What is the reason for always having a crush on people with the same surname as you?

Because you have something in common, and Chinese people with the same surname will say that five hundred years ago they were the same, so there will be a good feeling! Chinese nationFrom the long historical process of its formation, development and evolution, it has penetrated into all areas of our lives and into everyone's hearts.

Surnames are one of the most important identity symbols in each of our lives, and they are an essential element of our daily lives. Especially the descendants of Yan and Huang who are adrift overseas have a deep desire for "home" and "roots".

The origin of the surname can be traced back toMatrilineal clansPeriod, the surname was used as a specific symbol to distinguish the clan, such as the name of the tribe or the name of the tribal leader. LegendsYellow EmperorLive on the shore of Ji water, with Ji as the surname; Emperor YanLiving next to ginger water, with ginger as the surname.

Last name and last name. Originally, it was separated, and the surname appeared earlier than the surname, and the appearance of the surname was mainly in the matrilineal clan period, while the appearance of the clan was in the patrilineal clan period. The appearance of surnames is mainly to distinguish blood relations.

Descendants of the same female ancestor are the same surname.

The word surname is composed of women and students, and the oldest surnames in our country are accompanied by female characters, such as Ji, Ji, Chang, etc., with the establishment of a slave society, the surname has become a symbol of identity.

There are only the Son of Heaven, the princes, and the princes.

Nobles such as scholars had surnames, and commoners and slaves often had names but no surnames. Later, surnames were no longer exclusive to the aristocracy, and later, surnames and surnames were combined, and after the Han Dynasty, the circulation of surnames tended to be stable.

Why was there a strict distinction between "surname" and "clan" in early antiquity? To put it simply, the distinction between "surname" and "clan" is so clear, which is the need to distinguish between men and women, between high and low, and between marriage.

Among them, other marriages may be the first original motive for the generation of surnames, and Chinese know that after men and women of the same blood line get married, the children born may be unhealthy, and their children will not be born, and out of the consideration of the prosperity of future generations and the prosperity of the family, they ask for the same surname not to marry.

In the specific selection of mates, if the "clan" is the same but the "surname" is different, it can be married; If the "surname" is the same but the "clan" is different, marriage is forbidden because they come from the same old grandmother and used to be "one family".

When Chinese meet, they always ask their names. If they find out that they have the same last name, they will feel friendlier and think that the two were "one family 500 years ago".

In fact, this is not credible. After investigating, we found that there may be hundreds of ** for a large surname. For example, the first big surname in China is "Li".

Some are from "Ying" and some are from "Zhao". During the Tang Dynasty, Li Shimin gave the founding father the surname "Li". Even in the Later Wei Dynasty, Xianbei's compound surname was changed to "Li".

The name has become the glue of the cohesion of the Chinese nation. Many overseas Chinese spend money to fix their family trees. They have to find their roots.

In the process of restoring the family tree, their connection to the hinterland will also greatly contribute to the local economy.

In fact, not only in China, but also in the world, surnames are important symbols of cultural heritage, Yuan Yida said. However, no country in the world has such a complete and profound surname inheritance as China. In the United States, although there is a fixed surname, only 200 years of history cannot form a cultural heritage.

As a result, American scholars' research on indigenous peoples is largely determined by skin color, hair color, and eye color. In the United Kingdom, surnames are relatively stable, and their ** mainly consists of borrowing Christian names directly, or adding affixes to Christian names to indicate one son or another descendant of one kind or another. There are also affixes that indicate identity before the Christian name.

There are also those that reflect the name, geomorphological or environmental characteristics of the place, as well as those that reflect identity or occupation. As for the surnames that merged the two surnames that came later, the figure was much higher. In continental Europe, surnames are often used as a sign to distinguish the place of birth.

During World War II, European armies used to divide soldiers with the same surname into small groups to enhance the cohesion and combat effectiveness of the troops.

Because the same surname will have a certain relationship, there is a sense of intimacy.

Always have a good impression of people with the same surname as you, probably because you are related by blood at a very early age.

Because I feel that it is my own family, there is an ancestor with the same surname, and there is a sense of intimacy.

A coincidence may be the inheritance of a lineage, and the family affection that blood is thicker than water is also easy to cultivate.

Because if you have the same surname, you are the same ancestor, and you can say that you are a family.

It may be because of the same surname, so the ancestors may be the same ancestor, just like relatives.

It's because a surname is from the same ancestor, so there will be a good feeling.

Inheriting the same lineage, the family affection that blood is thicker than water is also easy to cultivate, and it may be the same ancestor.

That's because the two of them may have been a family hundreds of years ago.

My dear, I received your question, you said, there will always be a good sense of Liang Liang Liang for girls with the same surname Oak Kuan. People will like to be similar to themselves, and they will hate to be similar to themselves, like each other to have their own similar sunny side, and they will also hate each other to have their own dark side, but two similar people are like a mirror, reflecting their own various aspects, so two similar people, like it very much, hate it very much, but the two people are the same, the perception is relatively strong, why do they like similar, probably so that there is a sense of familiarity, a sense of existence, and a sense of belonging. You will prefer girls with the same surname, which means that you can like her and identify with yourself through such a detail, and this sense of similarity will make you more confident that you are the same kind of person and have no sense of distance.

Whether we like someone or not, a large part of the reason is that the other person has a trait that we like, and the existence of this trait is to make you feel better, you can also expand some points that make you feel better, to find someone more suitable for you.

Recently, I met a few people with the same surname, and although it was only the first time we met, I still felt cordial. It is estimated that it is still because the blood relationship between the next generation is too strong, in fact, this is a very interesting phenomenon.

Why did Hu Kuan say that? For example, my surname is Li, Li is the surname, and in our local area, it has been rumored that there are three brothers in the descendants of Tang Gaozu, hundreds of years ago, they fled to Xiangxi, Hunan Province to escape the disaster, took root here, and then subdivided.

Immortal Qi Shize, Wandai poetry and books. Gaozu built a great cause, and the motherland is forever safe. ”

Our generations are based on these sentences, generation after generation, to this day, there are many poor pants and slender generations, that is to say, the old people with the same surname may be your descendants, and those with the same surname are younger than you, and they may be your elders.

There are fewer and fewer families that have been passed down from generation to generation, and I am really lucky to be born in a huge family, and speaking of which, I still belong to the descendants of the royal family who have passed away. It's just that the years have changed, everything has already changed, and you can only walk in front of the vertical foundation.

I think I have a special affection for people with the surname "Qian".

I'm from the Northeast, a native of the Northeast.

I heard my grandfather say, our ancestors were in Yunnan, and then with the king of Yan swept north to the north, and later settled in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia, and later moved to Tongjiang Town in our county, and then moved to our township, the ancestral graves in our township, are all my grandfather from Tongjiang with a flat shoulder, nearly 200 miles of road, he carried the flat burden, step by step back, and then dug out the grave with his own hands, and buried them one by one.

As for the grave in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia, he didn't know that it was **, and he hadn't been to Chifeng.

Maybe many friends in the Guannai don't know, in fact, Inner Mongolia Chifeng is also the Northeast, my family has moved to the Northeast, it has been more than 20 generations now, of course I am a native of the Northeast.

My surname is Qian. Although Qian ranks second among the hundred surnames, Qian is not a big surname, Qian is mainly concentrated in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, in our northeast, Qian is really a rare surname, so, if I meet a person surnamed Qian in the northeast, IThere is a sense of closeness to "500 years ago".

But that's not the only reason I feel close.

I heard my grandfather say that the reason why there are few people on my family's family tree is not because there are few births, but because there are many people who go out to make a living, and never come back, no one knows whether they are dead or alive, and they don't know if they have grandchildren or grandchildren, so there is no family tree.

The last people in my family to run away were my great-grandfather's uncle and grandmother, who stole the medical books that belonged to my great-grandfather's father, ran away, and never returned. At that time, my grandfather's father was still young, and he had just learned a little medical book, but he lost it, and his father passed away early, so he had to stop studying medicine and switch to carpenter.

It is precisely because there is such a story in my family that when I meet people with the surname Qian, I always think,He's not going to be related to me, is she? It can't be the descendants of our ancestors who left our relatives, right?

Gu is my last name.

Gu Li said: For people who like you, your little shortcomings and willfulness are cute, and for people who don't like you, your little freshness and elegance are all contrived.

Gu Cheng said: The grass is bearing its seeds, and the wind is shaking its seeds. It's beautiful when we stand and don't speak.

Our surname Gu seems to be particularly trapped by love, but I just like those who are trapped by love, don't you think the moment of their dying struggle is very beautiful? I also like my name very much, every time I am in a strange environment, I am always the first to be remembered, they say that my name is very good, as if I came out of the **, at the same time I also like my own pretentiousness, like my own yelling, like my own pride and inferiority. And sometimes I like to write some messy articles, which others seem to be talented, but in fact I am just a channel to vent.

In fact, I have heard bad things and rumors about her in the class, how high she was at the beginning, and now she is so colorful, I am impressed that she still doesn't care. I think that girl is not simple, I am not a person who believes in gossip, and he has the same surname as me, maybe the two of us are the same family, so it is not good to kill my siblings, so I tried to contact her, so I felt that this girl was just a cold and hot type, every time she took a big bag of food, she would give me half of it, maybe he was just grateful to me when everyone excluded her, don't do it. Actually, I also have a deep understanding of him, so I will look towards him, not to mention that she is a good girl.

She is also a very brave girl, a boy chases him, that boy can't be more ordinary, but unexpectedly she agreed, she said, he is good to me. The boy's academic performance was at the top, but after they were together, their academic performance declined, and our homeroom teacher smelled something different, so he called their parents and persuaded them to quit. At this time, the girl took the initiative to take on everything and did a review in our class.

I had a flat face, but for some reason I was distressed. The boy didn't do anything, what really chilled him was that the boy didn't have the courage to face everything with her. The people of our Gu clan are infatuated and affectionate.