Can a couple who used to love each other still be friends after a breakup?

Dear landlord.

We'll be happy to answer for you.

I've had your problem before.

Here's my own.

Hope it can help the landlord.

If two people are serious, they are really in love

It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

If both of them are just having fun

You may also be friends after the breakup

What if two people become friends?

Look at the people you once loved

And now you don't love each other anymore

Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

It only hurts more

It's better to be a stranger

Let time fade everything that once was

Just let it be a rainbow in memory

I wish you happiness

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

If my own.

Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my own experience, love can make you do anything for the other person, say anything, love is incoherent.

Pay for each other, do anything to do something meaningful! Even one person will not be alone!

Friend: When love is a thing of the past, pain is inevitable But we have to learn to give up, because there are many wonderful things in life There are many things that love you or are worthy of your love In the face of lost love, we must know how to give up

Some people say that lovers can't be friends after breaking up, because they have hurt each other, they can't be enemies, because they have loved each other deeply, so the general way to deal with it is to become strangers Maybe this is the best way, but it's also quite sad!

It is dangerous to forget with hatred, when love becomes a thing of the past, what is left is not hate, but indifference Treat everything you have experienced with a calm heart, you will become very calm I hope mine can help you get out of your current mood and start a new life from scratch! Pursue your own love!!

Zhang Ailing once said: "There are only two possibilities to be friends after breaking up, one is that two people have never really loved, and the other is that at least one party is willing to pay for each other silently." "In reality, you can still be friends after a breakup, nothing more than these three situations:

Emotions are deep and cannot be parted; The love is not broken, and the lotus root is broken; I've never been in love with Ben.

Social psychology research has shown that both parties to a breakup can only continue to be friends after they agree that they are no longer suitable for a relationship and agree on how they will "be friends" in the future. In the experience of most people who have come before, you can't be friends after a breakup. experienced a relationship, because two people don't get along well, they see too much of each other's bad things when they are in love, and they just want to go their separate ways and not bother each other after breaking up.

What is a breakup? The encyclopedia explains it like this: those who originally meant holding hands are now separated; By extension, it means to sever a relationship.

The metaphor refers to the separation of two lovers or partners who are in love with each other due to abnormal external factors. For example, the breakup of this pair of good friends is something that others do not expect.

Neither man nor woman should give up intimate contact with each other, but this does not mean that they should not associate as ordinary friends. The essence of a breakup is the transformation of private boundaries, which are the norms and restrictions used to define "how others should treat you". Whether two people are lovers, friends, or something else is actually determined by the boundary.

The boundaries between lovers are close and thin, and even to a certain extent merge with each other; And the boundaries between friends will be harder, and the distance from each other will be greater. In other words, the key to whether you can be friends after a breakup lies in whether both parties can maintain appropriate boundaries and respect each other's new boundaries.

According to the survey, one-third of Facebook users check their ex's page, and half of those who say yes admit that they go to their social pages to find their ex and their new love**. However, studies have shown that the behavior of checking the other person's social page will hinder the emotional recovery after a breakup more than calling and messaging the other party. My friend Xiao A completely belongs to the above situation, after the breakup, he still pays attention to his ex's various social platforms, even obtains information from his friends, and tries various ways to contact his ex, even if the other party refuses and can't go back to the past, he still insists on being by the other party's side as a friend.

I think the "friend" in Xiao A's mouth is more of a blind silent giving, based on the previous emotional foundation is impossible to be an ordinary friend, rather than such a "friend" as an excuse entanglement, trying to find opportunities for yourself, it is not as natural as an ordinary friend.

There are many reasons for this.

First of all, although you broke up and you deleted his WeChat, your boyfriend is reluctant to let go of this relationship and is reluctant to let go of you, so he will not delete your WeChat, I hope that one day you can reconcile.

The second is that your boyfriend has a lot of energy, he won't be as stingy as you, and he will delete WeChat when he breaks up, can't he be friends if he breaks up? After all, the two of them have been in love with each other before, and they are also the most familiar people, and if they delete WeChat, they will become strangers, which would be too far away.

In the end, and the worst, is that he doesn't care about you, maybe in your heart you are a couple, but now you have broken up, maybe in his heart you are just a friend of his, a better friend than ordinary friends, and he doesn't get angry when he leaves, so he doesn't delete you.