My girlfriend proposes to break up on the grounds that my parents don t agree, what should I do?

Big brother, you are 10 years older than me, I call you big brother.

Even though you're older than me, I can still give you some advice on this matter.

I can tell you that age is not an issue at all.

I once dated a woman who was 9 years older than me, and it was a good feeling. If it weren't for the fact that she was already married, I think I would have married her. Love doesn't care about age.

But there's one thing that's a big headache, you know what it is? That's the money.

The mention of money cannot be said to be vulgar, because it is a very realistic thing.

Many of the people I know, including many things I've heard, started out with both of us. But in the end, often within a year, their families are facing a serious crisis.

Later, I learned that the economy is the only foundation for a stable family.

Having money may not necessarily be happy, but not having money is necessarily unhappy.

In the face of material conditions, love seems so fragile and powerless. This is especially evident in cities like Beijing and Shanghai.

And you have another problem: that your and your girlfriend's salaries are too disproportionate.

In general, if you want to maintain a good relationship with your wife, your salary must be 2 to 4 times that of hers. If you are paid equally, there may be friction from time to time. But the disparity between your salary and your girlfriend's salary is too great now, to be honest, even if you get married, I will really sweat for you, because your life must be difficult.

Of course, what I'm talking about is also the general situation, and when it comes to yourself, you still have to analyze specific problems in detail.

Because this is the happiness of your life, if it were me, I would never give up so easily.

Why don't you find an opportunity, preferably in the evening, and you ask your girlfriend out for a meal with her and have a good talk with her. Let's see if I can meet her parents. You have to get your girlfriend in your shoes, buy some gifts (cigarettes, alcohol, whatever) and go with your girlfriend to meet her parents.

I think even if her parents were against you being together, they would still be able to agree to that.

Or you can invite her parents to a private room in a hotel for a meal, and then talk to her parents about it. You persuade her parents to let you try to have a relationship, and then talk about it later.

That's all I can say to you, because I've never seen anything like that.

Finally, I wish you all the best. If you feel that she is the woman you are destined to be, don't give up easily!

Don't be immune.

Three years old a generation gap, after marriage you are happy less, men have to take care of a girl younger than themselves is very hard, I don't mean to let you break up, but you have to be rational and think about it, if you really love her, will you be happy when she is happy. Help her find happiness.

If you can give her happiness, you don't care about what happens in the future, you can go to her house, let you beat and scold, and even kneel.

There is no dignity to talk about in front of true love, if you don't dare or don't want to, then break it off early, so as not to suffer.

I agreed with the 2nd floor I was in the same situation as you at the time, "I love you too, remember that no matter what happens, I love you in my heart", this sentence is exactly the same.

This is something that most people would say depends on the relationship between the two of you, but in fact, it depends on how LZ does and how he treats it.

Understand it, to put it simply, if you can't give up her, just let go of everything to be nice to her and tolerate everything about her, including her family.

There is a possibility to win her back, but it is very costly, and I have to be cautious a few months ago, I just felt that she was not worth it, and my self-esteem was not willing.

So I chose to let go, and now I'm slowly coming out, and I occasionally think about it, but it's nothing.

lz Is this woman worth it or not, think about this before acting.

The age difference is too big, since you don't agree, it's better to be sensible and don't waste time.

Like the landlord, it is also the parents who oppose it, in the final analysis, it is a money word!! I'm also in pain right now, love is so fragile in the face of reality! The landlord wants to open it, hey, another good man has been injured!

Big brother, I even encountered the same problem as you, even persisted for 7 months, life is better than death, so sad, now my friends are helping me, but I still don't know what to do. Common disease, bless you.

A lifelong event that needs to be considered