High school tablemates, it s really depressing

I think it's good to have such a tablemate, you and he were classmates in elementary school, and in high school, they met in a strange city, and they were in the same class, sitting together, what a fate. It seems that you all have good grades, so be the best buddy friend and the closest competitor with him, if you can get along and compete well, it will be good for both of you, right?

You can ask him to play physical education class together, play basketball or something together, eat together, and naturally become good friends, you also have to really exchange learning methods with him, don't mind so much whether he will surpass you, after all, the college entrance examination is not a competition between you and him, but a competition between the two of you and tens of thousands of other people.

Let's talk to him.

Complex relationships can make you grow faster. High school is the fastest stage of a person's growth. Don't complain, do your best to deal with everything around you, and you will become a successful person in the future.

Learning is for yourself, and competition is a good thing, but don't lose the true purpose of learning.

Pluck up the courage to change seats and strike when it's time to strike!

After changing seats, he studied hard to surpass him, and then he was the one who didn't taste it!

I've been in this kind of thing, and it's really hard to talk about.

It's good to be familiar with it, take your time.

I met my table mates more than ten years ago at the party, and I didn't feel so intimate at this time, but I wanted to leave such an occasion quickly. It shows that the two people no longer have a tacit understanding, and they faced some contradictions at the beginning, and they have not solved them now.

First of all, when there are more people in the party, the two people are more awkward. Explain that some of your actions have touched you, or some of his actions have touched you, at this time, you can try to take the initiative to get out of such an environment and take the initiative to contact other classmates.

Second, the reason for this reaction is likely to be that you have had some embarrassing things before, such as some emotional entanglements or friction between friends. These things are normal, but you are afraid that these things will leak out or be exposed.

Third, at this time, the age has reached the age of 30, and it will be more sensitive to some things. Although the previous thing has passed, there is always a scar in my heart, and at this time, uncovering this scar makes me helpless or at a loss.

In the end, it is still necessary to decide in combination with a specific scene and a specific situation at that time. Because at that time, there may be a certain difference in the status of the two people, or there is a gap in the circumstances, and then there is also a gap in the heart, so they are unwilling to accept such a reality, or want to get rid of such a reality.

For example, if I meet my former table mates or classmates, sometimes I don't want to contact them head-on, because my life is indeed more ordinary and ordinary. And then it's not quite realistic with my previous personality, so I will feel some embarrassment at this time.

It may be that I remember some not-so-good memories.

It doesn't matter, this envy Zheng is a Dong faction and a scene to play.

It's over, and everyone goes their separate ways.