How to have nothing to say, how to have nothing to say

In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

The oldest borrowed books talk about movies and the like.

If it's a little closer.

Talk about the places she often goes to, the characteristics of her hometown, such as snacks and whatever, talk about what she likes to eat, what she plays, what color clothes she wears, kill two birds with one stone, and when you go out with her in the future, you also have choices when you rest, and she will think that you take her words to heart......

Why don't you text with your finger?

That's not easy to do, you first ask her interests, hobbies, what she likes to eat, play, etc., and then you can do some research on what she likes, for example, if she likes a certain star, you can pay attention to his new ** words and new movies; She likes a certain brand, so she will tell her the new product ......... as soon as possibleThen you can talk about these topics, and I personally think it's better to send text messages, and you don't have to speak, and a lot of ambiguous things can be said.

A lot of people talk about talking, and you can't talk when you meet someone.

First, an economically minded person, for example, a person you know who likes to talk about the economy, you can talk to him about today's trend, or the prospects for future economic development, so that you have room to talk!!

Second, game-minded people, needless to say, at least the most famous games, or what are the games that appeared during this time, if you talk about these, he will talk to you about this, such as how to increase blood, where the upgrade is faster, these people are better to talk, because many of them don't need to say it themselves, he will list them with you one by one.

Thirdly, the person who talks about his heart, you start from your point of view, for example, if you encounter something unpleasant today, and what happens later, for him, this will have something to talk to, and he will analyze it with you.

Fourth, people who talk about the living environment, this kind of person generally talks about some furniture, what is the environment around the family, you talk about his environment is suitable for him, and talk about buildings and so on...

Fifth, in general, depending on who you contact, you can say whatever you say, and the most important thing is to see him as the best friend to talk to, so that you can talk about anything!!

Hope it helps!!

Very easy. I used to feel cold too. There is basically nothing to say.

But it's been a long time. There is something to say.

I went out with someone I liked last night.

It's still a good conversation. Believe in yourself. Don't worry too much about whether your topic is getting the attention of the girls. Or whether it will be boring.

You have to preconceive of him, treat him as your good friend, don't be shy, say whatever comes to mind, don't hide it, don't be hypocritical. Talk more about the interesting and special things you encounter every day. If you talk too much, you will naturally have something to say.

That's because you've talked about it when you're together, so you don't know how to say it. I think you can go online to contact your friends' feelings, and you don't necessarily have to talk to your boyfriend (girl). I wish you a happy 2010, a happy family, and all your wishes come true

People can be wrong, but they can't miss it and seize the opportunity

I wish you good health and happiness every day

The most beautiful life needs your own struggle, and I believe that I will do better A lover will eventually become a wife

No matter how big the wind and rain are, someone will always hold an umbrella for you

This answer is from: Frozen, Cypriot (from Team: Love Matching). Looking forward to you.

If you are in a bad mood, it is a kind of boredom, and boredom is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, you are unhappy, if you want to make yourself happy, you just don't want to be bored, you are in a bad mood. How can I make my mood better, listen to songs, and feel annoyed, that is, your boredom has not been solved and improved, then let your emotions vent out, inexplicably uncomfortable, nothing more than an empty heart, an empty heart, there is no mood at all! As for why, it depends on your own life situation and the factors around you.

Depression and depression have different concepts, depression has a kind of depressed sadness, and depression is just a mood of idleness.

Talk about topics that the other person likes, ask the other person more questions, read more books to communicate with others, and if you can do the above three things, then you are not far from success.

Ask the girl what she likes, and then you go online and look up the relevant information, and you will have a common topic.

Hehe. What does he like about your research.

What hobbies. What do you like to eat, etc.

You do your homework.

You know him.

Then you will have more and more topics, but only if you are confident!

Tell him the story of Sima Guang smashing the cylinder!

True love can explain everything.

1. You must have the courage to talk, don't feel uncomfortable when you see someone you don't know, and always be "embarrassed" to talk to each other; Or feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start talking. In desperation, or cramped corner, embarrassed, you must have the courage to speak to others;

2. Show interest in the other person and make the other person feel that they are being cared for. Any person wants to be noticed and valued, so if you want to stimulate the other party's interest in conversation, you might as well show interest in the other party, carefully remember what the other party has said, and make the other party feel valued and concerned, then your chat atmosphere will become more and more harmonious;

3. When two people who are not very familiar with each other meet, they are often relatively speechless. In order to break this awkward situation of silence, the first thing is to have someone to speak. For example, after hearing "It's so hot today", the other person may take the initiative to respond to you and then use this topic;

4. Make your language infectious, and speak appropriately and emotionally. When interacting with people, in addition to finding the right topic, it is also necessary to be specific and emotional. Bai Juyi said:

Those who move people's hearts do not precede love. "Only by being passionate can you express this emotion in your heart, and let the other person be infected and have a happy chat with you.

Zhang Ailing said in "On Writing": People who develop the habit of writing often have nothing to say, while those who do not have the habit of writing have nowhere to say. Around me, not only the writers but also those who are teachers, they are always able to talk endlessly, and there is always an endless topic to talk about, and I am always full of respect and envy for them.

I am the one who has nowhere to say, and in order to cultivate the ability to find something to say, I force myself to write and speak. The deliberate exercise that I wrote and said is more about wanting to be an interesting person, life is not easy, and try to be as happy as possible. So I tried to open all my senses, eyes, ears, nose, mouth, every part of God's gift to play its role, and I wished that a few more tentacles would grow on my head to reach out to the sky.

Mobilize them all the time, listen carefully, and taste them slowly. There will not be so many ups and downs in ordinary life, and more experience comes from the usual, wilting flowers, watching it from prosperity to decline; An old dog who has been lying in the nest for a day, lazily hanging his tail and letting you fiddle; Insects chirping, cold wind and drizzle, everything that happens around you refuses to miss, record the touching and understanding of the liquid and the time coming, and then carefully polish it when you have time, and then find what you want to say, say it to yourself, and tell it to others. Everything around me came alive because I was seen, flickering and beating in the daily life, and I became a gushing person.

Source: This problem is not only yours, but many people have this phenomenon.

First of all, we must find out who we are talking to, and then the next step is to talk about the content of the conversation.

If it's just a meeting and saying hello, that's fine.

If it's for a friend, the conversation isn't limited to topics.

If you're targeting customers, then you need to be prepared.

In any case, one thing is very important, that is, it is "miscellaneous", that is, you have a wide range of knowledge, and you need to know a little bit of everything, not that you are very professional, but at least you know more, it is easy to find an entry point for dialogue with others.

Now that the Internet is so developed, you don't need to buy books to read, browse more pages, the range is a little wider, and over time, you will have a harvest, good luck!

First of all, about speaking, there is nothing to say, it is not a matter of mouth, it is a question of the topic. With a common topic, people who are not eloquent will naturally be able to talk endlessly. Without a topic of common interests and hobbies, no matter how eloquent a person is, he can't say half a sentence.

Secondly, when it comes to making friends, pay attention to not who can talk, but who will have true friends. What kind of people have true friends? Here's how:

Sacrifice a little bit of your own interests every day, do a little help for others for free, and persist in doing it for two weeks, and you will find that your interpersonal relationships will improve greatly!

Finally, about personality, the survey found that there are nine layers of great scientists and artists who are not good at talking, introverted, of course, hosts, civil servants are extroverted people, personality determines fate, whether introverted or extroverted, you can have the opportunity to become an enviable success!!

I thought it myself:

Now this society not only needs high-quality students, now anyone can read books well, the most important thing is to learn how to get along with others, you say that you have nothing to say to others, but you know a lot, then you first have to know what kind of personality you are talking to, what preferences you have (in fact, this is not difficult, just pay attention to it), and then you find some topics to talk to him. Secondly, you said that you are relatively quiet and like to go to museums, but you also have to exercise more and develop yourself in an all-round way, and it is useless for you to know a lot of knowledge. And you said that you feel estranged from others, that is the problem in your heart, you try to treat others as your relatives, don't be cautious of others.

It's going to be a lot better. Hey!

Advice: Don't talk endlessly about things that you are interested in, and you don't even talk about things that you are not interested in or don't understand, so that your friends have nothing to say to you, not that you have nothing to say to your friends.

I also had the same problem, but I solved it:

1.You should be clear about the things and topics that your friends care about, don't be too self-conscious, and put aside your own interests and hobbies first.

2.I tried it once, and I told my friend: why are we talking no more? He laughed a lot, and so did I.

3.People see something new every day, for example: I saw a crash this morning. I want a haircut, do you get a haircut? What to eat at noon? How about you please do me a favor and scratch my back?

4.Use more questions, ask friends about their hobbies and interests, listen to yourself, and learn.

5.Make some inexplicable and unreasonable jokes when you are embarrassed. For example: I saw Zhang Sanfeng in the car today, really. (If he doesn't believe him, bet with him).

Three universal topics teach you to break the embarrassment.

It should be caused by being too introverted and lacking communication with people.

In addition, life is very monotonous, there is no color, and there is no feeling for things is also an important reason for poor interpersonal relationships.

It is recommended that you cultivate more hobbies, contact more with the outside world, and deal with people more, not to talk to people all at once, that is unrealistic and impossible, first of all, you should take the initiative to deal with people, speak boldly, and slowly you will find that dealing with people is not a difficult thing.