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I still like to go out every once in a while, even if it's just one person left.

When a relationship ends, two wounded hearts always need time to be comforted. Perhaps the biggest distress after a breakup is that there are too many beautiful and unforgettable things in love. Even though there was only one person left, I still like to go to the places we used to go together.

There are as many memories in the heart as there are habits in life. In my life alone, I have become accustomed to eating supper and skipping breakfast, but when two people come together, eating three meals a day on time has become our habit. Even after two people break up, I always get up in the morning and make myself a breakfast.

I used to like to play games, but after the two of us were together, he always liked to travel with me, and I slowly forgot the beauty of the game and eating chicken, and liked to see the scenery outside.

This habit is still maintained to this day, and every once in a while, I like to go outside and take a look.

There are so many habits that I haven't changed, and I find that I am no longer the person I once was. Falling in love can always make a difference, and I've really changed so much in that relationship. From food, clothing, housing and transportation to my attitude towards many things, I have become different from my former self.

But I'm used to this kind of life, and the love time of the past few years has made me a different me. I didn't want to change again, and I didn't want to change back to the way I was.

Maybe that's what I like best, it's just that my favorite person isn't with me anymore.

There are always many helplessness in life, there are always many confusions and wandering in life, and I staggered forward, hoping to find my way in the fog. I don't know whether the road ahead will be smooth or bumpy, but I always have to walk with my heart to be worthy of myself.

Everything after falling out of love will be blown away in the wind, and all my life habits are just for a better life.

After the breakup, it was indeed very painful, but there will also be some sweetness left in our hearts, I once quit smoking because of the last relationship, and I haven't smoked anymore until now. Sometimes I can't help but think about him.

After falling out of love, I still didn't get rid of my habit of eating coriander, because I ate coriander with him after I was with him.

After falling out of love, I still haven't changed the habit of fitness, because when I was in love before, the two of us basically went to the gym every day, and now I am used to it.

I haven't broken the habit of looking at each other's circle of friends every day, and I want to know what his daily life is like.

This is because there are many couples who are not suitable for being together, the three views of two people are inconsistent, or because of some practical reasons, so there will be many couples who break up.

Because two people are together, they no longer have any feelings, and they are not happy together, so they choose to break up.

This is because there are many couples who are not suitable for being together, often quarrel, two people get along unpleasantly, or because of some practical problems, so it will lead to many couples breaking up.

Some people say: The best way to forget a relationship is to start the next relationship, but many people will be entangled in the previous relationship, like a wounded kitten hiding in the corner and licking its wounds, sad and emotional. Generally speaking, this type of person is because they didn't think about these points after the breakup.

1. The beginning of the relationship is because you are good or he is good?

Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, in the final analysis, they are attracted to each other, or they have a good image, or they have connotation, or they have a good personality, etc. When love sprouts, the shining point of our body is our charm, if you were attracted to the other party first, you pursued him, he just happened to meet the emotional window period or was moved by your behavior and accepted you, when he sobered up, recognized the reality, he will think that you are not what he wants, he chose to be with you just because he was lonely, and you just happened to be there. So a breakup is inevitable, and it's just a matter of time.

2. Are you bad, or are you really not suitable?

The party who is broken up often finds the answer to the breakup in itself, **in the end** is not good with me**. In fact, sometimes, it's not that you're bad, it's that you're really not suitable, it may be your character, it may be your values, and it may be your habits. When two people are together, if everyone has a strong personality, they are all impulsive, short-tempered, and they have to attack each other when they quarrel, and no one is willing to admit defeat, then even if they are together, they will not feel happy.

3. Do you want the process of falling in love, or do you expect the result?

In a love, everyone will be full of expectations, some people will break up while walking, and some people will walk into marriage. The party who was broken up felt that the pain was actually because he was kicked out of the car halfway, and his sense of expectation was broken, but he couldn't understand that love is sometimes a process of continuous screening and optimization, and breaking up is just that you eliminate the wrong person and make you one step closer to your ideal. Each of us is unique, but not perfect people, we all have shortcomings, in love the other person's love is enough to tolerate everything about you, if not, why reluctantly?

Falling out of love will make me understand that men are not worth it, and it will also make me understand that I don't have to give so much to a man, and it will also make me understand that I don't care so much about this relationship, and it will also make me understand that I deserve someone better, and it will also make me give up this relationship.

1. Nothing is always your own.

When two people are together, they think that we will get married, have children, and then live for a long time, thinking that no matter what happens, the other party will face it with them, thinking that her thoughts will be the same as herself, how do you know that you are wrong, everyone will look at the problem and angle differently, so you need to maintain and operate, if everything is taken for granted, it is very dangerous, until you lose each other, you will know that nothing is always your own.

2. Learn to face up to your mistakes.

Most of the reasons why couples break up are because the other party breaks their hearts and dies to the other party, that is to say, they have made a lot of mistakes before but they don't know it, and they know that they have fallen out of love, and they suddenly realize how immature they are at that time, how naïve, how unreasonable, and they will think that they must correct the mistakes they made before, and if they have the opportunity to get back together, they will definitely not make them again, and they will really cherish them.

3. Learn to alleviate the pain of falling out of love.

It's very uncomfortable when you fall out of love, you feel like the sky is going to fall, you don't want to talk, you don't want to see people, you just want to find a quiet place to be sad alone, but once you come out of lovelorn, you find that it's just that, there's no need to make yourself so uncomfortable for people and things in the past, you should clean up your mood and start again, even if you start a relationship next time or fall out of love again, you won't be too sad, after all, it's someone who has come over.

Don't make a mistake to contact after a breakup, you have to go neatly, and going low to seek reconciliation will only make people cheap. If the other party is determined to break up, there is no room for recovery, and even if they get back together, it will be difficult to return to their original appearance. Don't think of yourself as a saint, go and save someone who doesn't want to be saved by you at all.

After falling out of love, I learned that in a relationship, I should not rely on each other too much, and should be independent, whether it is financial or spiritual, so as not to be hurt. Don't blindly give when you're in love, you can play a little temper with your boyfriend when you're in love, don't always be special.

I fell out of love after breaking up with my object, which made me understand the truth, it's not that I haven't worked hard enough, I really can't accept my heart, no matter how good I do, in his eyes, as long as I make a little mistake, then I may feel that he will criticize you, because no matter how good a person is, he will not praise you, as long as you make a little mistake, really, some mentality will be extremely exposed, thinking that you can't do this little thing well.

Falling out of love after a breakup will make me understand what true love is, how to maintain love in love, only after the breakup do I know how to cherish each other more, if I can start from scratch, it should make this relationship more beautiful.

Falling out of love will make me understand that I can't just think about my own feelings in a relationship, but also learn to think about another person.

After the breakup, falling out of love will make me understand that there are really people in this world who don't know how to cherish me. I'm such a good girl, missing it is his loss.

If you are still in love after breaking up, it means that you have not let go, since you have broken up, accept this reality, come out of this relationship, and live a fulfilling life without thinking nonsense.

Start another relationship quickly, the sooner the better. Focus can make you forget the pain, normal people will have this feeling of not forgetting and suffering, in fact, this is not the love of the ex, but you do not have a replacement object, hurry into a new love, is the best solution.

Find yourself something to do, keep yourself busy, and you won't have time to think about the things you used to do. Go to exercise every day, read books, learn to recharge, enrich yourself, and feel happy, after a while, you will forget the past.

If you really can't forget it after a breakup, then go for it, no matter what the result is, at least don't leave yourself with regrets. What if he also has a crush on you, so a lot of things have to be done to know the result.

I think the reason may be that you haven't let go of it, you are still obsessed with the past, if you have the opportunity you can go back to him again, if there is no possibility of getting back together, I suggest you forget the past and start over, don't waste time and energy on things that don't make sense.

Since you have broken up, you have to be simple, don't break the thread, otherwise it will not be good for both parties, and you must have broken up because of irreconcilable contradictions, didn't you?

After the breakup, you should continue to look forward, don't be obsessed with the past, you should have a better life, participate in more social activities, or cultivate your own interests and hobbies, so that you can forget the unpleasantness of the past.

There's no point in breaking up and still dwelling on it, you should force yourself to come out. You can go on a trip and change your mood in a different place. You can also devote yourself to another relationship, and you will forget the previous relationship faster.

Stay away from everything related to him, you can read books by yourself, do what you are interested in, enrich yourself, and make yourself better, so that you don't have time to think about him anymore, and after a long time, you will naturally forget about him.

If you don't do it indifferently, maybe it's okay.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you like to break up your feelings, so as to play the role of empathy.

6.Give yourself a bright smile every day and tell yourself that "tomorrow is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

Let me tell you this, if you have been very happy with him before, and you have not quarreled often, he will do this, and I advise you to relax and give up. I'm not qualified to scold him. If he's a very sensible, sensible person, like you, you should look for the reason in yourself.

And I guess his family also plays a lot of role. I'm in a similar situation to you. I've just had a lot of things happening, and here I want to say to you and to myself, there is something to give.