Long distance relationship, we broke up, my parents didn t approve of the breakup

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That night you tried to save him with a hoarse cry, but he still turned away in spite of the tears streaming down your face, and at that moment you seemed to hear the sound of a broken heart.

You want to cheer yourself up, since he is so ruthless, why should you be nostalgic, as a dream, he has never been to you, you began to live and work step by step, pretending to be very chic, you think that time is the best medicine to ** your inner pain, but you find that you are so unbearable, the more he rejects you, the more you don't want to leave him, your thoughts about him are stronger, you have the sequelae of the breakup, his figure is everywhere, his smile...

You started to take the initiative to contact you, I want him to give me another chance, you will behave well, no longer make him angry, you did everything I could, but in exchange for his more ruthless rejection, your heart is dead, you feel that you will never love again in this life!

In fact, if you don't like someone who keeps chasing you, won't you be annoyed? In the same way, since he chose to break up, it means that you have something in you that he hates very much, and your strengths are completely covered up by those shortcomings, so if you want to redeem it now, you can't rely on entanglement, but how to eliminate his negative impression of you.

And when you choose to entangle, it also exposes your emotional needs for him, and he will have a sense of superiority psychologically, which will make him not see the status quo clearly and ignore your existence! In fact, when the root problem of your relationship has not been solved, even if you get back together, your status will not be equal, and you will not be able to respect each other, so since he chose to break up, respect his choice, and don't rush to redeem, entangle, and compromise.

Try to give each other some time and give yourself some time, when each other's negative emotions are eliminated, each other also thinks clearly about the problem, and sometimes he will take the initiative to come back to you!

The second is to make a new change, the man proposes to break up and part of the relationship is boring and loses the freshness, that is, you no longer have enough charm to attract him, at this time, you must adjust yourself and improve yourself in time, and recognize your own problems in time, instead of blindly pushing the problem to the other party, thinking that the other party has changed his mind, is a scumbag, and even goes around claiming that he is a victim, which will only make your feelings more and more contradictory.

Redemption is not to let you blindly please the other party, more to let yourself regain your life, in order to meet a better self, the most important thing to redeem is to grasp not to entangle and improve yourself, when you do these two points, he will be attracted to you again, can't help but take the initiative to redeem you!

I talked to my girlfriend for more than 2 years, and then I graduated from college, she was one year lower than me, I went out to work, and then I was in a different place, and then her parents knew that we were against being together, and then they broke up, both sides still like each other, but I chose to forget when I knew that there was no future, it's not that I don't love her, it's just that I don't want to delay her and delay myself at the same time, life can't stop at ** because of a hurdle!

If your parents don't agree, what about the woman, if it's just that you don't agree, it may be a little difficult, but sometimes you have to think about whether the other party is worth continuing on your own.

I was in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, and my parents asked to break up, and I personally think that I shouldn't break up at this time.

Long-distance relationships are actually very painful, and many people will break up because they can't stand long-distance relationships. If you are in a long-distance relationship with your girlfriend and your parents ask to break up, it is best to put aside your parents' thoughts at this time and carefully consider whether the relationship should continue and whether you should break up because of the long-distance relationship.

Consider the length of the long-distance relationship.

Many long-distance relationships are actually only temporary, perhaps due to company reasons and need to travel for months or years. For this long-distance relationship, the personal feeling is overcome, and there is no need to break up at all. Through this long-distance relationship, we can keep a certain distance from each other and not let the relationship be boring.

At the same time, when you have time, you can also go to the city where the other party is located and surprise each other, so this long-distance relationship should not break up because of the opposition of your parents.

Consider whether you can end a long-distance relationship and travel to the other person's city.

Long-distance relationships are generally very painful and slow luck, and the relationship between the two will fade after a long time, and we can choose ways to end the long-distance relationship to avoid the breakup. As long as one partner is able to travel to the other's city, this can end the long-distance relationship. As long as the long-distance relationship is ended, there is no need to divide the hands.

Whether you love each other enough, if you really love each other very much, you don't have to break up because of a long-distance relationship.

If two people have a deep enough relationship, then they will not break up because of a long-distance relationship. Because the degree of love you love each other is far greater than the pain caused by a long-distance relationship. Therefore, such a long-distance relationship will be full of expectations because of every ** of the other party, and will cherish every opportunity to meet.

Such a long-distance relationship cannot be separated by parents, so as long as the relationship is deep, don't break up in a long-distance relationship.

There are many reasons for a long-distance relationship to break up, but you can't break up because your parents ask for a sleepy one. If you really like each other, think about ways to solve the long-distance relationship, and after considering many aspects, the long-distance relationship will not be an obstacle between you.

Many couples nowadays are in long-distance relationships, and when two people fall in love, long-distance relationships cannot be stopped. However, many parents don't want their children to be in a long-distance relationship.

1. Communicate with parents.

Many parents don't want their children to be in a long-distance relationship, probably because they don't want their children to live far away in the future. If it's because of that,You must communicate well with your parents, as long as you tell your parents well, I believe that your parents will understand you. Talk to your parents and talk to them about what is going on in your heart, but also understand the real main factors of your parents' opposition.

It's very convenient that way. You can also let your significant other have contact with your parents, and if your parents like her, then they will definitely not object to your long-distance relationship, and maybe agree to your marriage directly. Don't fall out with your parents because of this, your parents must want you to stay with them and don't want you to go too far.

As a son, you should also learn to empathize and think from the perspective of your parents. <>

2. Strive to be a successful person.

When you have the ability, when you have a successful career, when you have the ability to live on your own, I believe that in this case, even if you are in a long-distance relationship, your parents should not be very opposed. Because when you have the ability, your parents won't worry about you going too far, and they won't worry about you leaving them. <>

Therefore, if you want your parents to agree to your long-distance relationship, you should work hard, have a successful career, and have a good economy. Only in this way will the parents' worries in many areas be superfluous. That's just my opinion.

Long-distance relationships. Generally speaking, it is very difficult to regret, because in a long-distance relationship, design a problem of time and energy allocation, so most long-distance relationships are difficult to succeed, so I think that if your parents ask to break up, there is still a certain saying, because parents are people who have come over after all, and they are not optimistic about long-distance relationships, many people are like this, so when parents do this, you have to think about this problem again to see if this long-distance relationship is really suitable.

First of all, you have to look at your feelings, whether you really love him, whether you really like him, this is the most concerned, sometimes the relationship is just a kind of dependence, but many people don't know what kind of situation this dependence is, so in this case, then it will be like this, this situation, anyway, I think this long-distance relationship, that's it, if you want to use a long-distance relationship to show your charm, then I think it's still a very difficult thing, Since your parents asked to break up, then I think you should rethink whether you love her, whether you like him, if you really want you to persevere, then you should tell your parents that you have to persevere, this is the kind of words, what are the specific words, what are the words, then it depends on your own replay Most of the parents' words, usually speaking, will not listen. Children's advice, especially in this process of falling in love, so this long-distance relationship should be a big challenge for you.

Usually in marriage on such a major event, then the child usually follows the advice of his parents, especially like a long-distance relationship, after a long-distance relationship, then the two of you must be together, in a city, then it depends on who gives up their original city is such a thing. Anyway, I think I'm very optimistic about a long-distance relationship? But if you really like each other, a long-distance relationship is also completely acceptable, and I think there is no problem, because a long-distance relationship is a part of life, and it does not guarantee that everyone is in a long-distance relationship, but you are a long-distance relationship.

I think at this time, you must do the work of your parents, and you can't deny the feelings between two people because you are in a good place to search for Zen love, if you have a good voice and talk to your parents, it will definitely be useful.

I think you should reassure your girlfriend first and then go and comfort your parents and tell them that you two will be getting married soon.

After the breakup, it may be that under normal circumstances, the parents already know, and it cannot be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally the contradictions before the breakup have been very intensified, rather than saying that one thing happened to break up, so the parents have heard about it, and they have already knew.

1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

Be honest with your parents and tell your parents why you broke up.

They don't agree, what can they do with you? After all, you're talking to the other person!

What he means is that while his feelings for you are not so deep now, he will not be so reluctant and sad to break up with you, and his parents will not agree anyway, and he is not ready to confront his parents for the sake of your feelings.

Because the parents did not agree to break up, it is normal for a long-distance relationship to be in a long-distance relationship.

The boyfriend proposes to break up.

The note is still not enough to like.

Otherwise, whoever disagrees will not propose to break up.

It should be said that while your relationship is not very deep now, you will break up first, and when the relationship is deep, he is afraid that he will be reluctant, and he is even more afraid that his parents will oppose it at that time, and both parties will be uncomfortable.

If two people truly love each other, I believe that nothing will stand in their way, and they will leave because they don't love.

Truth be told, you should have made a decision early when you encounter this situation.

It's not impossible to have a long-distance relationship, but considering that you should live in ** after marriage. If you are willing to come to your boyfriend's house or your boyfriend to live with you, this is certainly no problem.

But here's the problem, no parents want their children to stay away from them, so it's not easy to take care of, and they have to run so far when something happens, and it's understandable that they don't agree.

I think it's up to you to do this, you still have to make your own decisions, and others can't decide!