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I don't know how much your parents have saved, and the medical expenses can be hundreds of thousands. Being able to take out 300,000 yuan to study abroad, I think it shouldn't be a problem to come up with 200,000 yuan as life-saving money. For the daughter-in-law, the money may be unjustly spent, but for the son, that is, your husband, spending it or not spending it is two different things:

Spent, he will be grateful to you for the rest of your life, unless the conscience is eaten by a dog. If you don't spend it, you may think that you will not be saved when you see death, because you mentioned that if you don't ** as soon as possible, your life will be in danger. If studying abroad is an investment, I think saving my father-in-law's life is also an investment.

After all, you are going to live with your husband for the rest of your life, in case your father-in-law has three longs and two shorts, will he let him complain about you for this for the rest of his life? If you really don't want to pay this money, I don't think it's up to you to say no, it's better to let someone else be the "wicked", after all, it's not your money. Personal opinion, for informational purposes only.

Personal opinion:1Your small family took out almost all of the savings of 30,000 yuan (you have decided on this, needless to say).

2.You ask your mother's family to borrow about 10w (you can take 30w for you to study, 10w shouldn't be a big problem, and it won't be able to support the elderly, right, and in the end, the money will not be repaid, and the 2 elders in the family will not draw their salaries all at once, at least the pension money is still there).

3.You ask your husband to ask relatives and friends to borrow tens of thousands of yuan (remember to write an IOU, because if the 10w on the parents' side can't be repaid, it shouldn't be a problem for the relatives to repay tens of thousands of yuan).

You said that your husband's relatives can't borrow money, but you can ask your parents to pay for it, and your sister will come forward to lend it to your husband. Second, my parents' money, I am embarrassed to write an IOU, saying that it is my sister, the IOU is normal, finally, remember to ask your parents and sister to write a proof, otherwise the money is easy to say.

Finally, I wish your father-in-law a speed**.

It's really hard to do, and everyone will say that this thing happens to others, but if it really happened to themselves, I guess everyone wouldn't think so. Even if you agree, your family probably won't agree. Your family is not obliged to take so much money to help him, after all, it is your parents' hard-earned money, if his family's economic conditions are as you said, they can't pay it back at all, and then you and your husband will have to pay it back, will your parents watch you live a tight life to pay them back?

Basically, this money will go and there will be no return, and when the time comes, not only will there be no money on your side, but your parents' side will also be unhappy. There are many examples around me where relatives borrowed money when they were seriously ill, and they had to borrow money because they couldn't save face, and as a result, the people over there died and the money was gone. You listen to your parents and respect their opinions.

Hehe. No comments. Reality is everything. Human nature is everything.

Okay, your actions speak for themselves, and it's right not to give.

You write down what you say in it, and then organize it, and write a letter to your husband to read. I don't believe it, he understands you. In times of crisis, people must be more rational.

Your husband won't be tender and stubborn, right? You understand each other and discuss it slowly. I hope you can keep the clouds open and see the moon.

Studying abroad can be said to be an investment, but treating the elderly is a kind of consumption absurdity! Your thoughts have been expressed, and you are still asking netizens what to do Speechless.

Do you really love your husband? If yes, then you should treat your father-in-law as your father. After all, my husband is going to live a lifetime.

You don't want your husband to be unable to get along with you for the rest of your life because of this. It can be seen that you are always a good husband and very filial. You are also a person who thinks about your parents.

Very rational. It can be seen that you also love your husband very much, or if your husband has nothing, you will marry him. It's better to go home and discuss it with your husband, life is at stake, after all, your father-in-law raised your husband so much, and now that your father-in-law is sick, saving people is the most important thing.

Didn't you say there are many ways? Those who have no money can choose traditional Chinese medicine conditioning and stay in bed at home; Slightly conditional hospitalization**; It is more qualified to go abroad for world-class experts to consult. One should choose the method that suits oneself according to one's financial situation.

When I go home, I'm talking to my parents to see if I can borrow as much as I can. The days will be long in the future, and the money can still be earned slowly. Now it's time to get the most important things done.

After all, it's your own relatives, and money can't buy it back, so you have to be worthy of yourself.

Think about it another way. If it's your dad who is sick, and you're rural with no money. And your husband's parents have this money, and your husband is also concerned about the situation you said.

Will you watch your father endure the pain? So your husband is understandable word limit.

If you don't give it, the two of you will quarrel for the rest of your life because of this matter Divorce is not impossible It depends on whether you want to keep your marriage or money If you work hard to make money, even if you can't pay off the total, but you can always pay back the majority, your parents will understand you, and everyone will thank you.

It should be borrowed, and both sides are their own parents.

Think about it, if your parents are sick and your husband is unwilling to take the money out, what will you think of him?

These things are mutual. You can't just watch the old man just because it's expensive, right? Even a person who doesn't know it can't see death without saving, not to mention that this person is still your husband's parents!

They have never raised you, but how did they raise your husband, you also know that your husband's family is poor, so you should understand the difficulties of his parents! You can make money slowly, and you don't need to use it that much right now, anyway. If you wait for the day when you have money, they will remember that you helped them in the first place.

But it's up to you to come up with how much money you can take, isn't it? If you don't take out the money because of this, your husband will hate you if something happens to his parents.

Your position is that, on the one hand, you don't want your parents to come up with the money they worked so hard to save your father-in-law, and on the other hand, you feel sorry for your husband by doing so, which is of course a dilemma for any ordinary family. Earlier, you said that your husband was born in the countryside, and he has no family background that can be regarded as nothing. Your marriage to him shows that you also love him and want to live with him for the rest of your life.

In this case, let me make an analogy, if your father-in-law goes because of this this time (and your family has the money to treat his illness), even if your husband does not divorce you, even if he loves you again, he will blame you in his heart for a lifetime, and he will directly transfer his father's pain to you, and your psychology will not be better.

There's already a gap between you.

I think if you choose to help, you will have more, twenty or thirty thousand is less, and in the end, you will be complained about giving money. You're reluctant to pay, and I understand. But in order for you and your husband to have no problems in your marriage in the future, let's help.

I think if you choose to help, you can pay more, twenty or thirty thousand is a drop in the bucket, and in the end, you will be complained about when you give money.

If you love your husband very much and believe in him very much, then you should try your best to help, I think your husband understands your intentions.

Your parents' are not yours, depending on how much you borrow.

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