I ve had a crush on her for four years, should I give it up

Updated on educate 2024-03-03
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, as a friend, I would like to give you a little advice.

    If you like her, tell her Life is actually very short No one has the right to love You also have Don't be excessively inferior Sometimes a boy should be bold Maybe she likes you too Maybe she's still silently waiting for your initiative? You tell me? But through your description, I found between the lines that the girl you like is an extrovert, so if you like him, you should let go of yourself, and you should also become enthusiastic and bold to confess to him.

    But I can give you a little piece of advice, which can be regarded as a friend for you, a little bit of my personal experience, this kind of crush, you confess to her, and in the future, whether she agrees to you or not, through you slowly get to know each other better, you will find that she is not the person you like very much, and she also has a lot of faults and shortcomings, which you can't tolerate, and love needs to be tolerated, and then you know that my crush at that time was just a good impression of a person.

    You've entered college now, and you're surrounded by a lot of good girls who are worth discovering, so be bold and pursue it, and in addition to your own study and life, you must learn to love when you get to college, and you must talk about a real love.

    A friend of Changchun.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At least tell her the fact that she loves it

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know when it's time to get together, but I'm just shouldering it alone. In the end, it is always yourself who gets hurt. Whether it is in space or email, speaking is the end or the beginning.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you feel that you can't take it anymore, tell her and be mentally prepared.

    I've also had crushes and confessions. As a result, he had people to protect.

    If you really can't let her go, tell her.

    Give her, give yourself a result.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you feel that you like her to the extent that you can't extricate yourself, it's dangerous, you need to be sensible, first ask her if she can give you a chance to date, if she has feelings for you, if the answer is impossible, give up, it's useless to struggle in vain, if the answer is yes, hold on to her tightly, don't let go, I wish you success, remember to ask her on QQ**Oh!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you like her, you will chase her.

    Be brave enough to tell her that you like her.

    Whether to accept it or not is her business.

    At least you've tried.

    If she likes you, she'll accept you.

    Of course she doesn't like you.

    It's nothing.

    Even if it's an account of your 4-year crush.

    In the future, you can completely die.

    It's time to start your new life.

    You know, there are other good girls in the world.

    Maybe you have one around you.

    It's just that you think to yourself that she didn't find out.

    Of course, I still hope you can have a good result with her.

    I really bless you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Boys should be responsible, and if they like it, they will take the initiative to chase it, even if they fail? At least you know the result, if you don't tell people, how will people know? Maybe she likes you too, and she can't stand being rejected even by others, what else can people believe in you?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let go when it's time to let go.

    Fengfeng is alive and well in Kyushu

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Four years is not a long time, but it is not too short, so why not tell her? Even if you are rejected, you should still give yourself a few chances. Portion in artificial!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Decisive strike, I also have a girlfriend I have liked for three years. I just confessed some time ago.,It turns out that she always knew I liked her.,Just wait for me to confess.。。。 In fact, if she greets you, at least it means that she doesn't hate you, brother, what does it matter if we men are rejected once If you really like her, confess to her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Category: Annoyances >> in love.

    Problem description: I have liked her since the third year of junior high school, but I dare not confess, and I am really a very ordinary boy, they all say that people will change, but I and she have not passed, just know each other. I haven't seen her since I graduated from high school, and when I got to college, I told her that I liked her, but I knew she didn't like me, so I told her that I just wanted to be a normal friend with her. But she refused.

    I'm very uncomfortable, and I can only accept it, in fact, she is a very ordinary girl, not pretty, and she is not good, and her personality is also very strange, but I don't know why, I just can't forget her, of course, after a long time, I am not so uncomfortable, but I will still think of her, until now, I have never liked other girls. I want to forget her, but it's hard, what should I do. Am I too infatuated?

    What am I going to do.

    Analysis: You first find out if you can't get her, so you keep thinking about her, if it's not for this reason, then you can start your offensive, love her and don't give up easily, this is how my boyfriend chased me, but it may be very hard, but if you don't try, you may regret it later And remind you, maybe you chased it, but not as good as you imagined, what would you do? When it's time to let go, you have to let go, you can't escape.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. My dear, it is very hard and very tiring to have a crush on someone, because I blindly miss and pay, but I can't get anything in return, and the most important thing is that the other party doesn't know, so in this case, you have to be brave enough to confess to the other party, how do you know if the other party's mind is a confession failure, at least I have tried hard, and I won't regret it in the future, if you give up before you confess, then this will also make you regret <>it in the future

    I want to give up my crush.

    My dear, it is very hard and very tiring to have a crush on someone, because I blindly miss and pay, but I can't get anything in return, and the most important thing is that the other party doesn't know, so in this case, you have to be brave enough to confess to the other party, how do you know if the other party's mind is a confession failure, at least I have tried hard, and I won't regret it in the future, if you give up before you confess, then this will also make you regret <>it in the future

    Teacher, do you know any quick ways to forget?

    The best way to forget a person is to find another person, or to travel for a few days to relax, of course, the best is to find someone, because if you have someone around you, he cares about you every day, and after a long time, you will naturally forget about the other person.

    Why don't you confess to the other person?

    I'm too young to want to ruin him, let alone myself.

    How old is he? Second.

    How old are you. Some people know they can't, but they just meet it. So even if it's in pain, you can only relieve yourself.

    In fact, you are still young, and the days ahead are still very long, so you can get along with each other in the way of ordinary friends.

    But I love you and it has nothing to do with you, I know he has a girl he likes, but it's not destined to be me.

    In fact, at this age, liking someone does not mean that you will like it in the future, so it is best for you to get along with him as an ordinary friend now, and maybe you can still get together in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    found that he fantasized about the one he liked.

    Only when I got close to me did I find out that he was not at all what I thought, he was a scumbag.

    Aren't people like this, when you like someone, you have a filter, and when you don't like someone, you also have a filter.

    In the past few days, I have added a boy who has been secretly in love for a long time before.,And then I found out how good-looking and good he I remember is all made up by my own brain.,In fact, if you meet him on Tantan, you're going to row it away.。

    The person who has a crush or crush really doesn't have to go deeper, because if you understand a little bit, you will find that he is different from what you usually imagine him, and it is I who imagined him too well so that I think he is good Slowly let it go, not surprisingly Soon he will be with my classmate, and he will end his infatuation.

    Because of what deleted the crush.

    He did a micro-business ......

    Because after I started chasing stars, I found that he didn't seem to have any merits......

    He sent a couple bracelet with his girlfriend to announce his relationship.

    Because after receiving the selfless and warm love of others, I finally understand that your casualness is not worthy of my affection.

    Because I provoked that my presence was just an interruption to him.

    Because I never had the chance to see him in my life.

    Your life is too far away from me, I have looked in your direction for too long, and I know that there can be no more intersections, and it will only increase the trouble to keep it, so it is better to break it off by myself.

    How to look at the behavior of the person who gave up his crush.

    Not because of love.

    After deleting it, it was like a relief for a moment, and when I turned around, I burst into tears. The end of a crush is like the beginning of a crush, which begins quietly and ends quietly.

    The taste of a crush is only understood by those who have experienced it. If you feel like you shouldn't be spending your time and energy on your crush, turn away.

    Whether you're having a crush or you're ready to give it up, you have to make yourself strong and make yourself able to afford to let go.

    Some people can be easily erased with time.

    Because there will always be someone who stops for you, who will know your goodness and give you warmth. I especially like Mr. Shen Congwen's words:

    I have walked on bridges in many places, seen clouds many times, drunk many kinds of wine, and yet I have loved only one man of the best age.

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