a good home, and they all hope that you can be happy in the future, so most families will pay attention to whether the other party's family is rich, which does not mean that your family only recognizes money. He should understand.

And that's what the current society looks like, it's not a child anymore, it's all about being realistic. You can ask him if love is on the left and money is on the right, is he left or right. In fact, the most rational way is to remain neutral, and to have a solid material foundation, love will be more perfect.

There is no happiness in poor couples. Then, you have to say that it will be the two of you who will be together in the future, not to mention that the obstacles in the family have been removed, and the main objects of life in the future will still be you and him, and you can appropriately change some sensitive situations that affect him. Learn to take care of your life and learn to live your life.

Because, men do pay a lot of attention to whether their lover at home will be thrifty and whether they will manage their finances. Finance is the equivalent of a family's position in a company, and it is primary. So you have to understand him too.

Finally, I want to tell him that the problems in the family have been solved, if his parents hurt him, and ask him to think about it from their point of view, who will easily give up his daughter who has worked hard to raise him, there will inevitably be some tests, but you have overcome these tests, why don't you persist now, then the previous hardships have been in vain?

You also have to tell him that you love him and tell him that he will wait steadily. Don't rush, I understand your mood very well, because I've also experienced it, and I can't help but hit **, in fact, it doesn't work well, it will be like seaweed, the tighter you are, the more he will break free. To learn the spring rain, moisturize things silently.