What kind of mentality should young people use to face hardship?

When we were children, adults often taught us that suffering is the wealth of life, and that we should endure more hardships when we are young, so that we can enjoy happiness when we grow up.

So we threw up our little short legs, picked up our little hoes and vegetable baskets, and ......

When we went to school, the teachers began to teach us: only when you endure hardships can you become a superior person.

So we threw off our little arms, first grabbed ourselves and threw ourselves into the ocean of knowledge, learned the sea endlessly, and then picked ourselves up and placed them in the library, and there was a road to the mountain of books for the path ......Bright Eggplant Town.

After work, the leaders began to encourage us: young people should be good at enduring hardships, rush to work, accumulate experience for their own world development, and accumulate qualifications, so that they can accumulate and develop.

So we rolled up our sleeves and stretched out our hands to pick up the bowl, and we made a big bowl of chicken soup with a bang, cleaned up and trimmed our faces; Carrying a bucket and courier to train arm strength; Before and after the saddle, praise the connections; The amount of cultural alcohol is grasped together, and the accumulation is only lacking in the thin ......

And then: some people are willing to eat, and some people scoff at it!

So how should contemporary young people endure hardships correctly?

If you want me to say: what is right and incorrect!

Enduring hardships and accepting dissipation is only half detours and half wealth!

If you eat it, it affects your three views, changes your mind, misleads your decision-making, and brings you an unhelpful and unpleasant experience, don't think about it, this kind of suffering is defined by me as a detour!

If after eating, it has played a positive role in your decision-making, and it is a leading role for your later mentality and life, congratulations, it is your wealth! It's worth it!

Once the standard of living improves, there is no desire to pursue it. For such a mentality, it is actually a kind of self-comfort. This kind of psychological comfort is not good for the development of life, but it is also what many young people really want in their hearts.

Today's young people are raised in the greenhouse by their parents, and their parents are reluctant to let them suffer and be hurt, so under this kind of doting, the current young people have no ability to overcome difficulties.

Because the living conditions are better and the standard of living is higher, the children have become accustomed to a casual and comfortable life, and it is difficult to bear the hardships when they grow up.

I think it's because of the doting of parents, because parents don't want their children to suffer what they have suffered, so they take on a lot of things that they shouldn't bear.

That's because young people nowadays are being taken care of too well, so it is difficult to accept setbacks, and naturally they are less and less able to endure hardship.

Because the living conditions are getting better and better, they are unable to adapt to the difficult environment and have lost a lot of basic abilities.

We must endure more hardships Because only the benchmark of hardship can know the benchmark of happiness Endure hardships when you are young, take detours, pay tuition fees, and accumulate knowledge and ability that will be transformed into happiness in the future If the road is smooth sailing, a lifetime of highways, a lifetime of life arranged by your parents, not fun, not interesting, and a life of hardship will become there in the future.

Adversity is the medicine for growth. Enduring hardships can make you grow faster.

Hardship is to make you cherish life.