I m irritated by a lot of things, I can t breathe, I don t have the strength to live, I m immature,

First of all, congratulations! If you are able to ask this question, it shows that you are maturing and moving away from childishness. It's normal to encounter such problems in life.

The life of two people is inherently different from the life of one person. What is needed between the two is communication and exchange, not looking elsewhere for solutions.

Secondly, you have Weibo and blogs but are looking for them to talk because you are afraid that your friends will know. It doesn't matter, anyone is happy to help you. If your friends stay away because of this problem, you won't be your friends. Find someone to talk to, talk to your girlfriend.

I'm sure you'll be able to solve this problem satisfactorily. Bless you all!

You think too much, I also have my own blog and write something deep. Write if you want to, why write, life gives too much pressure, so release it. Of course, you can also choose entertainment to release stress.

Take it easy for yourself, don't you feel happy if you put all your worries aside? Believe in yourself!

From your description, it can be seen that you are not mature enough, or not old enough, because what you need first is a girlfriend who can be centered on you, but have you ever thought that maybe your girlfriend also wants a boyfriend who is centered on her, and you can't only think about your own feelings in everything, and you can't think about others with your own thinking. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her your feelings and thoughts about your current situation, and think of solutions together, so that you are responsible for her and even more responsible for yourself.

You are a person who does not like to communicate with others, and you take feelings (emotions) very seriously. If you don't solve a problem when you encounter it, and keep it in your heart, can you feel good? Friends, you should learn to communicate, talk to her well, she loves you (or she won't control you), communication is the key to solving all problems!

If you keep choosing to flee, then the problem will always exist, will you continue like this? You're smart enough to know you're having a problem, but why don't you solve it?

Good luck.

Is there a heart problem?

Eat too much for supper! Hold on.

Some people's concern is that they are breathless because their methods are not right.

The weather is hot and humid, and the mood is naturally irritable. So the mindset is very important, to maintain a good attitude.

Because you don't need some people's so-called sincerity.

Actually, let me tell you, he just doesn't know girls.

And you're all too small.

This is the run-in period, and it will be fine when this period passes!

If you don't handle it well, you will break up, and if you handle it well, you will be happy!

Hopefully you'll be okay.

Before, he cared too much about you, and then you cared too much about him.

Once we are too involved, we are always immersed in it, but we don't realize that what we reach out to grab is not the current happiness, and unexpectedly bind each other's wings. Wait until one party feels breathless, but hates the other party, and hates the other party and does not cherish it.

You also said that you take each other too seriously. There is love in this world, but most of the people who invest in %100 will not end well, not to mention the 17-year-old who has not much experience in the face of change.

I advise you to give each other seven points for love, and the remaining three points for loving yourself!

I think he still loves you, find out why he is himself.

I said that my love partner is also like this, and my love situation is similar to yours, we have separated from nnnnn times, at first he said to reconcile, and then I begged. I don't think this trick works, I love him anyway, and it's not more painful to break up. You said how well you will live in the future, that's self-deception, I have been separated from him for a long time, I said that I will live well (similar to what you said) but I still found it myself, those days were really tormenting me, now I am afraid to think about it.

Love is like that, there is no eternity. I'm still on good terms with him, even though I know he doesn't love me (really. I'll go to school tomorrow, and he'll not see me off, Valentine's Day.

I just sent a few text messages, and now people don't know where they died, I care about him, and he scolds me for being insane. I love him, so I put up with it, and one day, I'm sure I'll get tired of him too. My approach is not very good, just for reference, if you can really be liberated, then I congratulate you.

..If you give it to him for the first time, will you be able to threaten him everywhere?? Tell you that you're wrong, and the more you do that, the more annoying he will find you

You're too young, even if you have real feelings, do you think you'll make it to the end? Don't be obsessed anymore! Your future matters!

Young don't understand love, unripe apples are bitter!!

Fool's Egg....I think he still loves you, but boys can't stand this temper, so why don't you find your own reason...It's okay to be coquettish, but it's not good to go too far...You can try to be nice and gentle with him, boys want their wives to be cute and obedient instead of arrogant, and only to be good to their own little women, he is blamed like that by the person he loves the most, of course he will be sad. I think you still love him after all....Even if you say this on the surface, what you want most in your heart is his information, in fact, he is still good to you, at least he is very single-minded....Get him back to you

I gave it to someone at the age of 17. What a stupid ... Lost the most important thing.

Can you still be on your own? Unless it's your own deception. I see your boyfriend is getting presumptuous.

I think you will drag him if you give it, and it will not lead to good results if you go on like this, even if you are together again, you will suffer Long pain is better than short pain, alas, I will see people with eyes in the future

I felt your pain after reading it.

My own psychology is also very heavy.

I don't know what my boyfriend, who is 6 years older than me, will do to me in the future.

I don't have confidence in him and myself.

Yes, love is like this, you can't control it.

Once you love someone, you will end up soft-hearted no matter what.

And what can be done, love is so painful and happy.

No way.

Who made you love him?

But love is not the only thing in this world.

Even if he reconciles with you. You're in love with each other. So is your relationship still just love? It can already be regarded as family affection.

You only think of yourself being sad and suffering yourself. Do you tolerate what he says about your parents.?

Will your parents be sad?

What's the solution? You love him so much.

I want to persuade you to give up but I don't know where to start. People like you can't be persuaded to come.

I don't persuade you to give up and continue to suffer. You should be very clear about this, I can only give you a little advice. It's up to you to make the decision.

It's to continue to suffer..? Or give up on him?

Anyway ... It's hard for you. It hurts.

Forgive me for not being able to share your pain ... I hope you're happy.

After reading your story, I feel very worthless for you. I wonder how you can bear it if he's still so affectionate? You're still very young, how many years will it take to wake up?

Women want to find a man who can give themselves happiness, ask your heart, has he done it??? Is it worth it for you to pay so much for him??? Don't pity your love and give it to such a person easily!

I know you know all of this, but it's hard to do. Now try to make more new friends and expand your circle, and don't always spend time on him. When he asks you again, he says "no!!

Why are you so tired?

Ever thought about it? If you really marry him.

Won't you be more tired?

It's going to be so tiring for the rest of your life.

Do you think it's worth it?

Could it be that this life is lived for him?

For this kind of man, the way to conquer him is to make him think that you are really the perfect woman, and then get rid of him. Some people don't know what love is without pain once. The reason why pain is more moving than happiness is that it is more shocking than happiness.

You go back to him now, don't care about what he cares about, be as good to him as possible, think that you are the best woman in the world, and then withdraw and leave, when he begs you to change your mind, don't talk to him first, cold him for a while, let him know what it's like to be bitter for love, so that he will know what love is.

But I would advise such a man not to bother with such a thought.

Forget, he's 7 years older than you, so he should be around 30 years old, this kind of flowery man. There is usually no way, so he has to be left to fend for himself. Maybe the above aspects don't work for him, he is a veteran in the love field, so what love is there? Amusing.

Wen Yao... Give it up. Let's find another happiness!

A little sad feeling, really!

I don't know what to say, I just hope you can find happiness that truly belongs to you!

I feel the same way, and he won't even look back. I didn't even have a chance to forgive him! He didn't know how much I loved him.

And I saw that you were seven years older than me, and you gave up

7 years old, by the time you graduate from college, he'll be 30.

Let it go, he's not worth it, you've loved him so much once and even given so much, don't indulge in love with this unworthy person, you should have a new life. This time you dump him, don't be heartbroken, he can't give you happiness!

Yes! Life, just like your long story, it can be seen that your love is really hard, the friends upstairs have persuaded you so much, you, others can't save you, figure it out yourself!

You're a good girl, but you haven't met someone who really loves you, the world doesn't know, the most love is the best, I hope you meet the person who can protect your life as soon as possible.

To enhance your consciousness If you think more about his badness, you will slowly hate him and then forget about him Actually, I admire you very much, really!!

Meet a ridiculous person in a ridiculous place in a ridiculous time, and a ridiculous love affair occurs!

No one remembers you well! Give up, choice is more important than effort.