I offered to break up, and he didn t agree, but I walked too resolutely, and his heart was cold

Truly. Women can't be every day.

Talk about the breakup. Is it later.

When you get married, you have to divorce every day.

Lip service? You often do.

Your man will be disgusted! Even if.

Love again. I can't stand you being hurt like this!

Talk to him again! But I'm sure.

Even if. He promised you, and so did you.

I can't go back to the past, I wish you happiness.

You women are like this every time, once or twice in a while, it's okay, and if you use this trick often, it won't work, stupid pig...

The more this is the case, the more men will think that you are not sincere to him, and break up with him to hit him...

My first woman was because I often mentioned breaking up, so I made up my mind to break up with her, and then she regretted it and asked to reconcile, but I'm really fed up,,, take the breakup as a child's play, not serious at all. 、

I don't agree...

Hehe, why did you do that in the first place!! Let's mourn!!

Even if it's a woman, don't talk about the word breakup every day...

You're too self-conscious, so let's review it.

Emotional problems, others can't help you, and it may be difficult to turn back if you take a step.

You're really going too far. Apologize sincerely.

Compared with when I was in love, it was really miserable.

I just want to say one thing. Are you a good woman.

Lower your body = =! If you want to get back together, it's time to put down your body first.

I've never been very helpful to people to be cold and violent in the process of falling in love.

Yes, I think that if two people have anything to do and have any dissatisfaction in their hearts, they can say it directly, instead of treating each other indifferently like this, even if they want to break up, shouldn't they say it generously? Ignoring the other person like this is not the solution to the problem at all. <>

I know that sometimes it may be that the couple has a quarrel, and then both of them are unwilling to bow their heads to each other and admit their mistakes, so they keep snubbing each other, thinking that the other party will take the initiative to admit their mistakes to themselves first. But have you ever thought that if your other half thinks the same way? Does your partner want you to take the initiative to take care of him?

Could it be that two people just ignore each other? Feelings really fade in this process, so cold violence really shouldn't appear in couples.

Besides, my attitude towards breakups is to get together and disperse, when two people are together, they are happy together, although they can't be happy with each other when they break up, but at least they should officially say goodbye, after all, no matter what, two people have really loved each other, and it can be regarded as saying goodbye to their own good times. So I really don't approve of your boyfriend's approach, he does it just to kill your feelings for him, and then make you propose to break up. Let me tell you what I think.

1. Sit down with your boyfriend and have a good talk. I think the most important thing for you at the moment is to sit down and have a good talk, you can't continue like this, although your relationship is not the same as it was at the beginning, but you shouldn't want to leave all hatred after the breakup. So talk about it and see what your boyfriend really thinks.

Second, you can propose to break up. I think you've gotten to this point, and the probability of reconciliation is actually very low. You can consider breaking up after knowing your boyfriend's attitude, it's okay if you bring it up, it's better to separate now than to separate after a while when the relationship is worse.

I think you should take the initiative to have a showdown with the other person, and choosing to break up may make you suffer less damage. In a love life, whether there is still love between two people, each other is the one who feels the most sincerely. But obviously there is no emotion, but there are always some people who want the other party to take the initiative to break up.

In this situation, it may take some courage to take the initiative to break up.

Taking the initiative to break up always makes people feel guilty, and snubbing is actually trying to make you take the initiative to break up. There are many people in life who leave because they have been sentenced to a relationship, and breaking up in this situation often makes people feel a little cold. But there are also some people in life who have loved deeply and want to leave because there is no love between two people.

If you take the initiative to break up in this situation, you will inevitably feel a little guilty in your heart.

This is actually a stage that many relationships have experienced when they are moving towards a breakup, obviously they don't love each other, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to leave, so they can only use snubs and quarrels to destroy the relationship, trying to make the other party take the initiative to break up and reduce their guilt. This method is not uncommon in life, but no one wants to accept it.

I think you should take the initiative to have a showdown with the other party, and there is no need to hurt yourself even more if you can't keep the feelings. Now that you have found out that the other party is snubbing you, and you already think that he wants to break up with you, I think you really don't need to wronged yourself at this stage. You can take a moment to have a good talk with the other party, put everything on the bright side and say, if the other party really wants to break up, then simply choose to leave, this is the best protection for yourself, and if the other party denies this 100 million points, then you let the other party make changes in life.

This is actually a very simple truth, there is no need to dwell on it, and there is no reason to hesitate at all. If you lack courage at this time, then you can only be hurt more in your feelings.

A relationship has come to the precipice of a breakup, and a step forward is the end. Whether you want to or not, you have to make a choice, and you have to try to protect yourself in the process, and taking the initiative to break up may be the best way to protect yourself.

There are many people in life who are always running away from the end of the relationship, but escaping never solves the problem, only by taking the initiative to face it, only by taking the initiative to tear open this wound, we can make it possible to let our wounded hearts heal in the future life, and let ourselves have the courage to pursue happiness again.

You should consume him, you shouldn't say break up, look at what your boyfriend wants to do, if you take the initiative to break up, it's like his month.

At this time, you should sit down with him and talk to see what he thinks, if he really wants to separate, then don't hesitate, it's better for everyone to simply separate.

You can break up with the other person immediately, because the two of you are in a state where you don't have any feelings anymore, and the other person has been struggling with you.

Break up with him, such a boy is not worthy of your liking at all, and if you find a better one after breaking up, he will definitely regret it.

I think since he said that, then it's completely impossible for you. I think you'd better give up and find another one. I think it's going to come sooner, because the damage done before can't be gone all at once.

You didn't do such a thing until half a year after the breakup. Isn't it a little late? Make people think you're insincere.

I think it takes half a year for a woman to figure it out. It's too late for the relationship to make the girl think you're insincere.

Now that you've broken up, don't get too entangled, because you can only prove that you have no fate, and now that you're separated, people reject your refusal so directly, then give up, or slowly find your true fate.

If two people have always loved each other, but somehow broke up, there is usually only one reason, and that is that there is an irreconcilable fundamental contradiction between the two of you. It is because of this contradiction that there has always been a rift between the two of you, which makes your feelings start to grow bigger and bigger. But when the rift is too big to heal, there will be a natural outcome for the two of you, and that is a breakup.

Since you broke up, it means that the two of you are not suitable. No matter what the reason, no matter how much you love, you can't reconcile the contradictions. This is the most fundamental reason why you can't go on.

It can be seen that you love this girl very much, because it has been half a year since we broke up, but you can't let go of this girl in your heart and regret it. But once the relationship is over, it's hard to get back together. She is very emotional, but at the same time, he is also very rational.

He has realized this fundamental problem between the two of you. He knows it's impossible for the two of you, so he won't agree to your request to get back together. Go for another love that belongs to you!

Does he still love you, but is there some other reason why he said it is inappropriate? He didn't want to say that he didn't love you anymore, and he said that it wasn't suitable, so he should be too helpless.

I feel like he still cares about you

The ex cares about your performance has:

Clause. One, you can still reach him.

Although he may no longer reply to your message, he will answer it if you call **, or he does not block you, then it means that he has not ruthlessly cut off contact with you.

In this age of the Internet, it is very simple to contact someone, but if the other person wants to cut off contact with you, there must be a way to completely disappear from your life.

As long as you are still in his address book, you can still contact him, which shows that he still has a trace of reluctance in his heart for you.

Even if he blocked you when he broke up, but then secretly added it back, and insincerely told you that if you can't be a couple, then be friends, this kind of performance shows that he can't forget you in the short term.

Clause. Second, the breakup was not told to anyone.

Although you have broken up, he has not told anyone the news that you have broken up, and his relatives and friends still think that you are still a couple.

As long as the breakup is not made public, he will leave you room to redeem it.

If he is still willing to contact your family and friends and does not expose the breakup, then he will definitely not be able to let go of you, and he may just be angry for a while!

Clause. 3. No status related to you has been deleted.

I believe that many couples are eager to let the world know that you are together when they are in love, and there will always be a show of affection in the circle of friends from time to time.

But for a period of time after the breakup, he did not delete the affection that he had shown in the circle of friends, and the state related to you is still there, indicating that he is still nostalgic for the time with you.

If you have a couple's avatar and he hasn't changed his avatar yet, then this possibility is even greater, and if you want to get him back, you have to seize the opportunity.

Twisted melons are not sweet. You and his personality are not on good terms. You all said that you were very good, but you didn't know how to cherish this relationship at the beginning, which caused him to block you. His current behavior is very resolute in the mentality of breaking up. So there's no need for you to salvage the relationship.

He is very determined to break up, but his current actions fully show that he is not very resolute in the mentality of breaking up, he is still very nostalgic for this relationship and wants to get back together.

Judging from your content, you have given a lot, in your heart, as long as you blindly give and be good to him, even if you continue to buy him things after separation, he is still yours, he will come back, and you have great hopes for him. He has blocked you now, which proves that your relationship is over, and you send him something, he will think that he will send it, anyway, the thing is sent to him, just sign for it, it is a matter of course. So, you better stop being stupid, stop spending money on sending things to someone who doesn't love you, it's really not worth it!

It's hurt, but let's let it go in style!

Girls must love themselves well, stop being sad for unworthy people, work hard, live well, if you bloom and butterflies come, the person who loves you will definitely appear.

You said that you are resolutely breaking up, this is just your feelings, which shows that you were indeed very resolute at that time, but after reflection, according to your current actions, it does not seem to be a mentality of resolutely breaking up, so you try to communicate with him.

We can't judge a person's good or bad, I personally feel that his mentality is that I have already told you to break up, it is your business to disagree with you, you have to give what you send in vain, you want to send it, not what I asked you to send. And it's been a year since we broke up, and he hasn't been with you, so let it go. It's also a relief for yourself that you won't meet someone who can tolerate you.

Be. You're good to him. In his eyes, you are not the person he ideally wants, and he also said that he doesn't want to change you and he doesn't want to change himself.

Losing your nostalgia may be that you haven't found your next home, or you are a little nostalgic for the feelings and things you paid before, just like you spent too much time, and finally knew that it was not what you wanted, but you were a little reluctant and unwilling.

He was annoyed, and his attitude was clear. There's no point in holding on any longer. To go to a better life, find the right partner, give up bad memories, and slowly come out, I think it is what should be done.

His hesitation to break up shows that he doesn't like you very much. And you have no bottom line to pay to him, and love without a bottom line will break up in the end, so I advise you to break up. After a period of introspection, both parties should be given a period of calm time, and do not immediately ask the other party to get back together.

We all know that you can't handle things well with emotions.