What should I do if my boyfriend mistakenly thinks that the conditions at home are good

There is an article in my QQ space called "What will you do if your family doesn't agree with you being with your boyfriend" Parents and children can't accompany you all your life, and it's your husband who is old with you! It is the person you love and love you, and you may invisibly bring him a lot of pressure, making him feel conflicted and painful! He has been working hard to be with you in the future, I am also a man, my girlfriend has also told me similar problems, often asked, often said, I am really uncomfortable, very depressed, but after a long time, I feel in my heart that she may not necessarily be with me in the future, she still did not recognize me, I really gave everything for my girlfriend, my heart is broken, I hope you can say it well, you don't tell him directly, you can say it lightly in the conversation, just like saying that you leaked your mouth, Of course, it was deliberately said that he leaked his mouth, hehe!

If your husband loves you, he won't care, grasp the proportion, and this age is something that the boyfriend must consider like "house" and "future residence", you tell him that these are not only harmful, you also let him recognize the situation, so that he can work hard, you hope that you will be together, and the lovers will eventually become married!

Really talk about the family conditions, together I personally think it's better not to convince first, you said that he kept asking if you want to come to the son-in-law or something, or observe for a period of time and then think about it! Otherwise, you will have a miserable life in the future!

Give him time, wait for him to be fine, you are together, it's not good, he is soaring, maybe he won't want you", and then you work together, you tell him that according to their rural parlance, you have to ask for a bride price", and tell him directly that my family is also a working family, and I will have to rely on him to live in the future, and everything will follow fate.

1: Straight to the point. 2: Consume or sow seeds.

It definitely works, and what my brother gave was a strategic direction.

When you are together, you consciously show that you are very thrifty and even a little picky, one is to test him, and the other is to make the transition to revealing the real conditions of the family, and after he has withstood the test, you will do the work at home to dispel the concerns of the family.

You need to be cautious when getting married, everything is false, the main thing is to look at the person.

Confession: True love has to withstand setbacks.

In fact, this is not a problem at all. After reading the question, I felt that the reality of society had taken over the heart of the questioner. Earlier, the questioner pointed out that her boyfriend's family is poor, the conditions are not good, and the education level is low, which also shows that the boyfriend's economic conditions, family background, and education are not optimistic, and the questioner has already made a self-judgment in his heart.

It's just to say the judgment in your heart through the mouths of everyone and find a step for yourself.

Having said that, the author himself still believes in love very much. Because, only when a person's heart is full of desire for love can he not be bound by the world. If you really feel that he is good to you and are willing to go with him, whether rich or poor, you will not ask such a question here that is not a problem.

Since you care so much about your boyfriend's financial foundation, family background, and educational qualifications, you shouldn't be stuck with whether your boyfriend is good to you. Because, in love, both parties know best what they need from each other, and bystanders have no say at all. Today, here I am speaking my opinion as a bystander.

That's all. Break up: If from the perspective of people's self-interest, since the boyfriend can't meet his own needs, there is no need to be too nostalgic. Because there is a saying:

Poor couples mourn everything. The ancients also gave us an answer. But after so many years of getting along, can't it stand the test of reality?

Can love be eaten as food? Can people who love each other grow old together? It's all about your own heart.

Don't break up: Believe in your boyfriend and believe that he can give you happiness. If your boyfriend is self-motivated, unwilling to accept the status quo, hopes to make you happy through his own efforts, is reluctant to let you marry someone, and wants to take care of you for the rest of his life. That kind of man should be worthy of your life.

The answers given by everyone are insignificant, and the key is the self-awareness and self-judgment of the parties.

Love is a matter of two people, but in fact, the people around him have played a great catalytic role!

After reading what you said, I'll tell you the truth, you said that you were afraid that you would meet someone better than him in this year, but in fact, you don't really want to be with him. If you really wanted to be with him, first, you wouldn't say that, and second, you wouldn't have so many concerns! You say that your family doesn't agree, but you have a mouth, can't you convince them?

Even if you find someone who is rich, but are you sure that if you have money, he will be good to you now? When two people live, they have to rely on their own struggle, and blindly rely on their families, do you think it will be safe?

I think that the poor economic conditions of the boyfriend should not be an obstacle for two people to be together, although the experience foundation of two people together is very important, but it is not necessary to have a solid economic foundation for two people to be together, because a happy life can rely on two people to work together. The important thing is whether the man is self-motivated and hard enough, if he is self-motivated and willing to work hard and truly loves you, I think this man can be married.