The teacher mistakenly thinks that I am in early love, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-04-09
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I remember when I was in junior high school, a boy liked me, and he always talked to me after class, and I didn't care, but the teacher called us out and taught me a lesson indiscriminately, and I cried aggrieved.

    Later, she asked us to write our reflections in our diaries. I don't know what the boy wrote, I just remember that I happened to see a poem by Wang Guozhen at that time, so I wrote the poem: "Untitled" "He and her just walked together It became an essay question, classmates do it first, teachers do it later, parents do it last, there are three more articles in the world, and the world is less beautiful."

    If your teacher knows how to educate children, explain to her that you will focus on learning and will not fall in love. If your teachers are like my teacher, ignore them, and it's useless to explain. This kind of teacher is too paranoid and rotten.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, my opinion on puppy love.

    There is no sooner or later in love, as long as you have this kind of thought, you can fall in love no matter how old you are.

    It's not love that's limiting age, it's marriage, and LZ says you're in early love.

    I don't think it's anything, LZ is a boy or a girl.

    If you are a boy, LZ has to work hard for the woman you love, and there is a woman behind a successful man.

    Puppy love isn't scary, it's how you think of it.

    It doesn't matter if it's a girl, you can learn how to get along with a man, and it's more feminine.

    I think if you don't delay your studies (work), you should go with the flow, LZ is the first love, the first love is beautiful, but also the purest love, true love, this memory must be cherished, okay LZ, I hope you don't delay your study (work) and you GF BF get along happily.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Those who are clear are self-purifying, regardless of what the teacher thinks. It's not that the teacher thinks you're in early love, you're really in love. If you really think this is not going to have a good impact, take a chance to explain it to the teacher. If I were you, I would ignore the teacher's thoughts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Say it to the teacher simply and clearly.

    I xx absolutely don't like him. It doesn't interest him either. He's just wishful thinking! ”

    It's a bit ruthless though. But this is the easiest and fastest way to do it.

    It's not good that things get big.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your teacher says anything to you, you can ask your parents to clean him up, and the current teacher can't get used to it, the more used to it, the more fucked up he is!

    But if he doesn't say anything, or to put it mildly, talk to him and tell him the truth of the matter. Teacher, he has to be polite to you, so you don't have to get used to him!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First, you and the teacher to explain clearly... Just say she likes me, I don't care about her... And so on and so forth. Second, no matter what the teacher does, there is nothing to do... 3. If you like that guy.

    Let's fall in love! If it's an elementary school, it's better not to. Junior high school is also the best.

    High school is okay... Fourth, make it clear to the man... Think of these things for yourself!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell him to talk to the teacher. Let's be clear.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't worry too much, if the teacher asks you to say no, don't confess the boy, be avoidant, don't have too much contact with the boy, the teacher will naturally understand after a long time. Don't affect your studies, don't become a psychological burden on yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    ..The teacher has evidence?。。 Now the teachers are nervous... High school and college teachers don't care... Anyway, you don't have a handle, what are you afraid of.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Paying attention to him, the teacher is now gossiping more than reporters

    It's good that your parents support you

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't worry about it, otherwise it will get darker and darker.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take the initiative to talk to the teacher and make it clear to the guy that you don't like him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Regardless of him, the teacher is like this now!Love has nothing to do.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Wait for the teacher to find you

    You say that people have a crush on me

    I didn't talk to him

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Learn from the United States against North Korea, cold treatment!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Keep your distance from the male classmates in front of the teacher, so as not to be misunderstood and affect others. If it's a non-existent thing, it won't take long for it to be self-defeating, and the body is not afraid of shadows, and it's important to read at the moment

    After learning about the child's early love, it is necessary to do a good job of self-psychological adjustment and strengthen the guidance of the child. Be calm and prudent, not impatient and reprimand; Be able to face up to early love and analyze the reasons for children's early love with a calm mind; We should treat children with equality, sincerity and trust, and respect, care and understand children. If parents have a psychological state of anger, anger, anger, etc., do not vent it on their children.

    Characteristics of puppy love.

    1. Hazy.

    Adolescents are not clear about the outcome of the development of early love, and adolescents in early love only desire to have separate contact with their lovers, but lack a clear understanding of the formation of future families, dealing with the relationship between love and school, and distinguishing between friendship and love.

    2. Contradiction.

    Teenagers who are in early love are full of contradictions, they want to contact their favorite lovers, but they are also afraid of being discovered by their parents. It can be said that pleasure and pain coexist in the process of early love. For the puppy lover who has a crush, this contradiction is also manifested in the contradiction of whether or not to declare love to the admirer.

    3. Variability.

    Love is volatile and unstable, as adolescents often fail to manage relationships.

    skills and experience, resulting in a lack of mutual trust between the two parties; Relationships are generally not sustainable. It is this that often causes psychological pain on both sides.

    The above content reference: Encyclopedia - Puppy Love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I also encountered this situation today, I was misunderstood by the principal, and I fainted. The best thing to do is not to play with just that one boy, otherwise it will cause suspicion and speculation. Let's be open and bold to make friends!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This classmate, your cousin was misunderstood for early love? That's very simple, you tell your cousin to explain it to the teacher, and talk to the teacher about it? Or tell your cousin to calm down and think about it, why is it misunderstood by the teacher, after all, the bell must be tied to the bell!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I have also encountered this kind of thing, general actions prove everything, you can make your cousin gossip as a small spice in life, why explain things that are not there in the first place, there is no need at all, the most important thing is to be yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I really sympathize with you, well, if not, you tell your cousin to be brave, first explain to his dad what is going on, and when his dad is clear, let his dad and her go and explain to the teacher.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's because the teacher thinks too much, is it that as long as boys and girls are together, they are in love? In fact, you can come with both parents, and then you can find classmates, they know best! After saying that if they are really in love, did the teacher catch them on the spot for intimate action or walk together after school?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, there are some things that don't need to be explained, the more you explain, the more you can't understand, go your own way and let others say it, you are not afraid of shadows, you can do your own thing, and you have to stand the test!! Trust you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your cousin thinks so, but the boy is not necessarily, and the girl is better to have less sex with the boy.

    Or stay up, stay up until the first year of junior high school, forget about it, make more friends, maybe it's the best. Choose.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think the best way is to let parents take their children to the school to find the teacher to make it clear, after all, the child is still young, this kind of title must feel very wronged on the head, parents come forward, is the best solution.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Explain to them clearly, be calm, don't be in a hurry, the more anxious you are, the more you can't explain clearly, his teacher is really annoying!!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You ask your cousin to explain to your parents, and then explain to the teacher, you see that your cousin should be very well-behaved, and the teacher will believe it, and you can also ask the boy to explain to the teacher together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello to the man, come and teach your cousin, what's wrong with this, do they have excessive behavior, no, has the teacher ever read a book, then he has taken a political class, don't you know the normal interaction between men and women, isn't it okay to discuss problems, what are there men and women in the class, just ask, she thinks it's ancient, you just tell her... And being a teacher doesn't just think what the two of them are doing, right?,So what kind of teacher should you be... Can't think rationally---

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Actually, this is not a big deal, how can you give birth to your cousin teacher if the man and the woman are not together. Just talk to the teacher like this.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Those who are clear are self-purifying, and don't explain anything, and explanation is a cover-up.

    The more you say it's not, the more adults say it's darker.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In fact, you can find time to communicate with the teacher, and I believe the teacher will understand, as long as it is not a teacher who thinks wildly.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can ask the male classmate to go with your cousin and talk to the teacher and explain clearly that if the teacher is still wronged, the principal's office of the political and educational office does not eat rice. --It's all Chinese education! There are too many loopholes, and I don't know how many good students have become gangsters, alas.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Not explaining is the best explanation. Those who are clear are self-purifying.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Ask your cousin to explain it to her dad.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't know if what I said could be helpful when I saw your question, but I'll try to explain it as much as I can. I'll guess some things first, I don't know if it's right, first of all, your cousin's parents must not be very knowledgeable, or maybe illiterate. Second, the teacher must be over forty years old, and he is the kind of person who is very closed to the world.

    Thirdly, the guy (and your cousin) who had a good relationship with your cousin as I said upstairs may have a crush on each other, but you know it's not love between a man and a woman. Then there are three tasks that you need to do. One, your cousin's parents find someone from the village or a relative who is a college student (the higher the education, the better), and you explain all this to him, and let him explain the situation to her parents, and as far as I know, the trust that the less knowledgeable have in the knowledgeable person, or the kind of self-belief that is very high, can play a big role.

    Two. It is the teacher with the elm head, should be well educated, the child comes to school to be educated, the child has an accident, you don't solve it yourself, tell the parents, ask you to beg, if you can't teach, get out of the house as soon as possible, let him observe well, and solve it in the most appropriate way, and can not hurt the two children, at this time the child's mind is the most fragile, the most sensitive, as for the specifics you control. Three.

    It's your cousin, if you want to tell him the facts, maybe he can't even figure out what it feels like to be himself, so you have to understand what the relationship between people is like in the healthiest way, and tell her when and what kind of situation should love. It's up to you to do that, and that's all I can say. Hope it helps you a little.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Go straight to the teacher and talk to him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    1.First of all, for students, the most important task is to study, maybe to a certain extent, there is nothing wrong with early love, but if it affects the normal learning of two people, then it will inevitably be regretted in the future, which requires individuals to have a more objective understanding of early love. 2.

    For teachers, to a certain extent, it does not force two people not to fall in love, after all, many times it may cause counterproductive results. So even if the puppy love is discovered by the teacher, it may be to talk to two people, or ask the family to learn about the situation, which is also a normal thing. 3.

    If you have realized that early love is wrong, then once you are discovered by the teacher, it is better to take the initiative to let go with the other party, after all, you are relatively young, and you can't really understand the meaning of love, to a certain extent, it may just be a joke with the game coder, so it is only a matter of time before you break up.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If the teacher finds out that you are in early love, you should take the initiative to cooperate with the teacher to solve it:

    1.Be honest with your behavior: First of all, your partner should be honest about your behavior and realize that early love is not a good behavior, but will affect your academic and physical and mental health.

    2.Listen to the teacher's feedback: Listen to the teacher's feedback, including the influence of early love behavior on yourself, the cultivation of the concept of love, and the correct handling of the relationship between men and women.

    3.Communicate with parents: Communicate with parents or parents in a timely manner, so that they can understand their own situation and accept the guidance and learning of parents and teachers.

    4.Adjust thinking and attitudes: change wrong values and attitudes, and enhance personal self-discipline, self-reflection and self-control. We should focus on our studies, cherish our study time, and do not easily distract ourselves from things other than studying.

    5.Focus on learning: enrich yourself in learning, improve your comprehensive quality, such as language skills, social skills, thinking ability, etc., improve your competitiveness in school and society, and show your positive attitude after correcting mistakes with practical actions.

    In short, if the teacher finds out that you are in early love, you should first be honest about your behavior, listen to the opinions and suggestions of the teacher and parents, and actively correct your mistakes. At the same time, adjust your thoughts and attitudes, focus your time and energy on your studies, and do what you are supposed to do.

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