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Well, if it's not in accordance with the rules, but the other party is very strong, then I will um, communicate with him reasonably, let him know that it is not in accordance with the rules, well, even if you do, you will be quilted because of your non-compliance.

If the other party is very cooperative with you, then you can also change your bottom line and principles a little.

If this matter is not in accordance with the regulations, but the other party is very strong to cooperate with you, then this matter is still very easy to handle, because since the other party is willing to cooperate, then you can communicate with the other party well.

If you don't meet the rules, the other party will strongly ask you to cooperate, and you will communicate with Jean to tell him that there are many things that have touched my bottom.

I will reason with him calmly, and I will understand and reason with emotion.

The problem is very simple, after all, it is a society under the rule of law, if you can communicate through a third-party friend, through your own direct communication, you can't find a third-party agency or find a public security organ to mediate.

Hello friend, I think if you meet the other party or the other party's strong supporting role, I think I will try to explain the specific situation to him.

Then I will explain the matter to him clearly, and then give him some vivid cases to tell him that this is not feasible.

If you encounter non-compliance, but the other party is very cooperative, how will you communicate, I will definitely transfer him, this is against the rules, it is definitely not right to do this, and then it will definitely be punished, let's not do this.

Since it is not in accordance with the regulations, just say that the more ambiguous you are, the more he will tell you, if it doesn't work, let the leader solve it.

Of course, if you can cooperate, you can cooperate with it, and you can't force it.

Feelings will be rubbed around like this, and finally the edges and corners will be smoothed out, and they will come together. If you have these feelings, it means that you haven't kneaded together yet, and you still have to go through tribulations. Time is the best solution to your problem.

If the other party asks for it, I guess I will do what he asks.

If you encounter a non-compliant match, but the other party has a strong match, how will you communicate? In fact, if you can't stipulate this, you still have to tell him a reason for this matter.

It is difficult for people with different views to get along, because their ideologies and behaviors are different, and they can't understand and accept each other when they are together, and it is impossible to get along well.

Getting along with people who don't agree with the three views probably doesn't even want to talk, it must be very tiring.

"The Tao is different and does not conspire with each other", and "the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence" may reflect the embarrassing reality of getting along between people with different views. The so-called "things gather like people in groups", people always like to associate with people who match their three views, hobbies, living habits, etc. What is incompatible can be reserved, and it is not necessary to be completely exclusionary and hostile.

When you get along with people with different views, you will feel that you are too lazy to speak.

It's really tiring to get along with people with different views. No matter what happens, you can't communicate, it's hard to resonate, and you basically start arguing after a few words. Any point of view is different, obviously he is very reasonable, but the other party thinks it is wrong, and he does not compromise.

I can only sulk and endure silently, after a long time, I feel that the three views are different, not a person with an inner world, physically and mentally exhausted.

If you don't agree with the three views, don't get along, how can you get tired?

If you have to continue to communicate, try to talk about things, if it is really inconvenient to communicate, find a middleman to convey it, avoid positive contact and cause unnecessary trouble!

The three views do not agree, they will always walk on different paths, there is no intersection, if they are not more serious, they have their own ideas, go their own way, and let others say it. If you encounter something that is stronger than true, it will be a disaster, so ask for more blessings.

Isn't this interesting, getting along with people is a process of mutual conquest, giving full play to your own personality charm, using your own heart, showing your three views, conquering each other, and letting the other party recognize you. Isn't this a process of adapting to society? How can it always be possible to meet the right person.

I'm tired, I think differently, and I don't want to chat.

Words are not speculative for more than half a sentence.

Stay away from such people.

The main thing is not the problem of whether the three views are incompatible, but whether they respect each other, but whether they respect each other, if the three views do not agree, but in the end, the view on the outcome of things is the same, there is no problem, you should know that many business partners have different views, but the final result is to make money, there may be many contradictions, but if they all respect each other's ideas, although they do not agree with each other's ideas, but the final result is to make money together, so they will also change their minds to make money.

The three views can not be compatible, but we must respect people I have a lot of friends who are not a matter of whether the three views are compatible or not, they only think about their own interests (for example, playing League of Legends, having a friend, teaming up to play a game, whether this one wins or loses, he thinks that my data is better than yours, I just hang better than you, you have to serve, and I think about this loss, why I lost, and I will think about how to win back. Instead of thinking about how this record is, so I often quarrel with him when I play games, so I don't want to do things with him) So it doesn't matter if the three views don't agree, we must respect each other.

It's really tiring to associate with people with different views, and people from two different worlds can't walk together, just like you say that the sea is beautiful, but he says that many people have drowned in the sea. If you can't even chat, I personally don't think there's any need to waste each other's time, so break up as soon as possible. Yes, people with different views will be very tired and tired together!

The longer you are together, the deeper you feel. These conflicts are difficult to solve, you talk to him is equivalent to talking to a chicken and a duck, you are talking to him like playing a piano to a cow, two people who are completely opposite, why should they be together. Two people who can't resonate with each other in life and can't understand each other!

Very tired, really very tired, you can echo him at first, but after a long time, you will be very disgusted with such a person, you want to stay away from him, turn off all information about him, you will be very disgusted when you see him, you want to talk to him as if you have to raise a lot of courage, you want to escape when you see the space for him, and then finally you see a figure like him and then you are afraid, and finally you will drift away, and he will also slander you from mutual friends, and then you are not human on both sides, embarrassed.

If you encounter a disagreement between the three views, don't play together, or you will be the one who will be hurt in the end.

Maybe there is no right or wrong in the three views, but the disagreement between the three views is like a chicken and a duck, but it is a bloody objective fact.

If the three views are combined, everything is combined, and if the three views are split, even if they are together, they are also the same.

Do not seek the consistency of the three views, but seek the harmony of the three views.

Then just talk less.

I don't bother to talk about it, the concepts are different, you say a sentence and reply to the other side, it is difficult for the two sides to reach a consensus, let alone get along, it's not bad not to quarrel, it makes sense for people to divide in groups.

If you don't fit in because you're withdrawn, then you need to make a change, because long-term misfit can have a big negative impact.

First of all, we should make a more objective evaluation of ourselves, examine whether there is a problem with our own views and personality, if you think that you are a self-centered person who does not like to communicate with others, then you must first feel happy, because you dare to formalize yourself, and then we have to make changes because of this, try to participate in everyone's discussions, accumulate more knowledge, such as reading more books, watching more movies, and constantly enrich your own connotation, then others will also like to communicate with you.

This is a process that needs to be persistent, so we must not rush and change slowly. However, if you find that your personality and opinions are not problematic after examining yourself, but only the interests of the people around you are different, then you don't need to make no changes and stick to the right views.

Everyone is unique, and there is no need to deliberately change yourself exactly according to the wishes of others. But if you are too egoistic, self-centered, and unable to communicate with others, then you should change yourself.

I don't know if I've heard such a sentence in ** "Fitting in is the beginning of degeneration", don't consider the rigor of this sentence, at least it can see that forcibly fitting into a group that is not suitable for you will lose yourself.

To give a simple example: the company has team building, most of them will not refuse to participate, if it is a simple all-night fun show, it is better to go back and invest in improving yourself when others are gregarious. There are the same cases on campus, classmates ask you to skip class and go out to play, the reputation is that the university without the subject is incomplete, this kind of person is as far away as possible, then you should insist on yourself, the university is incomplete, the parents' money is hard-earned money, there is no need to squander a short study career for the sake of unnecessary gregariousness.

We still have to carefully analyze whether it is really suitable for me, and think about it from the perspective of interests and other aspects, whether I really need it. Instead of simply blindly fitting into other people's groups and ruining your own path, this will make you more and more confused on the road to being gregarious.

Insist on your own while weighing the pros and cons, there is no perfect person, there are always some gregarious people who can also help you change and optimize yourself, so your own group is also insisting on yourself, whether you need to change or not, you also need to consider it carefully in combination with the specific situation.

What do you think?

It depends, if I don't fit in, it depends on what kind of group it is.

If everyone in this group is aggressive, optimistic, and very good people, then I will definitely change, if I don't change, I will be pulled down by this group, I will become not as good as others, lose my enterprising, and become depressed. It's like studying, you are in a class full of top students, everyone is diligent and studious, only if you don't study hard, will you change? I think you will, maybe not to change for the sake of being gregarious, but you know what is good and what is bad, and you know what is right to do, so you will change and become the one that helps you.

In this case, I think everyone will change.

But if this group has a bad style and a bad attitude, it is full of people who steal chickens and dogs, and their behavior is indiscriminate, then I will definitely go to get out of him as soon as possible, if I don't fit in, then great, prove that I am not a bad person like others, I will not change, but will insist on being myself, how can the white crane stand in the flock, I still continue to be unsociable and get out of it early. Just like Zhu Yuanzhang was born recklessly, but he became an emperor, if he was gregarious and only a grass coward like others, I am afraid that the world would not have the surname Zhu at the beginning.

Not being social, changing or not changing, depends on the quality of this group, and cannot be generalized. Be a wise man, not a blind gregarious.

There is no absolute right or wrong in the world, but what most people think is right and wrong. If a person is not social, then it can only mean that his views and opinions are different from most people's, or even the mainstream values, then he will definitely struggle if he is not accepted by most people.

It is not uncommon for people to be unsociable, like many geniuses they are unsociable, they have been withdrawn since childhood, but they have high achievements. But most of us are not geniuses, and we still have to live a normal life in society. So instead of being a misfit and being ridiculed and snubbed by others, it is better to change yourself and make yourself more recognized, so that our lives will also be better.

Therefore, if I am not gregarious in terms of personality or practice, I must go back and make changes, and if I can't change society, then I will change myself, which is the law of survival in this society. Otherwise, it can only be eliminated by society.

Of course it will change, this society survival of the fittest! If you blindly have your own temperament, you will be the one who suffers in the end! If you are also this kind of misfit person, here are a few things you can do to change yourself!

First, if you feel that you are withdrawn and unsociable, you need to change. It is good to know that the subject has realized his own problem, knows what his problem is, and wants to change himself and solve this problem. This is very important and is the basis for making changes.

Second: know yourself rationally and evaluate yourself objectively. People are tall and short, fat and thin, people's personalities are also introverted and introverted, introverted and withdrawn people are not few, to know themselves rationally, do not feel inferior because of their own character, do not think that they are not good because they are not social.

Everybody has something that everybody isn't good at, you're not good at interpersonal knowledge, but I think you definitely have a lot of things that you're good at, and you can get a positive self-experience from these activities that you deleted.

Third: master the way and dare to communicate. If you're not good at communicating, try reading some books on developing interpersonal skills and try to discover and practice what works for you.

Everyone has their own unique way of communicating, don't try to imitate others, as long as you feel comfortable and effective.

Fourth: Change takes time, don't be too hasty and anxious. Change is painful and takes time, and you should be mentally prepared for the changes that are coming and for the anxiety you may feel as a result.