Working in the field, it s rare to meet with your girlfriend, it s very hard. What to do?

It's important to communicate by all means possible. If you love her very much and want you to have a good outcome, then it's time to start planning your future, or you come back, or let your girlfriend go to you. In short, it is possible to separate the two places now, but this is not a good thing, especially when you are planning to get married, and living in the same city is the best.

Moreover, life in two places will make it impossible for you to understand each other's lives, and it is easier to have some doubts, distrust, etc., which will affect the relationship between the two people.

Some feelings are like wine, the longer the time, the more fragrant it is! Some feelings are like cakes, and they will spoil after a while! The main thing depends on whether the two of you are sincere, and whether your feelings are deep.

It's nice to be separated for a long time at the meeting, isn't it said that the little one is better than the new love? It's good to contact often.

A long-distance relationship is nothing more than that.

Fear of strangers, your friends don't know me, my friends don't know you, we don't belong to the same circle anymore;

Afraid that they can't be contacted, no one can guarantee that the mobile phone will always be unblocked, QQ is on call;

Afraid of spending money, the romance of a different place is supported by money, we have money;

Fear that others will treat him badly, and fear that others will treat him well;

Fear of seeing others in pairs;

Afraid to meet ...

In fact, I wrote so much about being afraid, I just want to tell myself, don't be afraid, after all, these are insecure! It is the emptiness and discomfort of possessiveness in love that suddenly cannot be satisfied

But if you can stay together as much as possible, the objective factor is really powerful.

No matter what, ** information QQ is indispensable, so it will really feel closer, say anything, and solve any problems together.

Remember to make it a habit to keep a diary, and when we meet again, we may exchange views, and maybe you will understand each other and yourself better.

The most important thing is to keep yourself clean

Can be comforted a little more.

Insist on communication, care more about her, and buy her some small gifts. Help her solve problems and reduce stress or see if she's willing to change jobs.

What can you do with a good rest and adjust your state to? You can take a good break for a while to adjust your condition, and then face the work with a full and positive attitude.

For many couples, in fact, they have encountered such a situationBut we should also solve it reasonably, so that we don't lose our love and career. 1. Find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your girlfriend.

For any female friend, in fact, they are not willing to have a long-distance relationship with their boyfriend, but they are not vexatious, and it is not that they can't accept their work in a different place, but they need a reason to convince themselves, so that they can face it better, so it is very important to choose a suitable time. We must tell our girlfriend what we really think in our hearts without reservation, and try to get their girlfriend's approval, so that our feelings for each other will not be affected in any way.

2. Show your attitude.

For boyfriends and girlfriends, although the two are already together, we can't force our boyfriends to stay by our side because of our dependence. After all, life needs to rely on money to maintain, and the usual food, clothing, housing and transportation are inseparable from money, so we must show our attitude in front of our girlfriends, and tell our girlfriends very firmly "I will not ignore you because of the distance between two people", so that your girlfriend will be very relieved to let you go out to work, instead of quarreling with your girlfriend.

Long-distance relationships are indeed very difficult, but when we have to do so, we should also choose to obey, so that whether it is our usual life or the future development of two people, it will be greatly helped. Maybe in a short period of time, we can't discern, but in fact, we all understand the importance of a good job to us, so we must deal with everything rationally, and I hope everyone can adopt such a concept.

If I have a good job, but my girlfriend doesn't agree, because it's a long distance, I will choose to convince my girlfriend that two people need to trust each other in order to go further into the future together.

Then change a job, as long as you are good enough, you will always find a good job, but girlfriends are unique, no one is exactly the same, and feelings need to be cherished.

You can make a plan with your girlfriend first, and if you can take a long-term view, you can also better protect your future life.

I think that if my girlfriend doesn't agree, I can have a good chat with my girlfriend first, or don't be in a different place, just bring my girlfriend to the place of work, and then find a job for my girlfriend at the place of work.

Then there is no need to care about girlfriends, because a good job is really hard to find, so you can consider changing girlfriends.

I think it's okay to talk to my girlfriend patiently, tell him how important this matter is to me, and then show my love for her.

If the job is good, you can choose to bring your girlfriend with you to work there. If he doesn't want to go with him, he can't force it. What is yours will be yours after all. If the two of you love each other very much, you can get married and go over there to work together.

Then you'd better make a choice as soon as possible, long-distance relationships are difficult to last, depending on whether you want to choose a career or maintain the relationship.

You must discuss this matter with her, and then actively think of a way, for example, you tell her to help her find a job after she has worked in the past, and take her over.

I will discuss with my girlfriend first if I can try to be in the same city, or ask my girlfriend to give me a time limit, and if I feel bad, I will choose to give up and return to you.

Then you have to respect your girlfriend's opinion, after all, the relationship is a matter of two people, and you can't just make your own decisions.

Then don't go, because love is hard-won and more important than work.

You can slowly discuss with her that you go out to work in other places to make more money, and then come back to marry her, give him a reassurance, give her a sense of security, and your girlfriend should agree.

If the job is worth it, talk to your girlfriend and ask her to work near you.

Then you have to think about whether your work is important or your girlfriend is important, and if you feel that your work is important, then you should go to a different place decisively.

Then give up this job, after all, the relationship between two people is the most important thing, and you can still find a job again.

First of all, I think you can consider bringing your girlfriend to that city as well. I think that's the best way to do it.

If my girlfriend doesn't agree, I might give up that job. The long-distance relationship will reduce the trust of both parties, and then see if there are better job opportunities locally.