When I encounter two loves, which one should I choose?

Updated on workplace 2024-04-19
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you want to get married, if you get married, be the first to put it.

    But in fact, I often think that if I could see through a person's heart, even if I marry the first one, I don't know what will become of marriage.

    The second one, maybe it will change... It's hard to choose.

    If it's a boyfriend first, I still think the second one, maybe he's that type, but he likes you, doesn't he, and that's enough.

    There is no need to get involved in too many problems now, enjoy the process of falling in love, and be with the person you like.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your problem is not who to marry, but who to fall in love with.

    In fact, you already have the answer in mind, choose the second one.

    It's not that 2 won't take the initiative to move you. Some things are not as simple as you think, such as the fact that he once loved deeply and was deeply hurt. So he didn't dare to pay, he was afraid that such a pay would still fail, and he couldn't afford such a blow.

    In fact, it is very difficult to meet someone who likes each other, since you like it, then choose the person you like. As for what you said, he will not take the initiative to move you and take the initiative to take care of you. Some people are cold on the outside, but enthusiastic on the inside, and they just don't deliberately do something.

    If you are a handsome guy, you actually have some arrogance in your bones.

    What you have to tell is whether this man is responsible, responsible, and open-minded.

    There are a lot of bad people in the world, you have to see clearly what kind of good, especially in front of you deliberately behaving well, you better not be too easy to believe.

    I hope I don't mislead you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings can't be forced, whoever you love will choose whom! If you don't feel it, it will become more tasteless after being together, hurting both yourself and hurting yourself. If you don't really like him because of the second one's appearance, then choose him, doesn't he like you too?

    Hehe, the key is how you feel!! Finally, I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    With the first one you won't get too tired.

    And it's going to be happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It feels like it's just temporary, and you have to think more about the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is sacred, and one cannot say "love" lightly. Everyone likes to be with the person they like, but if you like that person, it doesn't necessarily mean that you like you very much; If you have a crush on the person who likes you or a little liking it, then you choose the person who likes you, because you will definitely be happy; If you don't have a crush on people who like you, choose your love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'd rather find someone who loves you than someone you love, so that you can be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Strictly speaking, neither of them is chosen in your heart (I just judge from your description) The first is the first love, which may occupy the heaviest weight in your heart, but you listened to your mother's opinion and hesitated about this boyfriend from the reality of life. You're worried that life after starting a family with him will be dull and you won't be able to show off more brilliance. And you yourself are a person who is unwilling to be plain (speaking of which, I want to say that your unwillingness to be plain will not work hard for yourself, but just think of men to pay for you?)

    So bs under you first, hehe! )

    The second, which belongs to the rich and handsome type, can be said to satisfy your vanity very much (this sentence is not derogatory, please don't mind). But the heavens and the south and the north are separated. In fact, you can also ask your mother's opinion.

    Trust her to tell you about the incompatibility with him. Why? Because the relationship between people is not just a matter of talking.

    I can't get along with each other, and all kinds of personality incompatibility can't be reflected. Make a small assumption, if you are next to you and you suddenly ask him to bring you something, and he is too lazy to move, he may not listen to your request, or reluctantly obey but accumulate a displeasure with you in his heart. And you can't make such a request if you are not by your side, and he only needs to talk to you verbally (dear is not thirsty, come and drink water with us, is he hungry, we eat together.

    So it's up to you how you choose. (Then again, what right do you have to choose both of them?) Don't the two of them have the right to choose you? Understand this sentence well).

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The first one is okay, if you cared about his appearance at the beginning, you rejected his confession at the beginning; The second one is unrealistic, unless you have the opportunity to study in the United States. You don't have any plans to get married now, study hard, maybe your destined person hasn't arrived yet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know what your family is like. Ask you a question, if a man has 100 yuan on him, he will give you all 100 yuan. The other man has 1,000 yuan on him, but he will give you 500 yuan. Which one do you choose?

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