I don t have anything to say to my boyfriend, or he doesn t have anything to say to me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's common to have no topic, and many couples don't have anything to say. What to do? I personally recommend finding something to do and having a common hobby. For example, watch a movie and talk about the complex in the movie; Or play a game together, and it's fun for you to compete for me.

    But at the end of the day, you need to start with a hobby, and with a common hobby, everything is easy to do. It's really not good, I can only talk about some gossip, what happened to the people around me, who broke up with whom, and we are together again. In this way, it seems that there is nothing to say, and slowly we have enhanced mutual understanding, and what we talk about is targeted.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Many people find relationships fun and curious at first. Once it has been a long time, many people will feel less fresh in their hearts, and it will be difficult to reach the previous contact point. It is possible that the other person you know is busy due to their career, or there may be many other things, and they have put their feelings aside and cannot be contacted in time.

    If you are true love, I suggest you stay together, or get married. If you think it's fun, then there's no need to work so hard, you have to think about it carefully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe she talks a lot with other girls, maybe he is such a person. I want to say, if he is a very self-motivated person, will he take into account you in the future, consider whether he can give you happiness? Maybe it's because of the conditions?

    I don't know what to guess. You still have time to make an appointment to talk, and it's better to say something to your face. Otherwise, it will still be the same on QQ.

    So be it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be that distance produces beauty, and when you get closer, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think, and you will be disappointed.

    Or maybe it's because he's not used to the environment in which he came.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Distance produces beauty, the distance is too close, but there is less beauty. The best thing to do is to go out and travel together, which can enhance the relationship. In short, it is to do something together, so that both of them are concentrated, so that it is easy to bring the relationship closer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Sit down with him and ask him what's wrong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, which means that he himself may be an introvert and not good at words! If he is not an introvert and has nothing to say to you, it means that he really doesn't want to talk and communicate with you, and he doesn't like you, which is the rhythm before the breakup!

    If you are still willing to date your boyfriend, you can also take the initiative to communicate with him and ask him why he has nothing to say to you. May you be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it can only be explained in two aspects, the first aspect, it is possible that he really has no feelings for you, there is no emotional development, and the other aspect can show that his current focus is all on study and work, and it is also for your future life to achieve better happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, this situation shows that he is a little tired of you, and the two parties have reached a point where there is nothing to talk about, so you must communicate with your boyfriend well, understand each other's thoughts, and strive for both parties to get back on the right track.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it largely means that there is a crisis and rift in the relationship between the two of you, and it is very necessary for the two of you to communicate and exchange well to eliminate each other's estrangement and contradictions, so that your relationship will last.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that your boyfriend doesn't particularly love you anymore. If your boyfriend loves you, then he will have a lot to say about you. This means that he is a little tired of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, which means that the two of you don't have any common language, and he finds it boring to be with you, then you should find some common topics or do something meaningful together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It may be that he has no feelings for you, it may be that he is an introvert, or it may be other reasons, in short, you need to figure it out, otherwise it is not conducive to your future development.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that your relationship is not as strong as before, so sweet, and it means that you usually lack effective communication. In fact, the relationship needs to be maintained for a long time, I hope you have time to communicate more with your boyfriend, do some things together, and have some common chat topics.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, it means that the relationship between you has faded, and there is no common language between you, and there is no affection for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boyfriend has nothing to say to you. One is that he can't speak and doesn't know what to say.

    Also, I don't feel anything about you anymore, it is possible that you talk too much and are too boring, and I usually feel that you are annoyed.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend and you don't have anything to say, it means that there is a lack of effective communication between you, so you can't find common topics, and you don't know each other well enough.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It may be that the two of you have been together for a long time, and your boyfriend will feel that he has nothing to say to you, you can observe whether he has a lot of words to others, if he is just with you and has nothing to say, then you have to consider whether your boyfriend is no longer interested in you, if he talks very little to other people, it means that he is such a person who talks less.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be that there is a crisis in the relationship between the two people, or the relationship between the two people has reached a flat temperature, and two people need to adjust it together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It shows that there is no affection between the two of you, and if he really cares about you, he will be with you and have endless words. Now that you don't even have to say anything, you should break up too.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your boyfriend didn't talk to you. Explain that your boyfriend is angry with you. It must be that you didn't do a good job in some way and made him unhappy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Prove that your relationship has reached a critical point and lost, a certain amount of freshness, and then just regain the original freshness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It means that the two of you are not suitable for being together at all.

    Your boyfriend doesn't have anything to say to you, and then your relationship comes to an end. Only when two people can communicate effectively calmly can the conflict be truly resolved.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Explain that you can separate, don't talk together, how to survive in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The first reason is that the two did not reach the point where the other person was satisfied.

    The second reason is that there is a crisis in the relationship between the two people.

    The third reason is that the relationship between two people has reached a dull period.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think your boyfriend has nothing to say to you, probably because he doesn't like you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If he still doesn't want to say it, it means that his feelings for you are weak.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It means that there is no common topic between you, you can find more topics that your boyfriend is interested in and chat with him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Whoever it is? No matter who you've been spending time with? Of course, there is no common topic, which means that you have reached a bottleneck period, and when you reach that quiet period, you need to work hard to maintain this. Well, it's okay to add a surprise to this kind of life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Boyfriend, you two don't have nothing to say right now? It shows that the two of you have finished chatting about many common topics, and I think it is better to find more common ground in love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If your boyfriend has something to say to you, it just feels like the relationship between you has become relatively flat.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Seeing the description of the landlord, his eyes were a little hot, and he felt distressed in his heart. I feel sorry for the landlord's long-distance relationship, and I feel sorry for all the girls in the long-distance relationship. I am also a woman who has been in a long-distance relationship, it is not easy, and there is a good result in the end, but this process is really like a sudden tear, just because I saw a similar scene, and my body remembers the mood at that time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There are three reasons why your boyfriend doesn't talk much, one is that you are too familiar to talk about. The other is that he is more introverted and doesn't talk much. There is also a language that you don't have in common.

    There are many reasons why he doesn't talk much. It's not worth arguing with him about this. It's better to find something to talk about yourself.

    There's really nothing to talk about, so we just do our own thing. We'll talk about it when we have a topic.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Maybe your boyfriend doesn't usually like to talk, but a lot of boys don't talk much, as long as he cares about you, will take care of you, and loves you, I think it's not good for boys to talk too much, right?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If your boyfriend has you in his heart and likes you, he won't talk less to you, he doesn't talk much to you, he can only say that he doesn't care about you so much.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This kind of relationship should be seriously considered, maybe one day he will say that he will break up, and now his feelings for you are not so deep.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    People don't want to talk.,It means that he really wants to find a girlfriend by himself.,And he's a person who can think independently.。。

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I'm tired of it, but he doesn't want to take the initiative to be with you, or maybe the next one is still on the way and hasn't arrived.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Because he felt that it was not right to say too much, it was better not to say it, so he slowly didn't want to say anything else.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe people don't talk much. You can talk to him more and drive him more.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Maybe it's just that I'm tired and don't want to talk! Everybody has it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There are many possible reasons why your boyfriend stops talking when you mention him. Here are some possible reasons:

    1.Fatigue or distraction: He may feel tired or distracted and unable to concentrate on communicating with you.

    2.Discomfort or injury: He may feel physically or emotionally uncomfortable or injured that causes him not to want to speak.

    3.Avoid conflict: He may not want to cause conflict, so he chooses to remain silent to avoid any unnecessary questions or arguments.

    4.Lack of interest: He may not be interested in your topic or what is being discussed, and therefore does not want to speak.

    5.Psychological problems: He may be experiencing some emotional or psychological problems that cause him not to want to speak. This could be stress, anxiety, depression, and more.

    If you feel that his silence makes you feel uncomfortable or ignored, try to communicate openly with him to understand his thoughts and feelings. Try to find out common topics and interests so that you can communicate and understand each other more easily.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This is divided into two scenarios. First, your boyfriend loves you very much, and you say that if he fights back against you, you may get into an argument. Second, maybe your boyfriend is too lazy to argue with you. Because he's already annoyed.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't argue with you, stay calm, and tolerate your performance.

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