I hate my tablemates, and I hate what I do with my tablemates

Haha: Same as when I used to be a sophomore in high school.

I was quite distressed at first. Like you, I don't like to make relationships too stiff, and I'd rather endure it myself.

But then slowly I figured it out.

No one is perfect, since you hate her, why do you have to think about her everywhere?

If you don't want to play together, don't be together.

Duoduo went to open up other circles and slowly alienated her.

I think she'll understand, and she'll not be haunting you with a dead face.

Now at the same table, look for an opportunity to change to the same table.

My table mate in high school was also very bad, at first I thought she was very cheerful and good, so I became friends with her who talked about everything, and later found out that she likes to show off, and she likes to pretend to be stupid and cute, and I don't like to be pretentious, so I was very resentful in my first year of high school. Now that I've changed classes in my sophomore year of high school, I feel very sad when I hear people who used to have a good relationship with her say that she's not as cute as she looks.

I want to say: I feel that a friend is not suitable for me, so gradually distance yourself, don't look bad because of her shortcomings, make your mood very bad, in fact, what kind of person she is, the people around you are very clear, not that you have such feelings, but everyone is the same as you don't say anything, of course, the essence of your table is not bad, just hope that everyone likes themselves, admit themselves, but the means are more childish and ridiculous.

I hope you can see the point, what kind of people will be met in the future, just adapt to the society in advance, and the most important thing is to be happy.

Instead of letting yourself be distressed, you should face it calmly.

If you can't face it calmly, then let the teacher separate.

It's so simple, why bother yourself!

There are two sides to everything, and the problem you are talking about is that on the opposite side, he is laughing at you for deliberately embarrassing you, but you can look at it on the positive side, imagine him as if she cares about you and jokes with you, and you know from the landlord that you don't really hate her, and since it's not, then why not add to your own troubles? Treat her as a friend, and I'm sure she'll do the same, and I'm also a high school student, and my relationship is pretty good at the moment, because I know it's really final, it's okay, although I'm a man, if I think it's right, it's okay (I don't usually say this, because I'm doing a mission, and I'm going to be the head of the group, hehe).

Slowly distance yourself from her, and he will understand it himself. But if you can get along well, you still have to get along well. Find a chance to talk to her.

When she learns to talk to you, you just say to her, "Don't learn from me!" Be strong in tone. You may think it's useless, but what are you going to do?

When she wants to go to school with you, you say you quit, saying that you are going to go with other classmates, or that you are in a hurry.

Ignore her, but don't show it.

Change seats, or you'll go crazy sooner or later.

Keep your distance. We can't avoid meeting the same table that we hate, but we don't easily stiffen the relationship with each other, keep a certain distance, focus on studying, don't care about each other, and don't let the other party affect our mood.

Wearing a magnifying glass.

Discover the brilliance and progress of your tablemates. Don't always focus on the disadvantages of your tablemates, try to discover the strengths of your tablemates. Maybe the table mate is very righteous, maybe he is generous and does not hold grudges, etc., and finds these advantages and finds opportunities to praise him.

Introduce. The environment has a great impact on people, especially in junior high school, where there is a lot of pressure to study and self-control.

insufficient, and it coincided with the period of youth rebellion.

It is easy to be impulsive when encountering problems, and it is easy to have problems in dealing with classmates.

In particular, how to deal with the relationship before the table with which you get along day and night becomes even more important. Many of your table mates later became lifelong friends, but some of them had to be annoying.